well theres this fine girl in my 5 period right.(yes her personallity rocks too) but i didnt know if she had a boyfriend for a while. weve been flirting for about 2 months now. so i find out she has a 17 yr old boyfriend thats in college. yes im thinking hes stupid for not getting a 17 yr old to but still. i wanna know what you guys think. should i keep trying? or should i just wait it out. i have friends that would ... well hurt him... so im not worried about him. but its the fact that she has a boyfriend period. anyways i was just wondering. thank you in advanced.

What ever you do, don't upset her. Don't stop her from seeing her boyfriend or your dating potential is nill. I'd wait it out or find another girl. In th emeantime keep flirting :

so i find out she has a 17 yr old boyfriend thats in college.

 

 

 

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heh thanks. i wouldnt stop her from being with her boyfriend or anything like that. id just be the reason of break up i guess. her choice i wouldnt even suggest it. but yeah ty

i have friends that would ... well hurt him... so im not worried about him.

 

 

 

This is possibly the worst thing you could say with someone like me around.. If you can't stand up for yourself, leave the girl alone. I'm prepared to defend myself/my gf if anyone harasses me/my gf. If you bring your friends into a fight, you show weakness.. Girls don't like weak guys.. I might sound like an a* here, but oh well.

now its not that. ive actually been in quite a few fights and have always faught alone, even tho in one it was a two on one. but aside from that i think that having others fight for me is weak 2. i made that comment for 3 reasons.... 1. to prevent people from thinking that i should stop just because hes "bigger" than me, that wont stop me....2. because hes 17 and i will fight him alone head on but seeing as im "taking" his girlfriend he would most likely want to hurt me bad. brining in friends or trying 2 jump me... 3. because people will underestimate me fully. im 14 and hes 17, yea but hes going out with a 14 year old. also im not a little punk and he wouldnt win by much if he won at all.so again, this would prevent people from saying *hes 17 hell woop ur butt get off unless your willing to take the chance* because yes i am willing to take the chance, and i just wanted 2 clear that up. so just dont think i would have him jumped 2 lay off her or anything like that

dang....i know exactly how ya feel...i went out with another 8th grade girl for a year(im in 8th grade too) and she broke up with meh and a week later she is goin out with a junior in high school (bad thing is...she still flirts with meh a lot -.- )and yes...i do still like her.

dang....i know exactly how ya feel...i went out with another 8th grade girl for a year(im in 8th grade too) and she broke up with meh and a week later she is goin out with a junior in high school (bad thing is...she still flirts with meh a lot -.- )and yes...i do still like her.

 

 

 

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so i find out she has a 17 yr old boyfriend thats in college.

 

 

 

PEDO ALERT

 

 

 

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well...the girl i fell for over a year ago has just turned 14 and a guy whos 18 likes her, she likes him, i told him to seriously back off. i didnt do it out of jealousy, hes too old, done abit of drugs, i was worried for her :?

dang....i know exactly how ya feel...i went out with another 8th grade girl for a year(im in 8th grade too) and she broke up with meh and a week later she is goin out with a junior in high school (bad thing is...she still flirts with meh a lot -.- )and yes...i do still like her.

 

 

 

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well theres this fine girl in my 5 period right.(yes her personallity rocks too) but i didnt know if she had a boyfriend for a while. weve been flirting for about 2 months now. so i find out she has a 17 yr old boyfriend thats in college. yes im thinking hes stupid for not getting a 17 yr old to but still. i wanna know what you guys think. should i keep trying? or should i just wait it out. i have friends that would ... well hurt him... so im not worried about him. but its the fact that she has a boyfriend period. anyways i was just wondering. thank you in advanced.

 

 

 

Set the bar.

 

 

 

Show her you are better than him. Not by physical strength, but by how kind and sweet you can be. Yes, you can do this without being a total "girl". This has personally worked for me. If she realizes her boyfriend isnt as good as you, she will realize she can have better, and will want you. If you dont do this, she'll realize your not worth it, because hes 17, and thats that.

Don't try to break up their relationship. That's just disrespectful. Also, do NOT resort to violence to "keep him in line" - that's just pathetic.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If she's interested in you, she'll realize it, and it will happen naturally. Tell her how you feel, if you want, since there's nothing wrong with honesty, and then let her make her own honest decision.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

- a girl's perspective

Don't try to break up their relationship. That's just disrespectful. Also, do NOT resort to violence to "keep him in line" - that's just pathetic.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If she's interested in you, she'll realize it, and it will happen naturally. Tell her how you feel, if you want, since there's nothing wrong with honesty, and then let her make her own honest decision.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

- a girl's perspective

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Frieking amen to that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fighting doesn't make you look tough, it makes you look stupid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Show some guts, show that your willing to stand up against some 17 yearold for love. Show that your more mature by not fighting. Just tell her how you feel, it may feel like a huge obstacle, but after you ask, it's all easy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If your not willing to do that, then your not worth her time.

