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Getting Nervous..

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I'm usually a really calm person, and can control how I feel fairly easily. But tomorrow I plan on asking the girl I like to homecoming (I've asked 1 other girl but I asked her online, this girl I'm going to ask in person). From what I've heard from her she doesn't have a date so I'm gonna take the chance. I've been trying to stay calm but I can't anymore :wall: I've pretty much figured out what I'm going to say but since I'm getting nervous I'm probably going to mess the words up..

 

So, does anyone know how to stop from being nervous? I need some help :-#

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Hmm heres something I do. If your "smooth" around girls that your just friends with but nervouse like you are now then just look at all the bad things about the girl you like. There may be few bad things and many good things but still look at the bad things as then you will be looking at her as you do just regular friends.

 

 

 

Works for me. ::'

 

 

 

I'm gonna pm you and ask you a question also.

 

 

 

EDIT: all this talk about asking girls to homecoming is making me depressed as I can't go this year. :cry:

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Disregard your nagging thoughts and consience, and say to yourself, "Screw it, I'm doing it." The more you think about it the more likely you might back out.

 

 

 

..And good luck, by the way.

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Worst case senario is she says no to you in front of a whole bunch of kids then proceeds to tell you that she hates everything about you.

 

 

 

Hmm, I was going to put a little funny quip here but after reading that sentence again it just really depressed me.

 

 

 

Good Luck!!!

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Thanks guys, I'll be sure to try those. And I'm not worried about her saying what she hates about me.. She's too nice to do that ::'

^_^ Just act like you're talking to one of your buddies. ^_^

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^_^ Just act like you're talking to one of your buddies. ^_^

 

 

 

Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

That cant be too hard, can it?

 

 

 

*points at sig*

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Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

 

Haha! I don't think that would go over well.. YEAH! B*! YOU WANNA GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME!? F* YEAH YOU DO!

 

 

 

Also.. my 2 best friends are going with 2 good friends of hers.. If she says yes, this could work out well ::'

^_^ Just act like you're talking to one of your buddies. ^_^

 

 

 

Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

That cant be too hard, can it?

 

 

 

*points at sig*

 

 

 

:lol:

 

Be sure to call her a noob. That's romantic. Tell her kissypoo sent ya. :wink:

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No way to not be nervous if your that type of person. Just swallow the fear and go on with it.

 

 

 

Good luck!

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Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

 

Haha! I don't think that would go over well.. YEAH! B*! YOU WANNA GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME!? F* YEAH YOU DO!

 

 

 

Also.. my 2 best friends are going with 2 good friends of hers.. If she says yes, this could work out well ::'

 

 

 

Hahaha, I cant stop laughing! :lol: Hope I made you feel a bit better :D Also, if shes going with your friends and she doesnt have a date, maybe you could use that to your advantage in some way? :-k

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^_^ Just act like you're talking to one of your buddies. ^_^

 

 

 

Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

That cant be too hard, can it?

 

 

 

*points at sig*

 

 

 

:lol:

 

Be sure to call her a noob. That's romantic. Tell her kissypoo sent ya. :wink:

 

 

 

My homecoming dance is in a couple weeks, I'll do just that lol! :P

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Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

 

Haha! I don't think that would go over well.. YEAH! B*! YOU WANNA GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME!? F* YEAH YOU DO!

 

 

 

Also.. my 2 best friends are going with 2 good friends of hers.. If she says yes, this could work out well ::'

 

 

 

Hahaha, I cant stop laughing! :lol: Hope I made you feel a bit better :D Also, if shes going with your friends and she doesnt have a date, maybe you could use that to your advantage in some way? :-k

 

 

 

Yeah, I'll use that and the fact that she loves my sexy car ^_^

chances are if you want to go with her she wants to go with you. But if she dosn't then you are screwed and will never be happy again... jk you will get over it. not. jk. not. dam dual personalitys..

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chances are if you want to go with her she wants to go with you. But if she dosn't then you are screwed and will never be happy again... jk you will get over it. not. jk. not. dam dual personalitys..

 

 

 

I've been shot down before, I'm sure I'll get over it if it happens again.

Or like you just owned her in a halo tournament! :lol:

 

 

 

 

Haha! I don't think that would go over well.. YEAH! B*! YOU WANNA GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME!? F* YEAH YOU DO!

 

 

 

Also.. my 2 best friends are going with 2 good friends of hers.. If she says yes, this could work out well ::'

 

 

 

Hahaha, I cant stop laughing! :lol: Hope I made you feel a bit better :D Also, if shes going with your friends and she doesnt have a date, maybe you could use that to your advantage in some way? :-k

 

 

 

Yeah, I'll use that and the fact that she loves my sexy car ^_^

 

 

 

sexy car ftw \:D/

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Last thing here was a mistake.. read something wrong..

 

 

 

But my horoscope for tomorrow..

 

 

 

Get past your fear, and you'll see the obvious solution. The bravest people acknowledge their dread and manage to take action anyway. Remember, this is only a test. Pay attention to the big picture.

Bear in mind - the second before you approach her, you're going to be 1000 times more nervous than you are right now :P but once you start talking to her, it should all go away :)

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I asked the girl I liked on Friday and she said yes. My advice is to just do it. Don't hesitate. Just walk up and ask her.

Be yourself and try tell your self shes lucky to going to homecoming with you not the otherway around.

 

 

 

This might make you a little calmer.

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Hehe, made me think of this.

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Well.. I asked her ^_^

 

She said as long as she's able to go, then she'll go with me :^_^: :thumbsup: :3>

 

Nothing can ruin my day now :3>

i always think: 'screw it im gonna do it'

 

 

 

just kiss my assh

 

 

 

works fine with me :D

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i always think: 'screw it im gonna do it'

 

 

 

just kiss my assh

 

 

 

works fine with me :D

 

 

 

Uhh you seem to be a little late on the advice... :-s

 

 

 

Congrats Deloria, I'm gonna pm you again about something. :wink:

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^^Haha^^

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