The examples you gave are completely different circumstances to the one given by the author of this post. By hanging yourself and getting hit by a train, does not endanger the life of anybody else. Driving at 120mph whilst under the influence of drugs, I'm afraid, does.

 

 

 

You were missing the point of what I said. :-s I was talking about him not caring about the friend that died cuz he was high. I was telling him no matter how somone dies it is a tragic thing and should still feel remorse. hmm, sorry if my post was off topic?

 

Ah, so Jews will feel sad when Hitler died? :lol:

 

 

 

Please, it's not at all appropriate to compare a teenager to a brutal dictator who caused the deaths of millions of innocent people. The guy is dead. Maybe he made a few bad decisions and got high. Maybe he was acting like an idiot. But who are you to judge him? Who are you to decide, in a instant, that his life was worthless? Who are you to decide that society is better off without him? Regardless of what he did, he was still a life, a human, one of us. Afterall, he was still someone's son , someone's brother, and someone's friend. Please, just stop the bickering about his actions and let him rest in peace.

 

 

 

My condolences to you, your family, and your friend's family. May he rest in peace.

He was high on who knows what

 

 

 

FHP says he was not wearing his seatbelt at the time of the crash.

 

 

 

Naughty Boy. #-o

 

 

 

Sorry for your lose, I think he may have survived if he was wearing a seatbelt. :boohoo:

 

 

 

I'm glad he died in that crash, not being rude or anything. Hes my friend and if he survived that crash, he would be brain dead and be living in the hospital, did you see the picture of the car?

I cant feel sorry for him because he was stupid enough to drive/get high and drive. Anyone who is dumb enough to do that had it coming.

 

 

 

Maybe he wasnt well educated, if so I feel some remorse.

 

 

 

He was smart, he was good in school but he just chose the life of drugs and partying. The fact is, when someone dies, you don't just go flaming them because they could of killed somebody else. I "KNOW" that, we all do, but he died, i feel remorse. I never liked my grandmother, i thought she was a complete (female dog) but i still respected her death and attended her funeral. Going around and saying idc that he died cus he was high, what if your mom was high and died, would you not care?

You guys don't have to be sympathetic, but you could atleast be empathetic. Forget about the kid who chose the wrong path and ruined his life with drugs. Think about his mother, his father, the rest of his family, his friends, all the other people who cared for him. You can argue all you want that he deserved what he got and had it coming to him, but still, with alll the people who were affected by this, it's still a tragedy.

You guys don't have to be sympathetic, but you could atleast be empathetic. Forget about the kid who chose the wrong path and ruined his life with drugs. Think about his mother, his father, the rest of his family, his friends, all the other people who cared for him. You can argue all you want that he deserved what he got and had it coming to him, but still, with alll the people who were affected by this, it's still a tragedy.

 

 

 

+1. Just because the kid was high doesn't mean you should not feel sorry. Look at the friends he left behind who don't do drugs, and his family he left behind too. His family doesn't deserve for someone to go "Your son/brother/nephew/grandson/cousin deserved what he got, and I don't have an sympathy.". It doesn't matter if he deserved what he got, but you guys need to still have sympathy for the people that he did leave behind who didn't do anything, but love him, and all they need know is the love and support from friends, or people who have heard about the tragedy.

Very sad to hear indeed. Death is something that can either slowly present itself over a period of time, or in tragic cases lake this, change somebody's world in a fraction of a second. I lost my brother to cancer a few years ago. I felt as if my life would never return to normal. You will always remember your friend, to forget is impossible. The feeling of emptyness in your heart will slowly dissappear however, you just have to keep strong. Learn from your friends mistakes as well

He was high? I dont care for him. =;

 

 

 

So if your mother was high and died, you wouldn't care for her anymore?

 

 

 

Not an accurate comparison. A mother has brought you up. You will care for them no matter what. However a complete stranger, killed while high on drugs add speeding.

 

 

 

Hmm I'd care for the high mother. Even if it was anoter persons the fact is they have had a major blow to their life, friends can come and go. You can only have one true mother.

He was high? I dont care for him. =;

 

 

 

So if your mother was high and died, you wouldn't care for her anymore?

 

 

 

Not an accurate comparison. A mother has brought you up. You will care for them no matter what. However a complete stranger, killed while high on drugs add speeding.

 

 

 

Hmm I'd care for the high mother. Even if it was anoter persons the fact is they have had a major blow to their life, friends can come and go. You can only have one true mother.

 

 

 

Sad but true. Friends come and go all the time, just sometimes they have to go like....this.