i was at a hotel in sue saint marie (french name) for a swim meet there. this was the best weekend of my life. i was with the team in a room watching the grudge, admitty ville horror and some other movies. there was only about 3 guys in the room (including me). there was 2 beds with like 10 on one and 6 on the other. i couldnt get a pillow so guess what? i laid me head on her (uhh u know). and she didnt do anything. i already know her. she's on my swim team. i goto swim practice with her 5 days a week and goto swim meets. maybe i should right her a long poem about it... and she said she's been single for 3 years. she is smart, 13 in grade 9. im in grade 8. . should i ask her out?

 

 

 

like im in love right now. she isnt perfect but she has qualities. mostly all that i like. i love her because of what she says, i can always make her laugh, her body. but im not alwyas with her. we don't goto the same school but we are on a swim team. its kinda going to be long term i live 30 minutes away. i only see her from swim practices and meets. ima goto her high school next year. but i guess i could go on the weekends. i am afriad is she'll turn me down and she might act funny around me and it just couldnt be the same.

:lol: Great comedy kid, keep writing and maybe you might get it published.

Ah adolescent bliss.

 

 

 

Sorry for being the pessimist here but I highly doubt you're in love. It sounds more likely like your first crush. Now, I'm not saying that you could never love this girl and by all means, you two could end up loving each other very much and having a great life together, but you're not in love yet. First love...well, to put it one way, you never know you have it for real until it's too late.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But hey, don't let that stop you from asking her out. You portraying that you two get along well, you share a sense of humour with eachother, which is imperative and you've clearly got the hots for her.

 

 

 

You have to consider, though, would you really want her as a girlfriend and have the risk of losing or tarnishing a great friendship as a result. It may happen, it may not. If you really really want this girl, you take that risk, you have no regrets and you support your decisions and will to the end. Yes, there may be consequences, heartache and risks, but remember, if none of us had the courage, we'd all be extinct by now.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ah love..."'Tis foolishness! If all were so easy, why none would suffer in this world."

:lol: Great comedy kid, keep writing and maybe you might get it published.

 

 

 

well unlike you he doesn't love boys so hush it kid.

 

 

 

god why do 5 year old mentally challenged kids read this forum?

Go ahead and ask. I bet you're more sorry in future if you don't ask.

well heres my little thing i wrote...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love is like a clump of gold, Hard to get and hard to hold. Of all the girls I've ever met, your the one I can't forget, I do beleive that God above created you for me to love, He chose you from all the rest, because He knew I would love you the best!

well heres my little thing i wrote...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love is like a clump of gold, Hard to get and hard to hold. Of all the girls I've ever met, your the one I can't forget, I do beleive that God above created you for me to love, He chose you from all the rest, because He knew I would love you the best!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Good GOD man! :shock: You've been watching too much Saved By The Bell!!

Like what was said before, you'll regret it if you dont whats the worst that could happen she may say no but you'll still see her and be great friends so you have nothing to lose. :)

 

:lol: Great comedy kid, keep writing and maybe you might get it published.

 

 

 

well unlike you he doesn't love boys so hush it kid.

 

 

 

god why do 5 year old mentally challenged kids read this forum?

:lol: "you love boys" wow you're the opitemy of maturity arn't you. :lol: God I love the entertainment value of this forum.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Oh and to that little paragraph, stop it please man you're killing me. :lol:

:lol: Great comedy kid, keep writing and maybe you might get it published.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mean but I lol'd. :oops:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You're too young. Wait til you get to high school before thinking about that stuff.

you dont even know how old i am

you dont even know how old i am

she is smart, 13 in grade 9. im in grade 8.

Yeah we do you're 12. Look kid don't read into things so much and no you arn't in love it's a crush. Also at your age girls don't like younger guys. EVER.

 

:lol: Great comedy kid, keep writing and maybe you might get it published.

 

 

 

well unlike you he doesn't love boys so hush it kid.

 

 

 

god why do 5 year old mentally challenged kids read this forum?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Haha, you obviously don't know Cj... And if you read down the board a few months back, or even at a shorter period than that, it had about three "love handling related" topics. Cj, myself and a few others had a conversation about it. I suggest you "hush it, kid".

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

//Mitch

 

:lol: Great comedy kid, keep writing and maybe you might get it published.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mean but I lol'd. :oops:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You're too young. Wait til you get to high school before thinking about that stuff.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Agreed, I personally think you should wait until your at least 14+ before you should have a girlfriend. I asked out Kendra when I was 15 and we've been going out for a year, hence im 16 now :lol:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So yea wait till your little older man :wink:

why wait until he is older? =\

 

 

 

practicing can never be that bad, can it?

why wait until he is older? =\

 

 

 

practicing can never be that bad, can it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hmm, that's a good angle to come from. But still, love is a harsh word that he used quite often. As Cj said, it's simply a crush. I don't think anyone's saying not to be 'into' females, but falling into so-called "love" is what is getting thrown around a lot.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

//Mitch

im in grade 8 and 13 n' a half.

why wait until he is older? =\

 

 

 

practicing can never be that bad, can it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At 12? It's more of a joke than anything. What are they going to talk about? Pokemon?

 

why wait until he is older? =\

 

 

 

practicing can never be that bad, can it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At 12? It's more of a joke than anything. What are they going to talk about? Pokemon?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

ROFL! :lol:

 

why wait until he is older? =\

 

 

 

practicing can never be that bad, can it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At 12? It's more of a joke than anything. What are they going to talk about? Pokemon?

 

 

 

it's not about where they are going to talk about. it's about the experience of being around a girl which you have some kind of feelings for.

Isn't that sometimes refered to as stalking?

Isn't that sometimes refered to as stalking?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think stalking actually involves not really talking to them, just following them around and random nonsense :lol:

Ya... dont listen to the guys who constantly who say your to young and what not, as someone already said it, its the right age to start practe going out.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But, i really doubt you love her... i thought i loved once... it was acutly just a fake feeling i had, and was only a crush.

 

 

why wait until he is older? =\

 

 

 

practicing can never be that bad, can it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At 12? It's more of a joke than anything. What are they going to talk about? Pokemon?

 

 

 

it's not about where they are going to talk about. it's about the experience of being around a girl which you have some kind of feelings for.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I have a gf, it's actually our 8th month today and I know how it is. Relationships aren't always about love. It's also about your compatibility. If you have nothing to talk about, there's not much you two can share.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ya... dont listen to the guys who constantly who say your to young and what not, as someone already said it, its the right age to start practe going out.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Speaking from experience, it's not. It's best to at the least, get to high school before starting any. A lot of my friends had relationships in elementary and they never made it. It's a joke as they know they can't do much. They probably don't even (or heck, not even allowed) to go to the mall for a date or just hang around.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In a sentence, it's not yet time and wait 'til you get older.

:? Most people dont get this... it is THE perfect time to date, cause your less emotional at the time. And the reason i say its the perfect time... is because since people arnt as emotional, i think its a better time for them to have a failed relationships cause then after its over, they can think "Ok what did i do wrong, and i know that i dont want to go out i with people like that, what can i do to make it better".

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is best cause then you keep going till one sticks and then you will deffinitly know that the person is the right one.