How does allowing states to define marriage within their jurisdiction, instead of forcing them to go along with whatever another state has decided to accept as marriage, constitute not extending federal benefits to homosexual couples? With the federal definition of marriage in section 3 found unconstitutional, I expect that we would fall back on state laws to determine whether a couple is married. Which means that any explicit approval or denial of same-sex marriage is going to piss off about half the people in the country. That's not a small number. If money is an issue for unrecognized same-sex couples, why is it not a concern for opposite-sex couples? If there are more recognized couples and the same amount of cash in benefits to go around, somebody's losing out to make up.