Lately I'm busy with school work, and keeping grades up since my scholarship requires I maintain a "C" average. Yes, a "C" average isn't hard, but it sure as hell requires me to actually do my work unlike in high school when I did nothing. I go to movies and stuff but I rarely have time to hang out with my friends. They seem to be having the same problem as me keeping up with school work and end of term scrambling to complete projects.

 

I'm basically exactly like Tripsis, I only have 2-3 good friends who I'm actually comfortable hanging with. But I disagree with the aspect of being Anti-social and Introverted. Anti-social is confused with asocial and Introverts don't necessarily hate people. Introverts can do the same things Extroverts do, but they need to recharge by being in a quiet environment. I can handle hanging out and partying but the next day I really need to relax and be alone for a few lol.

Well on the weekends i like to relax, but will definately say yes if someone wants to hang out, or i may even organise something. On Friday we get out of school early so i end up doing something with friends 9/10 times.

For me, everything tripsis said is true, i only hang out with 2 people 1 on 1 regulary, but i have alot of accuantaces that ive been asked to hang out with before and would just rather do other things.

 

Question, this morning i was texting a girl i asked out and was declined by last summer, and she asked me to go out with her and a few of her friends this friday to a haunted house. Usually when im asked by friends to hang out i think "ffs now i cant scape as much" but i always hang out with them as its better than scaping, but i dont think im going to hang out with her as ive realised she is a really rude and mean person now that im not attracted to her. But the question is am i being a loner because i would rather scape than hang out?

No you're not being a loner for not hanging out with her. You don't have to go with people you don't like.

 

You ARE being a loner if going out means less scape time. It should be the other way around.

 

 

 

I hope you're trolling. Don't say it should be the other way around, who are you to say how it should be? He should decide if he wants to Scape, or chill with his friends. It's his prerogative, and no one elses.

Well yeah. In the end of the day if he wants to Scape all day he can do so without my intervention. I would just suggest not to put Scaping over working or friends. Good friends I may add, not some punks who invite you because they think you sell weed.