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If they cause any trouble I just quit seeing them, though before then at least I get to have some fun and enjoy things while they last :P But ultimately this rarely happens anyway since like I said, most of the time they filter themselves out before I even pitch a meet lol. It's not uncommon for them to respond to my opener with something lovely like "Wow you seem insecure" or "Yeah I can see why women don't like you" lol. Such enchanting young ladies :lol:

Are you sure? The term "feminazi girl" isn't particularly endearing. If she's a low-end FB it's irrelevant

girls like that are rare

On the topic of basket cases, I knew a girl who used to write fan fiction about me in which I would usually hunt down and murder her friends after they abandoned her in some way. Often I would kill myself at the end of the stories. The stories often included other little fetishes and had occasional drawings, e.g. of me executing one of her friends. I know this because she used to leave them in my locker at school. So, to be fair to Horatio, nutters do exist. was she hot???

Because there's no harm in having one as a low-end FB

And even if a girl is crazy, you'll probably know very quickly and at that point you have the choice of whether or not it's worth the risk to move forward w/ her With OKC for example, most of the crazy feminazi girls will explicitly brag about their crazy beliefs on their profile. If I message them without reading their profile, they're usually extremely hostile from the get-go. So for some strange reason, I never seem to end up on dates with these types of women. Hmm, wonder why. :P

What's abc and r9k

In Horatio's case, it's pretty obvious that he's being completely debilitated by this irrational fear of something with less than a 2% chance of happening. I would go as far to say he is just making excuses for more reasons not to try putting himself out there. Considering that we (the people of this thread) have offered him very reasonable, rational advice. #sayingitlikeitis That's generally why the virgins ITT remain virgins until they grow a pair and start taking the advice they're given :P

Also: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2013/12/22/the-2-rule/ That post is gold. In Horatio's case, it's pretty obvious that he's being completely debilitated by this irrational fear of something with less than a 2% chance of happening.

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/01/22/5-ways-avoid-false-rape-accustations/ tl;dr: FRAs generally only happen to guys who: - have one night stands - hook up on the same night that they met a woman - hook up under the influence of drugs - make the woman feel used

Stop worrying about what she SAYS. Just pay attention to what she DOES.

Relevant quote:

It will be hard for you to be successful if you continue to disagree with the advice of those who are successful :P

It's kind of a complicated topic because one's success in dating as man is extremely dependent upon how the man views himself. He can be poor and ugly but if he's got high self esteem and a healthy belief system, he will be successful in dating. Conversely, if he's rich and good looking but has poor self esteem and bad beliefs about dating, his dating life will largely be beyond his control. Since it's a subjective matter, that basically means everybody has the tools they need to be successful... but whether or not they choose to use those tools correctly is another story. Can everyone get their dating life under their control? Yes, just like anyone can become financially successful if they put their minds to it. But will they actually go forward and become successful? Not usually; but not because it's actually impossible, but because they think it's impossible. Hope that makes sense >_>

Yeah you're about 9 years too late on getting a reasonable sample size lol

This is the same kind of thing that's currently making me hesitate in the whole TA/student situation I mentioned earlier. Definitely not interested in anything serious considering I'll be moving on after this semester, and I'm not afraid of that per se, but the fact that we'll have to see each other most days no matter what happens combined with me feeling kinda responsible due to being rather older is making it a bit difficult. Although it's not quite the same as having someone all over you and resisting that; more like having potential there but with me being kinda responsible for making something happen. I guess I can share an update though: Last weekend I was rolling with a crew of dude friends and decided to go home when they left for a party I wasn't interested in, only to run across this girl on my way. She invited me to go with her to some other stuff and we ended up back at her apartment with a bunch of people smoking a bong until 3 am. It was definitely kind of tense, and the touch barrier was broken and all that, but it was a weird setting and I was reading the room and decided to play it safe and just go home. Yeah yeah, I chickened out, but it's not like I can swing and miss and then never see her again, no harm no foul. I really don't want to screw up a working relationship. tl;dr this whole thing is running really hot/cold and I kind of dig it (rpg you get me rite) even though I should probably stop waffling and go for it or drop it. If you're going to be forced to interact with her consistently then I personally wouldn't pursue anything with her just because that sounds like drama waiting to happen. But I realize that some of you guys think that sounds fun and exciting so if that's the case then go for it :P wait was this addressed towards me? your assessment isn't quite accurate. it's not like genuinely deep down I really want to have sex with her. right now I'm seriously just ambivalent about it in general, but I know it's gonna happen like the next time we hang out anyways, because she clearly really wants to and I'm just fine with it, and I know I'll enjoy it once it happens. I think the reason I'm not rushing and really excited about it happening is because 1) I'm not super attracted to her 2) she has a boyfriend who doesn't know about me and 3) she seems very needy which is kind of a turnoff for me (and most people in general really). like I feel I should be working for it a little more I guess? regardless I realize the direction it's going in, and we're both generally happy with it, and that's all that matters. If you're genuinely not completely attracted to her, that's fine. But otherwise, it's still literally a perfect textbook FB situation. The fact that she's needy and "easy" is irrelevant if she's just a FB rather than a long-term romantic partner. But as long as you genuinely don't believe that you'll regret your decision either way, then yeah whatever you choose is fine.

TBH though I'm kind of inferring from your posts that deep down you'd love to mess around with her, but you won't because you're afraid to for various reasons. In other words, this sounds like a golden opportunity for you that you're passing up out of fear.

Sounds perfect for a FB. You invite her over, sleep with her, then hang out and talk with her for like an hour or two before you send her home. Nothing romantic, just two people who enjoy each others company and bodies :P

Voted no for GE simply because I have no qualms with the current system but at least GE will make selling my Miscellania and NMZ herbs more convenient.

Americans are constantly being conditioned to believe sexual imagery is awesome, yet sex itself is taboo. As a result of this, women are afraid of sex because they don't want to be called a slut and men are afraid of sex because they don't want to be called creepy. So there's lots of sexually unsatisfied and confused people out there. The satisfied ones are those who risk Getting called sluts or creeps in order to get what they want.

Yes. In America the vast majority of men have no clue how women work and have been conditioned into doing the opposite of what they should be doing.

Man I hate Alg and Ring_World

Man I hate it when people like my posts and the unlike them later on. The nerve of those people!

Yeah it really is like a cheat code. When you start getting into relationships, you'll find that going radio silent with girls who are being unpleasant is another cheat code :D

Glad you guys are finally starting to caress their boobs and lick their hair and elbows. That shit works