BlindBaker

I think this guy was a pretty cool guy. He agrees with my views and doesn't afraid of anything. [hide=WARNING: Sexist, controversy, and just a little creepy.] [/hide] Kudos to whoever gave me the rep with that weird message. If it was you, you'll recognize it.

Give the person time to think about it and get over it, and ask them to at least try for the team's sake? Or tell them you don't have to like each other to work well with the team. Really depends on what you did to them. If you don't mind me asking, what does this have to do with dating?

Eh, I'd look great if it weren't for this gigantic overbite. My family can't afford braces for me because my dad wanted a motorcycle, so now I have to go through highschool with buck teeth. Thanks Dad. A tan would be nice too, but for some reason I can't tan. I burn, and then go back to being pale. Huh.

Yes, but looks definitely help if you've got them. I know the fattest, ugliest guys that have smoking hot girlfriends.

Never give up until she rejects you and you can't convince her after that. She didn't reject me, but if I told you the full story (which would probably take up about three Word pages) you'd understand. Were Tip.it haha We love stories. Just kidding, you dont have to tell if you dont want to. Maybe some other time. It's too emotional and I'm too manly. Lent- I think that whole "logic" thing is my problem. I'll work on it. With some other girl. ...or seven.

Never give up until she rejects you and you can't convince her after that. She didn't reject me, but if I told you the full story (which would probably take up about three Word pages) you'd understand.

Meh. Give up. Wasted waaaay too much time on this girl anyway.

Meh, I couldn't find that girl all week. And it's not an excuse for being too nervous, because I'm not, I just literally could not find her. Would calling her up be a good idea, or should I just wait until next week and do it in person? EDIT: Never mind, she's busy anyway. [bleep].

Rejection is the best thing to overcome (in terms of relationships anyway). A lot of guys don't even ask women out because they fear being rejected. Which means y'did good.

At least you're over it. And since you had the confidence to do it, you should feel confident that you can do it again.

I never said I didn't like confident men. I don't like ARROGANT men. As I said before, there's a difference between confidence and arrogance. Ah, sorry about that. Didn't see your earlier post. Still, for some reason I'd rather take advice from a guy who's successful with girls than an actual girl.

It's sexist, but it's true. Women like a strong, confident man looking out for them. Tripsis, you can't honestly say that's not true.

And besides that, being a "wussbag" makes the females the stronger gender. No offense, but men are supposed to be the leaders. That's just how things are and have always been.

That's sort of the point.

I guess it's the way you say it that would do it. Hard to explain. Meh. I'm new at this. :ohnoes:

I don't think it's like that. The point is to disappoint her, then give her a chance to be friendly again. So you're doing HER a favor.

No updates on the situation, I was just wondering what you guys think of this.

That'd be one hell of a flow chart. Especially since every girl is annoyingly different.

I think I will :D Aparently the freshman girls this year are REALLY into bowling resulting in an explosion in the roster. New market? [bleep] YES! Bowling's in this town too. That'd be kinda fun. But it doesn't have couple-skating, plus I don't want to embarrass myself with my CONSTANT FREAKING GUTTERBALLS AAARGH That's why they make the bumper things :P If you're over the age of seven and are seen bowling with bumpers, you will be shunned for the rest of eternity in my town. Not really, but it's embarrassing. Off topic: Aren't you that guy I talked to on Omegle?

I think I will :D Aparently the freshman girls this year are REALLY into bowling resulting in an explosion in the roster. New market? [bleep] YES! Bowling's in this town too. That'd be kinda fun. But it doesn't have couple-skating, plus I don't want to embarrass myself with my CONSTANT FREAKING GUTTERBALLS AAARGH I might use something like that, but change it up to match her more. I swear this girl is not freaking normal. In a good way, I guess. A little too nice, though. Meh. I think I have an idea I got from some site one time. Get her to disagree with me on something, pretend (jokingly) to be disappointed, and when she starts apologizing (going with the joke), just say something like "You can apologize this Friday at the skating place" or "I forgive you, if you come skating with me on Friday." I don't think the site said that exact strategy, but it sounds good to me. What do you think?

They also have couple skating. ;) I've actually been there with her before. I think it was... fourth grade? Back when you would just invite your entire class to your birthday party, always at this skating place. I don't think I've been there since then, though. Might fall several... hundred times. Ah well. I guess I'll see. Now that I know what we'll do, any ideas as to how to get her to go in the first place? Just "Hey let's go to the skating place this Friday?" Or should I be more creative?

Nothing else to do in this town. Can't walk around without getting mugged or offered some drug or another. There's a roller-blading place, but I'm not sure I have any. What would you suggest?

Well, I might go see 2012 this Friday. Maybe she'll want to go. Not sure if I want to bring friends, though. She's friends-ish with some of my friends so it wouldn't be bad, but then it would seem more like a hang out with friends than a date. Then again, that could be good. Graaah. Yes, I said grah.

They say practice makes perfect. You could always try saying it to her facebook or myspace or any picture you have of her (although if someone catches you doing this it might be a little odd. Haha) But when your actually going to talk to her, just relax. Be yourself, and say what YOU WANT to say, not what you think SHE WANTS to hear. If you're just yourself and she likes that thats all you really need. :thumbsup: I was asking for advice on how to ask her out. Sorry, I already got passed this. :D

Meh. I think I'm getting somewhere with this girl. I'd like to ask her out soon. Approaching is fine (3-second rule is your best friend :thumbsup: ), it's just what to say that screws me up. Even if I know exactly what to say I always end up stuttering a little. Nothing big, but it's noticeable. Any tips as to what to say, and how to say it?