Did you bother to get the union's reasoning for turning it down? Of course we asked them, they said they didn't want an "Urban Music Night" and said they had to go and meet someone else, and left us there to ponder. No, you see, you asked them but you didn't get the answer. I find it unreasonable for you not to get a valid excuse, but even more unreasonable for your party to speculate without having any pretences to base upon. That's really how racial prejudice begins. If we did not get an answer after asking, what else are we going to? Of course we are going to think between us what the reasoning for it is if we were not provided with one, we were both irritated at not being able to organise it, and that they had blown us off with no reason. I know for one I'm not going to sit there and just live with it, there has to be some reason for it, questioning what that reason could be does not seem in any way unreasonable to me. That's exactly what you're doing. You didn't get an answer, so you just stop and try to come up with deranged justifications between you over a matter that could be so simple as funding, organisation or what have you. Instead of being an idol mind and speculating, get back on your trolley and re-propose your event until you get what you wanted. Whether that's the event to take place or the crazy reason why it won't take place you're constituting, I don't know.