Don't try to break up their relationship. That's just disrespectful. Also, do NOT resort to violence to "keep him in line" - that's just pathetic.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If she's interested in you, she'll realize it, and it will happen naturally. Tell her how you feel, if you want, since there's nothing wrong with honesty, and then let her make her own honest decision.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

- a girl's perspective

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

'Amen!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyways, this might just be me but why the hell do we have at least 5 "girlfriend question" topics on the first page? Doesn't it seem a tad out of hand to some of you?

Are you even sure she's flirting with you?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It's not uncommon for hormone-charged males to get the impression that a female they're attracted to is flirting with them, even when she's not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Either way, don't do anything to upset their potentially stable unless you have a tank - in which case, you can follow these instructions:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

- Find a time when she's alone and on reasonably open ground. If she is not in an open space, ensure that whatever is enclosing her is not too heavily reinforced.

 

 

 

- Next, ram her with the tank. If she is in an enclosed space, she will be awed by the power of your treads crushing the puny walls around her life, and could take that as a metaphor. Also, the main gun is incredibly phallic and, like a rhinocerus' horn, proves your virility. If she is in open ground, your treads are still mighty, and your main gun is still phallic.

 

 

 

- If she is not impressed, forget about her. You have better things to waste your time and tank on.

 

 

 

- If she is crushed and dies, forget about her. You have better things to waste your genes on.

 

 

 

- Failing the above two situations, she should be sufficiently awed by your superior power and virility and to dump her boyfriend in favour of you. You may then commence breeding a race of tank-resistant humans.

 

 

 

- Proceed to celebrate by firing your main gun repeatedly at useless structures and passers-by.

Are you even sure she's flirting with you?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It's not uncommon for hormone-charged males to get the impression that a female they're attracted to is flirting with them, even when she's not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Either way, don't do anything to upset their potentially stable unless you have a tank - in which case, you can follow these instructions:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

- Find a time when she's alone and on reasonably open ground. If she is not in an open space, ensure that whatever is enclosing her is not too heavily reinforced.

 

 

 

- Next, ram her with the tank. If she is in an enclosed space, she will be awed by the power of your treads crushing the puny walls around her life, and could take that as a metaphor. Also, the main gun is incredibly phallic and, like a rhinocerus' horn, proves your virility. If she is in open ground, your treads are still mighty, and your main gun is still phallic.

 

 

 

- If she is not impressed, forget about her. You have better things to waste your time and tank on.

 

 

 

- If she is crushed and dies, forget about her. You have better things to waste your genes on.

 

 

 

- Failing the above two situations, she should be sufficiently awed by your superior power and virility and to dump her boyfriend in favour of you. You may then commence breeding a race of tank-resistant humans.

 

 

 

- Proceed to celebrate by firing your main gun repeatedly at useless structures and passers-by.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I did just LOL in real life at that, a work of beauty I must say.

Why can't you just sort out your own mess or check out some other threads, instead of posting these stupid topics for once and wasting forum memory? Honestly, I'm getting really sick of them. It's as if you're not human, you need TIF to tell you what to do. Like deloria said, it's not as we're relationship experts. WE DO HAVE FEELINGS YOU KNOW. OR HAVE YOU FORGOTTEN? SO STOP TREATING US LIKE FRIKKING TOYS!

 

 

 

PS. I'm tempted to post a 'guy problem' thread and see where that gets me. Just give up. She's got a boyfriend, she's most likely happy with him, don't try and ruin her time with him because she'll hate you for it. Leave them alone until you're absolutely certain it's the right thing to do.

It always amuses me when guys talk about fighting some other guy over a girl. They usually talk about it as if it's a chivalrous act, trying to win her love by beating someone else senseless.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you win the fight.. does it mean that you get the girl?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nope.. because girls make their own decisions.. and they probably don't base them on who can win a fight. So if you can't trust her to make a decision, then you probably don't respect her as a person enough.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And if a girl can't make her own decisions without letting guys fight over her love, then she's probably some pathetic decadent girl who will dump you as soon as a stronger or richer guy comes along anyway.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, in conclusion, the fact that he might or might not be stronger than you doesn't matter at all. It's what she thinks of you both that matters. And the mere fact that you felt it necessary to mention that you would fight this guy, suggests that you don't respect that.

Issy.. I have to say I'm sorry. I somehow think this is my fault that all these threads are popping up now.. :-k *holds up a baseball bat* You can bash in my skull if you'd like.. :uhh: