BlindBaker

Go out, hang out with friends. Party. Have fun. Do whatever you can to forget about her. Find another girl. Or three.

Me too, sort of. It's not really as noticeable as good looks, but it definitely stands out.

This is probably one of the best movies I've ever seen. If you haven't seen it, go see it. Now. In 3D. Do it.

It's aimed at people 16+, sure, but it's not like people ages 13-15 don't know what sex is, so how is it bad that we read it? Besides, it might help us later in life.

I hated all of 2009, and then 2010 just starts out amazing from the very first second. Not for my friend, though. We were gathering around the radio to listen for the countdown (there was a perfectly good TV in the room, I'm confused too). As soon as the new year started, he knocked the radio out in his excitement. It was great. :rolleyes: My resolution? Just to keep doing what I'm doing now. Whatever it is, I'm happy. :thumbup:

That's not a rule, and I wouldn't run by it if you want to be guaranteed not to be prosecuted for rape. Either way I'd get arrested for underaged drinking.

Quite easy to pull off to be honest. Not the way the house is set up. Plus the room we were in was divided by a shelf and a thin translucent wall thing, where everyone else was on the other side. And the fact that there was no alcohol in the house didn't help much either.

He wasn't there. I was never a fan of that sort of attitude Neither am I, but it just sort of happened. Sword, yeah, I read that wrong. She was sober. As far as I know there was no alcohol at that party. How can it be a party without drunk chicks getting taken advantage of? I'm ashamed in you. I think you're forgetting I'm fourteen. Besides, taking advantage of drunk girls? Really? :l Sarcasm pal, sarcasm, and not being serious, taking advantage of drunk girls is horrible, kids that do that should get their [wagon] kicked, and people around where I live take advantage of drunk chicks quite often. not good, not good at all. But what's wrong with drinking at fourteen? Well, the party was at my friend's house. I don't know about you, but here, parents don't leave a bunch of fourteen year olds home alone with beer and girls on New Year's Eve.

He wasn't there. I was never a fan of that sort of attitude Neither am I, but it just sort of happened. Sword, yeah, I read that wrong. She was sober. As far as I know there was no alcohol at that party. How can it be a party without drunk chicks getting taken advantage of? I'm ashamed in you. I think you're forgetting I'm fourteen. Besides, taking advantage of drunk girls? Really? :l

He wasn't there. I was never a fan of that sort of attitude Neither am I, but it just sort of happened. Sword, yeah, I read that wrong. She was sober. As far as I know there was no alcohol at that party.

He wasn't there.

So I just got back from a new years party (happy new year). I guess I must have done something right, because I was laying in a bed with two girls for like two hours. Then one left (the one I'm actually interested in) and the other one kept hugging me and feeling me. She has a boyfriend. They invited me to movie night, which they have almost every Friday. I guess I'll see where that gets me. EDIT: Just want to add, we broke that bed. Whoops.

And that is? :mellow:

Suck it up cupcake. ;)

Yeah. There's not a whole lot you can do in this situation. There's basically no way to get the girl, and definitely the best way to get over her is to find another girl. If that's not an immediate option, I'd try finding flaws in the existing girl. It's hard, as in crush mode people tend to idealize the girl they like, making it hard to find flaws, but start small, they're there. Think of times you've disagreed with her about something, or she's done something you don't like, or something like that. It takes time, but it definitely reduces crush symptoms, of which you have plenty. I did that. I thought about how she was way (WAYWAYWAYWAY) too nice, and it got to the point where it pissed me off to no end. Which is good.

Hmm. I was thinking about this not long ago actually. I'd say yes, because "taking advantage" of the time you have to think of something to say could maybe lead to bad habits? But that's only if you're going to meet her on Facebook in the first place. It's probably better that you're waiting to meet her in person.

The two posts above this one seem like pretty good ideas to me. I say go with them. :thumbup:

"Hey, how much does a polar bear weigh?" you say, walking up to her nonchalantly, with open body language that makes her think, "Damn that's one good-looking guy. And he looks totally cool!" "I don't know?" or something along those lines, she will reply. Confused. "Well, I think it's about enough to break the ice. I'm (insert your name)!" Smile, smile, smile! That one's pretty well-known around here. Still might work out even if they know the answer though.

He's not a [cabbage]head, he just got there first. You asked her even though she has a boyfriend? The fact that she said yes anyway makes me think you could get somewhere, but "if her boyfriend didn't come down" makes me think she's possibly a [bleep]. The best thing to do would be stop obsessing and get over it. "Deserves someone better?" Better than you or better than her boyfriend? If you mean better than her boyfriend you're probably just jealous, and if you mean you, well, you're being too nice. Don't just assume you're never going to, and I know this is the worst possible word to use, "get" her, because then you won't. Ever. Either way you're being too "clingy." Don't be. There are other girls out there. :) I was in pretty much the exact situation the past couple (AKA five) years, but then I got over it and now I'm actually having some fun with life. In short...

[hide=Here's another one.] [/hide] She was cool.

Good that you didn't tell her. It would [bleep] you over in the end. Trust me. Lent: Maybe it'll be choir. ;) Even if it doesn't turn me into a chick magnet, I can't wait. Ees gon' be fooon.

Hm. I feel like I have everything I need to get a girl, except the confidence to back it up. I remember reading some article on this thread about "smart guys." Pretty much everything there applies to me, especially the whole "I'm used to having time to think and so I have trouble keeping a conversation going" thing. I'm not uptight in a conversation, at all. I can relax. I just have no idea what to say or do. And my social status in school doesn't help at all. :mellow:

I would try that, but I had a bad experience with chalk when I was young so I try to stay away from it. :ohnoes:

The first thing you did wrong was you tried to figure out women. They don't make sense. You will NEVER figure them out. You just gotta roll with it. Play the cards you were dealt. That sort of thing. If this girl isn't interested in you, she isn't worth your time. Wouldn't it be better to spend your time on a girl that's interested in you? Go, my child. And find this mystery women that will be attracted to you! Actually he tried to figure out one person, not women in general. Figuring out women is just as impossible as figuring out men, cuz everyone is different. My advice: Blind, just ask her directly. I don't know the story, I haven't been keeping up with this thread, but asking directly is often the best solution. I thought about that, but then I figured, [bleep] it. It's not even worth a try if I'll never get anywhere with her. And now I'm gonna go list everything about her that pisses me off to no end. And that's a lot.

I know I said I was done with this girl and (for the most part) I am. But I'm still trying to figure out where I went wrong. It seemed like as I got more confident and talked to her more, she slowly started giving signs of "No, I don't like you and I don't want to talk to you. Leave me alone." She's far too nice to actual say it (which is a little annoying) but I could tell she was thinking it. At first she looked around every time I approached (maybe making sure her friends weren't watching? Don't know why. Her friends like me). Then she stopped making eye contact. She would just look down or anywhere that wasn't my face. And recently she stopped talking to me completely. Just pretended I wasn't there. I really don't know what I did that caused this, or why I'm still worrying about it at all. By the way, congrats TTanT! :)