Then .. become preppy? That's what I did. Now I have a hot preppy girlfriend. Yay? I feel sorry for you, because that's truly pathetic. Wait. When I mean act preppy, I mean, change your clothing, and who you talk to, which doesn't mean get rid of your old friends, either. I don't change how I act - I still act completely nerdy, I just know when and when not to do it. I don't talk about what a cataphract is with most of the girls, regardless of whether they're preppy, because I know most people will instantly label you as a nerd. Another thing I should add is humor and self-confidence. Everyone loves a good joke, and most don't like to hear 'I hate .. blah blah.' Didn't know it'd get miscontrued so much. >_> Sorry everyone.