Kiriyama

Well, I don't know about cracking it open... But getting part of a tooth punched out hurts like hell when you try to eat anything. Worse than the initial impact of the punch.

My suspicions are confirmed. Laura, you frighten me. how does she frighten you? She says she loves pain? pfft. pain is delicious. who doesn't love pain? I don't love it. When I'm not causing it, or when its happening to me.

I oppose a Monarchy. Deciding by blood (for future) does not guarentee a good ruler. Though, I wouldn't oppose if part of the land was given for a rule of anarchy. Which we'd then overrule you all through violence.

Theres an edit button for a damned reason. Face it, this topic is dead.

Then I'd advise you to try talking to her. Say to her that, as a friend, you hate seeing her in a bad mood. Say to her that from what you see (the arguements and how often they are/why they start) show that it isn't a healthy relationship. Though you might want to expand.

I'm going to say that its really what you feel you can do. Would she actually listen to you, or will she just disregard what you say? I think that it also depends on how often they put her in a bad mood, or how often they argue. Hell, it may even be that she starts the arguements. So essentially please tell us: If you think she'd listen. How often she is in a bad mood. How often she argues. Whether you think it is her starting the arguements.

Just don't think about it. Really, she has said it, but I doubt she is going to change. Its only akward if either of you make it so. EDIT: Its also a sign that she feels she can tell you anything, without things becoming akward.

Yeah, well I wish that we PS3 owners got DLC for Fallout. Its not going to happen though.

Then [bleep]ing go out with her! Just don't come back and [bleep] here when she cheats on you again.

Have you tried using one of those discs that clean the laser?

Wouldn't just training to improve leg muscles do it?

Uhh, wasn't skateboarding created by surfers who needed to do something when there was no waves? If thats true, then of course its going to be like [bleep]ing surfing.

Yes, we can advise whether it would be a reasonable course of action or not.

Maybe some of the guys aren't thinking with their brains, but with another part.

Dude. She [bleep]ing cheated on you before. Can you really trust her?

Well, if she doesn't want a boyfriend in High School, then respect that. Of course, she could just be letting you down easy though, hard to tell. But I'd assume not. Honestly, I think you need to make your mate realise he has an obsession with her. Still, you've got a close relationship with her, which is good. Just, if you do take it into a further relationship with her, don't end up being driven apart, would suck to lose someone you can talk to like that. Glad I could help you anyway.

So she was going out with him before? Must have missed that. Okay, so now he seems like the obsessive type. Be thankful that it probably won't work out again. He's getting what he wants, but its definately not going to last. She finished with him for a reason. Perhaps she thought he was obsessive? She'll realise he still is, then probably avoid him. Dude needs to learn that [cabbage] happens. BUT I'm not saying to jump at the first oppertunity. Let their relationship run its course. Wait a few weeks after its over, then ask her out. Normally I'd say talk to your friend about it, but now, he doesn't seem like the understanding type.

Have you tried talking to your mate about this? I mean, if he's pursuing a girl, and he knows you like her and are getting close, then maybe he's not that much of a mate. If she says "I love you" then you don't have to say it back. I'm assuming that she's going out with your mate, so your excuse can be "While you are [mate]'s girlfriend, I can't say that to you.", of course, you could say it, I mean, I had someone say it to me once, and I kind of said it back, because I felt like I had to. It killed me a little to say it without meaning it, but, I did it anyway. They still mean something, she considers you a good friend, and a close one at that. I'm close to a girl at the moment, but, I don't want to take it further (distance, you see). I'm happy that we can remain friends, she has an awesome personality to, which attracted me to her. I trust her more than I've perhaps trusted anyone (said a few things I haven't told anyone else) and I just feel... free while talking to her. I don't swear as much to her as I do to others (bad habit, trying to stop). Oh and don't think you deserve someone, kind of makes you seem like a bit of an arrogant [bleep]. And face it, things can always be worse. I mean, I completely [bleep]ed up awhile back with the first girl I really had strong feelings for (well, maybe second but I guess I was too young to realise the first). I didn't feel ready, which perhaps I should have just taken the oppertunity. It ended in her saying my mate asked her out (I doubt it) and that she was going to say yes to him because she hated being single. Now that pissed me off, and I sort of just... broke then. I really did love her, but that all just disappeared when she tried that. We haven't talked in years now. So really, don't lose a good friend. You'll end up regretting it.

Not true. Sure, I have a hard time going up to a girl and just saying hi, but I'm straight up about everything else. Maybe the opportunity just hasn't come for you yet. I haven't had a real relationship until now and I used to feel the same way you do. Just stay vigilant, but at the same time don't try and make a relationship out of every girl you meet. And most importantly, be optimistic. Of course I don't think I'm gonna date every girl I meet. But I just work so hard and then all of the sudden something happens and I end up getting my heart broken. It sucks, man. Maybe you're working too hard to make sure it will be perfect? You should ask when you have an oppertunity. Oh, and you can still have a close friendship with her, if you can't date her, then just remain a good friend. Be there for her. Not everything has to end in dating. Just because you think you have a decent body and personality doesn't mean that others are going to be attracted to you. Really, different things attract different people. Whilst it is good to focus on what you have, and not others, just remember, you may not attract a person, but hell, there's bound to be someone. Don't just cut off contact with someone because they're going out with someone else. If it ends what seems to be early for them, be there for them. Honestly, if you cut off contact just because they started dating someone who is not you, its going to make you appear a bit selfish, and perhaps leave them thinking you only got close to them just so you could date them, not because you liked them as a person.

Well, from reading over it, things aren't going to get better for him, rather is doubtful they will. The guy is blaming him for the guy cutting himself. Its not like Death dragged a razor across his wrist (or whatever), the guy is still blaming him. I mean, I've felt like [cabbage] after saying something to a friend, but I didn't resort to harming myself over it. He's continually arguing with his girlfriend from the sounds of it, so really, is there any point there? Maybe they're all acting a bit immature, and perhaps it wasn't my best advice. I'll give some new stuff here. Regarding the girlfriend: Try to say that you've been trying to act kinder to him, though it can be a bit hard due to how he can act at times. Say that you can't help if he is suicidal, and say that you are going to suggest that the guy gets some therapy or something. (Seriously, a doctor asked me once if I had ever thought about self-harming, I haven't though, and I wouldn't act on those thoughts. Regarding your mate: Okay, he sounds a bit depressed. Be someone he can talk to about it. Listen to what he says, and don't try to argue if it sounds like a stupid reason. Tell him to not take things so seriously, sure, people can be [wagon], but they aren't worth listening to (some advice I actually gave a mate, she seemed to appreciate it), if it some of his other mates are doing it, tell him to talk about it to you, and the context in which they said it. They could be having a laugh, or they could just be being [wagon]. Talking about it will help him realise it. Now, this may sound hard, but try not to argue with him. Rather, if you feel it is going to end up with you arguing, try suggesting you talk about something else. So to sum it up. Suggest he get some therapy or something, talk to your girlfriend about it all, she should understand, and really, just try not to argue with people, suggesting you change the subject, or, if it comes to it, lying to your girlfriend and say you're cooking something for an excuse to hang up on her without being rude.

No, just theres quite a few pictures of her looking alot older. She isn't anything special.

Ghost in the Shell?

Dump the girlfriend, ditch the friend. Really, look over it and think "Is it worth it?"

Look, you've clearly got the money, so move away. And if you knew people who you didn't like were going to be there... Why the [bleep] did you take something you wouldn't want them to drink?

Actually, if you've seen her now... She looks alot older. Quite an off-putting thing.