RpgGamer

Hehe. It wasn't something amazing, but it was pretty good turn of events. Welcome back!

She likes [or doesn't] within a minute of meeting you. To counter that, takes effort and luck [and flirting etc] Easiest to assume all girls want you like crazy and take those that actually do

Oh yeah. she's my thing

That tends to be why I think they do mis-spell :D I don't care about my ability to type when drunk, I'm just still able to type properly. Others I know when drunk are the exact same way, which is why I always raise eyebrows when is see peop tlak eilk ths. :blink: my typing is naturally not 100% accurate, and me being drunk has low finger dexterity. So combined with the lack of caring to edit, I just kind of hit the buttons under my fingers and hit send [usually I'm sobering up by the time I post though because I'm home and able to type my password after a few tries]

Lexi Belle. I'm finding it hard to find a "TIF appropriate" picture...

The joy of knowing you accomplished something for yourself [especially as an assertion of independence] is a more gratifying experience than having stuff handed to you. No matter how hard you work for it

It's very subjective and not really possible to concretely define. While I don't necessarily agree with every item on the list, I agree with most of this article here: http://blackdragonbl...ern-alpha-male/ Basically it's not a case of "alpha" or "beta." Rather, it's more of a spectrum/range. With his specifics aside, I pretty much agree that it's good for every man to strive to become happy, free, confident, and masculine. Hope that gives you an idea of my thoughts on the matter. That article reeks of patriarchal stereotyping haha but I see where you're coming from at least. I see manhood as a series of achievements held at high value-standard for the community said man is appealing to. You provide for a family? Man points. You sacrifice yourself for the greater good of your family/bretheren/community? man points. You create a family and uphold it? man points. You take responsibility - the more you have, the more man points. From a misogynistic standpoint, one could say that "Achieving" a woman could award you man points, which easily translates into this thread's common beliefs in getting the girl makes you more of a man. Same concept.

My cousin's had a rough life, and I'm single so I wanted to drink a bit with him, get to know him better [9 year difference in age, and I only just started hanging with him a few months ago]. He might be 29, but man can not hold his liquor lol

I want Muggi's explanation of manhood now methinks

Drunken posting... This thread needs mroe of it. P.S. My bottle is empty now. Not so sure I shoul have drank that much, but at this point I really don't give a damn. i almost lstt my bottle of cjack at my cousins ol

I'm durunk and off TIU

Celebritys and models aren't real people to make that comparison on either end of the spectrum

I thought you said you were done arguing with me yesterday :P Just out of interest; what do you expect when you're 60+? Also, what do you expect poly amorous women to do once they hit 60? For 60+ I haven't really thought that far ahead... I'm not too worried about it, I've got a lot of hope for the future. If you really want me to I can try to put together a day in the life of 60-year-old muggi lol. But I don't have time tonight :P I have thought a little about what women "should" do as far as polyamory and aging goes, though. Honestly, I feel bad for women. The older they get, the less attractive they become. They've got the odds against them when it comes to that kind of thing :( Without giving this too much thought, I'd say that by that age women should be doing more "motherly" things rather than sexual/romantic things. Basically I think the male and female "agendas" aren't very compatible. I can't help but think you're implying that men don't get less attractive and appealing over time. Confidence isn't going to make up for all of the flaws of being an old man.

Alright I'll get back to you on the manhood thing. As for age mattering? Yeah, confidence is huge. But you're forgetting that's implemented heavily by your perception of attractiveness, not the girls you'll be hitting on necessarily. While yes, being confident is key, I feel at a certain age difference women have a standard of not wanting to bang dudes older than their dad.

I...wasn't joking? you'd be a fool not to rule out the substantial possibility.

