Yep, that is very true for teenage girls and early 20s girls. Attractive looks is what makes a girl come up to YOU (not you to her). Sometimes she doesn't come up to you (or walk to ya) but if it's in class, she will start talking to you all of a sudden. If you have pimples buy Proactiv: http://proactiv.com Haircut is important. Though, personal opinion here, I think having long hair (by long hair I mean LONG hair -.-, like below the mouth or nose) isn't a chick-magnet. Short hair cuts generally give better results. Having white (not yellow, or semi-yellow) teeth also helps :). Deodorants/colones that "give" out some sort of "cool" scent helps too. Now, my ultimate chick magnet (what I consider) is having pretty male homeo sapien arms. Decently toned. Perhaps not toned but you can still show it off. Looks are what makes a girl who you have never ever known before, want to talk to you. Just come up to you all of a sudden. Personality comes after. Just tell her what women want to hear: "You look beautiful today!", use words such as: pretty, gorgeous, amazing, astonishing, very pretty. It may seem repetitive, yes, but it works :) Those are my advices to you, Brandon, and anyone needing them. Good luck. When you are nervous about talking to her or something, just think of this: "I have EVERYTHING to gain and nothing to loose.". If you get rejected, so what. You don't know her so you don't care of what she thinks of you. Once more, gl. :) lol, A chick started coming onto me at a party, right, but I was drunk so it turned her off after like 5 minutes XD (I'm a strange drunk). When you engage conversation, try not to let her talk too much about herself and make sure you dont ramble on about your own life. Try to keep it balanced - can be difficult sometimes, depending on the topic.