ok..

 

 

 

at this moment im talking to a good friend on msn...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

he's decided hes going to run away with some people and leave "HERE" for good..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

hes telling me this and wants me to keep it secret.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*you dont know the full story so dont judge*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i myself think its for the best. hes gone through to much **** with parents/people

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i just dont know what to do..

 

 

 

:cry: i have till tommorow night.

Since you use the term "run away," I assume that he is around the age of 13-16. In that case, I really don't think it is a good idea. While there may be nothing you can do about it, ask him what his plans are. Where will he live? How will he make money? Has he really thought this out fully?

Why if you think it's best don't you know what to do?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And since you have a day you could perhaps, elaborate?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And further...you have a day, don't ask a bunch of people on forums who think they know more than they do. Ask someone who knows something about this sort of this (guidance counsillor or similar).

Since you use the term "run away," I assume that he is around the age of 13-16. In that case, I really don't think it is a good idea. While there may be nothing you can do about it, ask him what his plans are. Where will he live? How will he make money? Has he really thought this out fully?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

yes..

 

 

 

1. hes going with SEVERAL people.. not from around where i live

 

 

 

i've asked him those things and he says hes aware of the risk.

 

 

 

and hes got some other details i cant say.

Why if you think it's best don't you know what to do?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And since you have a day you could perhaps, elaborate?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And further...you have a day, don't ask a bunch of people on forums who think they know more than they do. Ask someone who knows something about this sort of this (guidance counsillor or similar).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

because i respect him to much to stop him..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

he lives 20 miles away.. and I cant drive..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

as for telling someone in school i will never disrespect him and tell someone that may have a say in stopping him.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

dont post garbage like that.. im not joking, i dont know what to do.

 

Since you use the term "run away," I assume that he is around the age of 13-16. In that case, I really don't think it is a good idea. While there may be nothing you can do about it, ask him what his plans are. Where will he live? How will he make money? Has he really thought this out fully?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

yes..

 

 

 

1. hes going with SEVERAL people.. not from around where i live

 

 

 

i've asked him those things and he says hes aware of the risk.

 

 

 

and hes got some other details i cant say.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

first of all he is probably not aware of the risk at all, most kids are not, thats one thing for sure. Just tell me he is atleast 16 years so he can get a job somewhere.

If you won't talk to a professional then atleast talk to someone close to one. In many countries there are child/teen advice lines that you can phone up, confidential and designed for things just like this. If possible, get him to phone one.

*aaargh*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-currently "incapacitated" im going to settle this with him...

 

 

 

and if worse comes to worse... THEN ill deal with it.

 

 

Since you use the term "run away," I assume that he is around the age of 13-16. In that case, I really don't think it is a good idea. While there may be nothing you can do about it, ask him what his plans are. Where will he live? How will he make money? Has he really thought this out fully?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

yes..

 

 

 

1. hes going with SEVERAL people.. not from around where i live

 

 

 

i've asked him those things and he says hes aware of the risk.

 

 

 

and hes got some other details i cant say.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

first of all he is probably not aware of the risk at all, most kids are not, thats one thing for sure. Just tell me he is atleast 16 years so he can get a job somewhere.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah, there would be a huge difference between 13 and 16.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

how bad is his life? I mean, I trust you to know that it's bad, but just making sure it's not something lame, or that he's just a 13 year old that think's his parrents hate him :) .

hes 16..

 

 

 

hes just sick of where he/we live.. the people.. everything around here is like ... "a one colored rainbow"... its so... i cant even describe it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i can highly agree with this.. but i try to bear with it..

 

 

 

he knows whats hes doing..

 

 

 

quote from him

 

 

 

"I've had this dream for a while now, im scared, but i know its the right thing to do."

I suggest you tell someone.Best way to go the way I see it.Most 18 year olds arent even ready to exit the household,and hes barely 16. :|

hes 16..

 

 

 

hes just sick of where he/we live.. the people.. everything around here is like ... "a one colored rainbow"... its so... i cant even describe it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i can highly agree with this.. but i try to bear with it..

 

 

 

he knows whats hes doing..

 

 

 

quote from him

 

 

 

"I've had this dream for a while now, im scared, but i know its the right thing to do."

 

 

 

"Running away" implies he has something to run from. I hope this something consists of more than boredom.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My advice before was based on a genuinely unhappy young person, not an angst-ridden 16 year old listening to too much Linkin Park.

I would suggest that you or your friend contact a trusted adult regarding his reasons for wanting to run away.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Perfect strangers cannot give you advice on a situation that we know nothing about.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Locking this topic.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

~Alduron