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$1500 starting at a $2500 offer? I'd flip the kid off and sell it to some other bastard to be honest.

[cabbage]. Now they're going to invade America to lower their gas prices. That's whats hip in politics now, right? Get attacked->blame random terrorist cell->invade obscure country ?

:( grass is always greener, my life isn't perfect just because I'm having sex. Yeah I initially thought sex but then realized he was 14. Just flirt and meet new people, and pick a new hobby that will occupy your mind enough to get her out of your head. Boxing or bjj would be perfect. Or something different like taking a fire twirling class. Tim gets a little hot under the collar when sex is mentioned. We all appreciate your input Dan, you play just as much of a key role in this thread as any other advise giver. Conflicting views are good for the thinking/advice receiving process.

I love that this is possible. Today I went to school, [bleep]ed at my train, wore a hat, watched One Flew Over the Cookoo's Nest, about to watch Devil. Also I'm pissed that I'm working the night I was going to be going out with this girl I've been talking to forever. But noooooo. Stupid weather.

On a related note, said 'perfect' girls' last facebook status was "I don't know whether I should waste my day playing Black Ops or Final Fantasy 13." I hate the boundaries of sexual orientation.

Needing to get over an ex, while I'm still in love with her, and having nobody else who I have even the smallest of feelings for. Edit: Dan, being 14 sucks, let me tell you. Ah yes, this theory. I was wondering why the hell you would want to 'force' yourself to like someone. Sit down, Rob and let me tell you a story. Many moons ago I was only a little older than yourself, and I was madly in love. I was head over heels and beyond for this girl. And one day, my wildest dreams became reality and she loved me back. The relationship that ensued while it took its course was literally a dream come true, passionate and filled with happiness. Only after we had our 16th and final break [after over 36 months] up did I realize just how much [cabbage] I really put up with to keep that illusion of happiness up. There weren't flaws in her, but in the relationship I wanted. I made the relationship what I wanted it to be in my head, and ignored the truth of the situation. Keeping that in mind, I realized the type of relationship [one of trust and loyalty] weren't possible with the girl I had once held so dear. Taking this new found information, I thought long and hard [thats what she said] about the kind of girl i truly saw myself with. I thought about all of the amazing traits I gave my ex, not the ones she actually possessed. I finally came to a conclusion. I built the perfect girl in my head, and I was out to find her. An opportunity arose to which I would have the opportunity to meet many people in a club-like environment in support of free love and sexuality. I saw this and had a premonition - my perfect girl would be there that night. the funny thing? I was absolutely correct. Everything I had built in my mind as the perfect girl...well...I found that girl. Right down to the love of death-core and yu-gi-oh. I DARE you to find a girl like that, let alone the billion other traits I created in my head. Well, I got to talking to her and well...she was exactly what I thought she was. Perfect. And the great part? I wasn't giving her traits and believing in falsehood, this was truly who she was. I had met a girl that I finally thought I could give me the emotional motivation to put my other [cabbage]ty relationship behind me. The kicker? This "perfect girl" did have one flaw. Turns out...she's not attracted to guys. Go figure. I didn't take it personally, all things considered I knew it was truth. But it proved to me one thing: there are girls out there that can capture my heart and attention other than the girl I once fell so hard for. That 'perfect' girl and I still talk on rare occasion. She played a bigger role in my recovery than she'll ever know. She proved there are girls out there worth pursuing. That was when I finally got over my first love. Now let me tell you the second half of that story. Disgruntled at my misfortune of finding the perfect girl with one MAJOR flaw, I lowered my standards a bit. I also started putting myself out there more, hoping with all my might to capture the attention of a girl even remotely close to the girl of my imagination. I've been fishing around for a while now, and in my travels i've found myself filling the void with instead of one girl with one major role, but a handful of girls playing smaller roles in my life. And as you can see by the past 4 or so pages of this thread...that can get messy. don't force yourself to like someone. You'll get over her. Naturally. She'll prove she isn't worth it, and you'll move on. In the mean time, keep meeting people and challenge yourself to fit into different social networks. I for one have joined numerous youth groups of different cultures to unify my spirituality, teach tolerance, and to meet people. Some places work out better than others, but thats just how networking works. I know it's rough now, but you're going to look back on the memory of your post in a year and think "wow...I can't believe that was me". I know I sure as hell have.

