Yep, I get that all the time. I loudly protest my position: THE GAME DOES NOT HAVE A PAUSE BUTTON, I CAN'T JUST MOVE AWAY ON A MOMENT'S NOTICE. I dunno I'm probably a bit lucky though - my gf has played MMO's before and rather than complain about the game she is more interested in watching and reading the lore, and the newer storylines (she played the Warcraft games as well). She refuses to play though, she claims she is clean and won't relapse. What is it a drug or something? Lol.