constrictor
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Actually am highly considering quitting, or atleast an extended break. I get inline and am bored like 10 minutes. Though, I am slowly working on getting everything 70+, when I am on.
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My guess is my speeds are close to these if not worse. Haha.
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mine's loewr than that
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Long over due update: God Emissaries.. Some Dungeoneering: Random D&D: And a crummy cloo from a slayer task: Trying DKs for the first time in my life soon, will post if anything worth while happens.
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Draz is to bad for comp anyways.
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Marry one who has a on-clock professional masseuse. Those are the best.
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Dangg. Share tbh Taking prayer donations
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Do you do your own siggys, Stev?
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Wrong-- the doors it closes are far beyond just sex. You basically have to consult your wife before you're allowed to do anything "important"; and if she disapproves or disagrees, tough shit. Marriage itself changes the relationship dynamic-- it basically shifts the balance of power completely in her favor, considering if you piss her off enough (or bore her enough) she'll divorce you and be rewarded for it at your expense. I'd argue that both of these are if you let the god damned women control the entire relationship. Goodness, if you guys are mutually carrying for each other and your opinions (as you should be in any relationship), then in theory, there should not be too many problems. If not then you probably shouldn't have married that person in the first place. Or that's my personal opinion. I do understand relationships take work, trust me, but in general, their should not be one party "over ruling" another. The wife may have a vagina, but that does not give her the power to do whatever the [bleep] she wants. Just as much as the fact that just because the husband has a penis doesn't mean he can do whatever the [bleep] he wants. If the main goal is to be happy, and both parties know that they will find happiness in a marriage, then decisions within the marriage should be made on how to achieve the happiest outcome for both. Sometimes this does require some sacrifice or communication on one side or the other, but overall this should level out.
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You didn't grammar that so goodly. I mean, yeah I bounce between extremes, but you have to push the envelope if you want to find equilibrium. I don't believe I flip between extremes like a switch very often, nor do I do it so intensely. Maybe I'll chase after another wild girl, but I sure as hell won't pass the chance to have a serious relationship with a normal girl because of it. "chasing crazy" makes me short-term happy. I'm happy while it's fun. Sometimes that's a few weeks, sometimes a few months, sometimes a couple of minutes. But seeing all my friends begin their careers, have kids, and even die...I think it's time I stop holding my dick in my hand and actually do something that'll make me happy in the long run. "Chasing crazy" has always been justified to me as a means to an end. The journey before the finale. The stories I can tell my grandkids, and other naive types as I once was (and still am, I'm not claiming to have some sort of mystic wisdom). My endgame has always been to get married to a beautiful, loving woman; have a few kids, and raise them up to be upstanding people. That's what I see as happiness. Being able to hold your grandchild. That's happiness. :wall: I regret everything. Haha. I'd say give it a year, RPG, and then see if you still think that way, if so, then I'd say it's a good decision. Such as? Such as always (resonably) having someone to invest in/do things with. Maybe this is naivety on my part (being young as I am) but it opens so many doors, and honestly, the only door it really closes (though not for all, depending on the relationship, I guess) is having sex with/overly focusing on an different partner. And honestly, as long as the relationship you are in is fulfilling both of those (not condoning focusing primarily on those aspects, but that they are essential to a healthy marriage) then there's really no "lose" in getting married. Unless he/she's a [bleep], of course. But that would be at fault due to failure to think things through, not the marriage itself.
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I literally lol'd. As little as I know you RPG, I know enough to say this is a bad decision, over time possibly good, extremely, not even remotely wise. @Muggiw, I would counter argue that marriage isn't freeing. There are many positive things to marriage that are freeing, especially if you do it well.
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