This, again. This. gets you banned?

Whoa man. This isn't like you. I'm scared. :( Lol, it's ok. I don't think I'm actually going to send the email although I did write it. And what the hell, Adrenal is banned again? If you wrote it, you might as well give it to him/her. It'll make their day.

ughhhhh Should have stopped after the first to be honest.

relationship thread is stickied if you need anything bud ;) today I worked then got kicked out of numerous stores with my jack ass friends. meh.

Never say never. No one's perfect, and in some situations is better to take the blame, especially if it truly does rest on you. You can't improve if you assume you're already perfect.

the avoidance of emotional rock bottom. Been there, and I sure as hell ain't going back. That's motivation enough for me.

That chick either is very sarcastic or is rather [bleep]y. In the future...don't worry about getting caught, it ruins the moment. Just go with it. I'd personally forget about her, but as far as further pursuing her....I have no idea. I'd give the forceful dominance thing a shot for the sake of trying something, but other than that...i really have no idea

working all day today and tomorrow. Then banking some serious cash on friday. OOOOO and I start bar tender training in a month. YEAHHHH :shades:

input appreciated, however after reading said novel, you'll discover why the "getting it out of my system" would not be as catastrophic as it sounds. I'd also not be getting all that physical with her to begin with.

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I partially agree with you. One question though.. Were do those rights come from if not (for this example) God? Just some food for thought. Common sense? Survival Instinct? Laws? If you really need a God telling you "don't do this or you go to HELL" to not do bad things than you really need to reevaluate yourself as a person. Anyways laws, generally, are fairly common sense for the wellbeing of people. A country could not run if people could just murder others, or steal. God is a man made concept.

I believe it was a concept built to maintain peace and harmony within a specific quantity of people, but then when these groups found that there were other groups with the same goals, and conflicting methods...religion became an excuse for violence. People ruined it, but I still like the idea of religion.

Is that the same episode that had the WBC? either way, search it up on either: stagevu.com ovguide.com hulu.com

Everyone is uploading pics now. I feel obligated to do the same. One of these is my first attempted "fancy" signature, which eventually evolved into the other. Guess which is which lol. [hide][/hide] [hide][/hide]

Its snowing out right now. I hate you.

I'd really have to wonder what it was before answering that question. The fact that she's hitting on your friends would make me [in your shoes] not want anything to do with her, including pleasantries such as birthday gifts. Though from my current perspective, I kind of want you to accept it because she did put time and care into it and I'm curious as hell as to what it is. Might be a nice keepsake that you could look back on years later and hopefully remember the better chunks of the relationship, rather than your interactions as of current.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJT957k9Kus Part of me wants to learn how to do this today.

Usually, yes, but the physical distance between the residential locations of me and #3 are enough to put me off. If I have my time with her, than I can categorize the experience as a memory, and not torment myself with thoughts of possibilities. And why torment yourself with possibilites when you have a potentailly far better girl much closer. Cause I suck and can't help the way I think and feel. This is an interesting point, though I've only found myself in this situation by bizarre happenstance. I started talking to #1 and #2 around the same time, but initially #1 was much more receptive to my flirtations due to her openness to being in a relationship. #2 on the other hand is actually a friend of the ex that I cheated on, and when I started talking to her really had no interest in dating anyone, let alone me. #3...well...she had a magically fated entrance in my life around the small period of time when I was so sick of trying to decide who to pursue between #1 and #2 [at that point in time I had written #1 off as uninterested, and #2 a complete impossibility on grounds that she was friends with my ex]. Well, turns out I was wrong, and now I find myself in the interesting predicament at hand. At the moment, there is no #4. I don't want there to be if/when this thing gets sorted out and I need to start again from scratch. I'm banking on my unwillingness to let a #4 exist to make sure that there won't ever be a #4. And honestly, when I'm happily committed, I have 0 issues with loyalty. I've been in a long term relationship before and did just fine.

Usually, yes, but the physical distance between the residential locations of me and #3 are enough to put me off. If I have my time with her, than I can categorize the experience as a memory, and not torment myself with thoughts of possibilities.