RpgGamer
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Again i'm forced to wonder what flaw you seem so intent on exploiting about yourself you're so focused on. If you truly have been "the best anyone has ever been to her" then you have nothing to worry about. Unless you're just the lesser of all evils, but even then you're still the greatest character in her story. You're going to have to be less vague and mysterious with me[us? it isn't just me, is it?] for a moment
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You are aware the filesize limit was increased to 150kb? Unfortunately, the site that allows my sig to cycle upon refresh still has the old limit of 40,960 >.>
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Where is good ol' Lent? Haven't seen the bloke around here in ages...
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I fail to understand what has gotten you so worked up. Is there a logical reason that she should leave you that you feel guilty about?
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This is my first actual long-term relationship after so many failures that have built me up to think and worry like this. I've never been able to trust anyone, and despite the great, lively, spontaneous beginning, I'm now driving it all to [cabbage]. She knows my worries. She promises me that she won't do any thing I fear, and bless her for putting up with my [cabbage] all this time... at least, until now... now she's upset that I'm worrying about all of this and of course, our relationship is suffering because of my huge insecurities. There's no fun anymore, there's all distance, and my "prevention" is causing the doomsday. In the grand scheme of my transformation a couple years ago, and all I've learned about social dynamics, you don't need to educate me on that. I'm well, well aware on how [bleep]ing badly I am [bleep]ing this up. Many of you would have told me to cut, run, and gtfog, but I don't want that. I want to keep her. I'm just [bleep]ing everything up with my paranoia and insecurities and I can't do anything about it. It's not fair. I can't ever win; I can't ever be happy. I can't take any of this anymore. If my life is going to be this screwed up I'd rather just not live it this way. I've dealt with enough of it. Please fix this. I don't know where else to go. Deep breaths buddy, deep breaths. You say your "downfall" is stemming from your own worrying about said downfall occurring. A self fulfilling prophecy. Take a step back and look at how you can deal with the situation. These are the things that once toppled, strengthen a relationship. Just gotta calm down and accept whats going on and stop worrying. If everything doesn't seem like it's going to be fine on it's own, make it fine. Do what you need to do to make it okay. If you think you can return to happiness as you are, then fight for it. If you can't, then change what you need to until you are once again happy.
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OOO pretty. Love it! Is there a way to size it down to less than 40 bytes though? 40 BYTES? Nope, not a chance. 40,960 bytes, sorry. I missed the 'kilo' haha
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Asking Alexandria cause I'm cool
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OOO pretty. Love it! Is there a way to size it down to less than 40 bytes though?
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http://i54.tinypic.com/11ugfgw.png sorry it's kinda iffy in quality, but best i could find
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Okay, you obviously don;t understand what I mean by transparency. This is a transparency: Notice that there is no background to the render? That's what a trasparency is supposed to be, an image with no background. So if you want me to make a signature, you have to folow the guidelines. Also, What I mean by Transparency Orientation, placing the image on the left, right, middle, mid-left, or mid-right. And for all future posters; my signatures come generically in 400x140 (WxH), so if there's any other size you want, specify. Thanks! :/ Aight then, I was thinking orientation on the right hand side, maybe tilted 45 degrees counter clockwise...I'll have to go hunt down a rendered version of my reference. Pretty sure I have one somewhere...I'll get back to you
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Transparency: minimal Transparency Orientation: ummm...I want it blendy? Text: Heart Means Everything Subtext: RPG Gamer Background Colors: maroonish Abstract Y or N: Y Scanlines Y or N: N Other Show me what you got! Here's your reference: standard tip.it sig size, if it's smaller, as long as it looks good it's forgivable
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The same girl? LOL. Sam, if she's telling the truth, you shouldn't worry and should let her be. If she's lying (it seems like part of you is suggesting this), she needs some space and you should let her be. Different girls, but I like that you're paying attention ;) @Dax Your online representation must always match your personality to avoid such oddball transitions. The more you talk to her in person, the more comfortable you'll get with the idea. Push boundaries and see what results after certain causes. You'll get the hang of it. Also: try video chatting instead of IMing as practice.
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She told me she loves me. Oops?
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I don't want to be "happy", I want to learn how to cope I dislike them as people. I live in an upper-middle-class family. I appreciate the things they provide. I hate their personality. I would love to live away from them, but that is financially impossible for me. I understand that some people have trouble grasping the concept that not all people own everything their parents do. I am sorry for being so blunt. My only stipulation is that you don't assume I enjoy "normal" things. I have only been to a restaurant a few times. I get very uncomfortable when I have to tell somebody what I want. I have never asked a stranger on the streets for directions. I did not intend for this post to come across as 'rude'. I am sorry if parts appeared that way. I would like information on how to cope with my situation, preferably (but by no means required) by somebody who has been in a similar situation and gotten through it. Don't apologize bro, I called you out like a douche and you act like it's your fault. You make articulate posts, and have no problems as long as you're anonymous. You don't get along with your parents well, but you appreciate them. Sounds to me like you're having trouble with your identity. I'm not implying that you don't know who you are by any maens, but you certainly have issues expressing yourself, as yourself. Judgemental and overbearing parents kind of promote that. But if you're looking for other awkward kids who have learned to get on with life, you've come to the right place man. TIF OffTopic is loaded with people who were once awkward, shy, sunned Runecapians, since retired and moved on with their lives. I, myself grew up extremely awkward for many years, maybe not as severe as you describe but I can certainly relate to one thing in your post -> your new found lack of interest in video games. They've lost the satisfying feeling they once held. But anyway, I say take some baby steps. I'm not saying you have to talk to strangers out ofthe blue to make friends yet, but show your face around town more often, and learn to express yourself. Eventually you'll find yourself with more social opurtunity. While I'm not sure this is the answer you were looking for, I don't advise rolling over and succumbing to your anti-social lifestyle. Coping is one thing, but i think you need change. And you can take it at whatever pace you feel comfortable at.
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Ask yourself this question, and you'll have the answer you need: Would you regret it more if you did, or didn't do it? In your case, I'd "recommend" getting rid of your girl, cause your previous post she didn't come off as a very good person, but I made posts worse than that for months and months and months, and months, and continually made the same "mistake" over and over again, without fail, despite being advised against it so frequently. I still don't regret it per-say, but I definitely would have benefited from just letting go and moving on with my life. If I remember correctly, your girl told you to piss off cause you cared, hits on her ex infront of you, and hits on your friends. Thats not a quality chick, but I'm not one to judge you for trying to patch it up anyway. Just let me warn you, that when you look back on the decisions you make in years to come, what will you think you wished you would have done? Make decisions that would make future you proud.
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Usually my penis to be honest. Then my heart of course. Regret hurts worse than failure. You feel with your heart, it's only right it should lead the way.
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Yeah, I could do that with a halloween mask, black spray paint, blue spray paint, and pink duct tape in less than an hour. And for under $10. Not too difficult
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How much does it really bother you? If they ask you to drink with them or something, just politely say "No thanks, I don't drink". If SHE drinks however, and it bothers you, well then that is your choice. Don't judge her based on her parent's choices I say. I was going to say this basically. You're dating her, not her family. So what her family does isn't really significant, and shouldn't be. If her habits bother you, it's something to take into consideration. Personally, I don't think i could date a heavy drinker, but that's just me. Depends on how much you like her I suppose.
