I guess it won't hurt to try to get advise from a different audience. I really have a problem in where I can never truly get a college girl to actually sit down and have a cup of coffee with me. First, there's the whole time issue. Sometimes, they never have the time to actually at the very least have some small talk with me. Then when they potential do have time, they stress about how they they have to do homework and other stuff they have to do. Since the whole "you can never get that crush you have in class in college" theory has been right so far (I will say I had some "success" but w/e). I thought I would try with a girl who's in a same student org. as me. It has worked so far as getting to know somewhat more about each other, but same issues keep occurring. We might say hi while we're heading to our classes, but never really time to actually sit down and chat about stuff (maybe like only twice.) Other times she busy with her job/hw or our schedule conflict too much where we can talk during school. One of my friend suggested to simply use Facebook, but really now? Maybe to actually set up a date, I guess. I fear that she might feel I'm not making a good enough effort though (when I feel I am.) If her friend is leaving this on her wall. I really want to date this girl. She seems amazing and her love of soccer matches mine.