The loser returns!

[Guest AshKaYu]

Hehehe, anyway, as you can see, this loser has figured out his password and gotten on with life. Ash has a question though, and it's about the evil opposite gender.

 

 

 

Okay, so I've been 'crushing' on this girl for a few months now, and she's popular, witty, exciting, etc etc. But recently, I realised I have been in love with my friend for three years.

 

 

 

There is just three GIGANTIC problems:

 

 

 

1) She is dropdead gorgeous.

 

 

 

If her curves were a road, you'd have a hard time staying on. Her eyes are like a nutmeg, and her hair shines against her smooth skin. Her smile is beautiful, and herself? She is so sweet, so innocent, so kind, but she is funny, witty and makes you feel great all the time.

 

 

 

2) I am dropdead.

 

 

 

I am short(1/2 inch taller then her), with a highpitched voice. I am not nearly as attractive as her. I have some moobs I am getting rid of, but I feel like I'm not good enough for her.

 

 

 

3) She is my friend

 

 

 

She'd probably try to let me down gently, and say "I wouldn't wanna risk our friendship" .

 

 

 

Sorry for suddenly showing up, and asking help xP . Thanks!

[deloriagod]

Physical appearence means nothing if she likes you as more than a friend. I say you should take the chance and ask her out. You'll feel better if you know whether she likes you or not rather than looking back on this in 10 years and wondering if you could have had an amazing relationship. And since she's your friend then you must know what she likes/dislikes and that would make dating much easier on the both of you. If she doesn't like you as more than a friend at the moment just remember that time changes things and there are plenty of other girls out there. Also, from personal experience, I don't recommend using a note to tell her how you feel.

 

 

 

Go for it and good luck! :thumbsup:

[xvillexvalox]

I think I remember you!

 

 

 

Physical appearances can be put aside. I say you should slowly start hitting on her, complimenting her more and tell her when you think its right, or when she starts noticing.

 

 

 

My advice might not be so good, but it's a good way to have a subtle approach to it.

[stan18]

quick question - how old are you? no, its not to make fun of you, but depending on your age, #2 might change...

[Guest AshKaYu]

I remember always thinking your name meant vaudeville or something xP

 

 

 

Anyway, we're both fairly young, so looks do count a bit.

 

 

 

EDIT: 13/14 ish.

[stan18]

I remember always thinking your name meant vaudeville or something xP

 

 

 

Anyway, we're both fairly young, so looks do count a bit.

 

 

 

EDIT: 13/14 ish.

 

 

 

wait two years. puberty will set in/finish, and you'll be in high school 8-)

 

 

 

things will make more sense then, but until then, dont push it too far

[deloriagod]

Anyway, we're both fairly young, so looks do count a bit.

 

 

 

Ah, it's so much harder when you're younger. Though I suppose in the eyes of many I'm still young (16) but I've put aside my idea of choosing girls strictly on appearance. I like my gf now because she makes me be more outgoing and feel good about myself (though I must admit she's a beauty).

 

 

 

Like xvxvx said, just start flirting with her a little and she might get the hint. If you don't know how to flirt, you can google it and there are some decent bits about how flirting works.

[xvillexvalox]

I remember always thinking your name meant vaudeville or something xP

 

 

 

Anyway, we're both fairly young, so looks do count a bit.

 

 

 

EDIT: 13/14 ish.

 

 

 

Well, they count but, will most likely change, I'm assuming you're in 8th grade(from the 13/14 bit), most of my freinds including me grew 4+ inches and changed the most in the summer after 8th grade before highschool.

[Guest AshKaYu]

I hope to God so. I'm not going into high school 5'2 ^_^

 

 

 

@Deloria: I value anyones opinion, whether they be six or sixty.

[Guest AshKaYu]

Gah. Apparently it's impossible to get out of the friend zone ;_;

[deloriagod]

I hope to God so. I'm not going into high school 5'2 ^_^

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

@Deloria: I value anyones opinion, whether they be six or sixty.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't feel bad if you go into high school being 5'2. I was only 5'3 when I went into high school and didn't grow much until the summer between my freshman and sophomore year. I grew so fast over the summer that I have stretch marks on my back (that I wish would go away). Since appearances still matter you should do a small workout every day. I simply do push-ups (to work my arms/chest) and crunches to work my abs. Do that long enough and you'll get rid of those moobs ;) But if you're comfortable with your body then there's no reason to change.

[deloriagod]

Gah. Apparently it's impossible to get out of the friend zone ;_;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*sigh* Don't tell me you watched that movie.. It's not impossible. It's just very difficult.

