Feminism is one of those things that mean different things to different people. Honestly, I think the type of "feminism" that myweaponsg00d sees on his campus is extremely annoying. The way I like to define my view of feminism is with a quote from Rebecca West that is getting pretty common on bumper stickers: "Feminism is the radical notion that women are people." I don't believe that women are better than men. I don't believe that men are better than women. I think that they're equal and should have equal opportunities as much as possible. If a woman wants to have fifteen kids and stay home and raise them all, more power to her (though I will admit to cringing slightly at the thought of having that many children myself). If a man wants to stay home and tend to the cooking and the cleaning while his wife goes out and works, hey, I'm cool with that too. What I'm not okay with is someone forcing their spouse to stay home and tend to it, whether it's a man or a woman doing the forcing. I'm also not okay with a man doing everything in his power to force his wife to have children when she doesn't want to - depending on the form this forcing takes, it could range from marital rape (which is legal in many parts of the world still), to denying access to birth control and refusing to wear a condom (or sabotaging it), to preventing her from seeking an abortion (and can we not debate this point here, there's another thread for abortion). I think that there are girls who want to go to technical school, but also want to get married someday and have been told their whole life that boys don't like smart girls, so they either don't go to college, or they get a degree in something more "feminine" than engineering. Whether or not boys do like smart girls isn't the issue - it's that girls are told they don't and since they still want to get a man, they supress their own desires, and i think that's wrong, just as it would be wrong to force a girl who loves cooking to go to engineering school. There are as many different kinds of women as there are men - possession of a uterus doesn't untie us any more than possession of a penis unites men. So really, feminism is all about a women's right to choose, and not just in the "pro-choice" abortion sense. It's a women's right to choose as much of her destiny as a man can, whether that destiny is in a kitchen with a couple of kids running around, or in an operating room performing brain surgery.