That sounds terrible to me-- we both have a different understanding of "manhood." Another big topic there-- let me know if you wanna discuss it! I'm actually curious what you consider to be the epitome of manhood, yeah. [also - how old are you again?] I think my odds of having sex with 24-year-olds when I'm 60 are a lot higher than having sex with my 60-year-old wife. The sex would probably be better too. I lol'd. I want to interview you when your 65. I want to see how many 24 year old girls you pick up hahaha Yeah, he mostly told me that he made out with girls while drunk and at parties, and he kissed two other girls I know as a 'joke'. Personally, I don't actually mind or care about all of that, the thing that bugs me more is whether he slept with another girl while she was still in a relationship. That would probably be the thing that would deter me from him most of all. It just shows a lack of principles for me. I would not flirt with another girl's boyfriend or try to steal him for myself. I just find that wrong for me to do, and while others would possibly disagree with me on this, it's just a moral I have, which is why I made sure he was single before I went any further down that route. It may well be the reason why I didn't admit it to Mary then, I probably won't know exactly why I didn't admit it, but if they were to date, I wouldn't be jealous but I would rather not have Mary feeling guilty for dating him while she knew that I liked him too. If you're looking for emotional bullshit - he's your guy. He doesn't seem to be your best option if your intent is a proper relationship. If you're just trying to hook up with him, sounds like it's not gonna be hard [most guys aren't going to deny a hook up regardless lol] Alcohol, friends and flirting with random girls. And put it in your head that you're moving on. Don't be lingering on any bullshit.

woah woah woah dude. people don't agree with you and you're calling them less open-minded and bias? sheesh. I'm single. I'm "open minded". Let's discuss while I'm ultimately pro-monogamy [even though I advocate open relationships for those who feel it is apropriate] Why is that? Because all people are individuals. We're all the different. And because we're all different, you will never have the same relationship twice [even with the same two people involved]. To place a "standard" on a relationship is asinine. How you act and feel in a relationship is completely dependent on the people involved and their interpretation on what they feel is right for their conjoined situation. Do I need a monogamous relationship to be "truly happy" ? I don't really think so. I'm fairly happy at the moment just hooking up with girls and doing whatever. I'm not thrilled about it, but I'm not like depressed or anything. I'm just taking it for what it is and having fun. Cause life is pointless without fun and you can only play the hand that's dealt to you. I agree with you - emotional states change. But you imply it as if it acts as a switch from "honeymoon relationship" to "boredom" to "single". It's not like that. People change every second. Every thought they think, every experience they encounter at every living moment - it changes you. And it all adds up. Yeah; some day I want to get married. I want to have 2 sons and a daughter. I want to name my first son after my grandfather. I want to live in a suburb. I want to wake up, put on a tie, drink some shitty coffee and watch my wife make breakfast for my kids. And if you don't understand the satisfaction that brings a man, I doubt you understand manhood at all.

Kind of like how the HK53 is called the G53 on Battlelog? whatever. I'v been trying to get the Big brother tag. Turns out you need 5 medals, not just one. I'm enjoying all the time in the MAV though. Up to 47 kills with it :D

I imagine you can't taste it. I would think your tongue would just go super numb [i was once informed by a co-worker that it is is highly desirably to have a girl put cocaine in her mouth and perform oral sex due to the tingling and numbing flushes]

Sometimes I drink and work ;) Bought a case of Hein for a co-worker today as a matter of fact. I'm personally saving my 24oz of Jack for Tuesday. It's my valentine's day date :D

definitely a hot girl, but damn does she look derpy in that picture

I've drank and TIF'd Glorious fun.

[bleep] I was wrecked. that was not even 12 hours ago. go black out again. you're not doing it right.

I don't usually get invited to partys either, but generally if I see my social life slacking, it's as easy as reconnecting with an old friend, and re-immersing myself in a social environment. While you [tim] may not have many friends you wish to reconnect with, there are other's like you and the attitude you need to have is one that would attract other's like yourself - alienated by those they called friends. Talk to people you normally wouldn't. Indulge in conversation you normally thought useless. Do what it takes to broaden your social horizons. I find it fundamentally odd in your [@Tim] case that you don't have a set group of chill people you can find a home with. I truly feel once you fulfill that need in your life, everything else will start to come together.