[xvillexvalox]

 

I hope to God so. I'm not going into high school 5'2 ^_^

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

@Deloria: I value anyones opinion, whether they be six or sixty.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't feel bad if you go into high school being 5'2. I was only 5'3 when I went into high school and didn't grow much until the summer between my freshman and sophomore year. I grew so fast over the summer that I have stretch marks on my back (that I wish would go away). Since appearances still matter you should do a small workout every day. I simply do push-ups (to work my arms/chest) and crunches to work my abs. Do that long enough and you'll get rid of those moobs ;) But if you're comfortable with your body then there's no reason to change.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I went into highschool this year at 5'4 ^.^

 

 

 

one thing that will get you fit, swimming, lots and lots of swimming, I gained alot of muscle just swimming in gym class for 3 weeks. It's an amazing exercise if you set goals like 10 laps in 10 minutes and move on from there.

[Guest AshKaYu]

 

Gah. Apparently it's impossible to get out of the friend zone ;_;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*sigh* Don't tell me you watched that movie.. It's not impossible. It's just very difficult.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What movie? And how the heck do you do it >_<?

[xvillexvalox]

 

 

Gah. Apparently it's impossible to get out of the friend zone ;_;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*sigh* Don't tell me you watched that movie.. It's not impossible. It's just very difficult.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What movie? And how the heck do you do it >_<?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I say you should slowly start hitting on her, complimenting her more and tell her when you think its right, or when she starts noticing.

[deloriagod]

 

 

Gah. Apparently it's impossible to get out of the friend zone ;_;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*sigh* Don't tell me you watched that movie.. It's not impossible. It's just very difficult.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What movie? And how the heck do you do it >_<?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think the movie was called 'Just Friends' or something like that. This overweight and funny guy was in love with his friend who was a beautiful and very fit girl. He asked her out and she said no (I think it's because she was in front of a ton of people from their school) and so he moved across the country, and led a successful life until he finally came home to see his family and ran into his friend. I won't give away the rest of it but in the end he got the girl ;)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm not sure how to get out of the friend zone. I've known my gf for 2 months. So basically we became friends and quickly moved forward. I've never really tried to get out of the friend zone with any other girls.. Well, except for one but that didn't turn out well.. Long story, you don't want to hear it.

[insane]

Hey :D been a while.

[Guest AshKaYu]

Hey :D been a while.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:D . I remember your flashy siggys ^______^

[Riku3220]

you posted this on serenity :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i'll say the same thing i said last time

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

GROSS!! girls >:(

 

 

 

jk just ask her

[lawrencekill]

 

 

 

Gah. Apparently it's impossible to get out of the friend zone ;_;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*sigh* Don't tell me you watched that movie.. It's not impossible. It's just very difficult.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What movie? And how the heck do you do it >_<?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think the movie was called 'Just Friends' or something like that. This overweight and funny guy was in love with his friend who was a beautiful and very fit girl. He asked her out and she said no (I think it's because she was in front of a ton of people from their school) and so he moved across the country, and led a successful life until he finally came home to see his family and ran into his friend. I won't give away the rest of it but in the end he got the girl ;)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm not sure how to get out of the friend zone. I've known my gf for 2 months. So basically we became friends and quickly moved forward. I've never really tried to get out of the friend zone with any other girls.. Well, except for one but that didn't turn out well.. Long story, you don't want to hear it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I didn't see the movie but from the plot, it was downright shallow. The overweight guy had to get muscular and fit before he was reaccepted.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If she says she doesn't want to risk the friendship she could mean a lot of things, maybe she truely doesn't want to risk it. Or maybe she just wants to let you down politely.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Once you get into the best friends zone, it's hard to get out.

[Guest AshKaYu]

Dammit

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I hate girls >_>

[Guest AshKaYu]

Anyway, my best friend, knowing that I am severely attracted to her, asked her out, she said yes, they are together.

[Boogityboo04]

If you want to bulk up, swimming is the best way to go by far. After my friend had been swimming competitively for 4 years he was faster than anyone in the class and could bench twice as much as most people.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But for advice, I'd say wait until you're older and ask her out in high school. Everyone seems to think they need to start their "relationships" in like 7th grade, but it's not like you'll ever see her again once you in college anyway.

[lawrencekill]

Anyway, my best friend, knowing that I am severely attracted to her, asked her out, she said yes, they are together.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So your best friend knew you liked her and decided that he was more important than you and he should screw you over.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nice, can't believe I don't have friends like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't worry it's only middle school. Usually the bf/gf dumps the bf/gf, within a month. There was a girl in my class in middle school, no I don't love her so shut up \ , and she went through one bf a month or two I think. Only had 3 total I think.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyways you get another chance with her, then most likely you'll get dumped within a few months (but don't get me wrong some of these relationships go on and end up getting married, etc. Don't count on it though...)

[Guest AshKaYu]

Thanks for the help guys, but I'd love more help(especially girls!)