So, I have a bit of a problem. It isn't bad at the moment, but I'm really hoping it won't escalate. You see, my girlfriend's parents are the stereotypical "crazy asian parents" but taken to the next level. They are completely bat-[cabbage] insane. Not only are they extremely harsh on her need to get good grades, but they pretty much try and take away every bit of a social life she has. Both her and her brother (she is 17, her brother is 19) are unable to have a boyfriend/girlfriend (her brother is in college now though, not much they do about it now except yell at her -.- ) and she keeps the fact that she is with me a secret from them. She cannot drive and cannot have a cell phone. The only way we even get to see each other outside of school is band events (which are thankfully frequently). That's just to give you an idea of how things are. Now last night after we got back to school from the band competition her mom came into the band room because she apparently was taking to long to get out and leave. Now, when her mom came in we were standing with a group of people and I was hugging her, a simple hug, no more. Her mom gave me the dirtiest look I've ever received and dragged her out of there. She called me this morning and said her mom then told her that "she isn't allowed to hug anyone ever again and must leave immediately after all band events and school are done". Her mom also spent about thirty minutes snooping through everything in her room and watching what she was doing. So i don't want to confront her mom for sure and I don't want her to do it either (she'd probably get kicked out if her mom knew she had a boyfriend). So I think for the moment it's best to just continue on as we have before, just make sure we arent seen kissing/hugging/holding hands/anything together when her mom could be near.