Omar

You're 15, brah. You think you're in love because you're tight with a cute girl, but only one. Truth is, you don't know what love is. And neither do I, and that's normal at 15. But if you don't give things a try, you're not going to know any time soon. You have an idealistic representation of a world that you know nothing of, and that's why you shouldn't be categorizing girls as "want" and "do not want" right off the bat.

First off, read David DeAngelo's 'Double your Dating'. That'll solve your antisocial problem, boost confidence, etc. You can find it as a free .pdf, just Google it. Second, you're generalizing about partiers. Some are [bleep]es, some are cool. Same goes for any other type of people.

IMO jake, you need to start feeling good about yourself, stop thinking she's the only girl for you, and stop thinking you're the only guy for her. It sounds like you feel insecure about how attractive you are. I think you should go to a bunch of parties and flirt with a lot of girls. If you're successful, your self-esteem will rise. If not, you can improve, and then your self esteem will rise. And maybe you'll find a cute one you'll want to stick with. I know what it's like, there's about 40 girls in my grade. Look outside, there's girls in most schools.

It's fixed. We'll kiss when she's ready.

My "view your posts" search has way too many posts ITT.

Yep, it was someone here, I remember it.

Also synesthesia.

It has my blessings.

Synesthesia is etymologically "together senses", and you're sensing emotion through sight. So at least in the most basic ways, it is effectively synesthesia. I'm sure you'd find something similar if you sifted through the Wikipedia article.

I think those are two different types of synesthesia. We could try something else with you, I'll make a grid of shapes and colors and you'll tell us what you're feeling. Sound good?

oh, my bad XD I figured you'd been together a little longer than 4 dates lol. Why didn't you talk to her the one time? And why haven't you kissed her after 2 whole weeks?!? ...regardless The first time I saw her was at my friend's concert. I can't socialize with everyone, christ. The second time was at a party. She was drunk and I was sober and still with my ex. That's two reasons not to pull anything serious, she did come onto me though. We texted for a while, then we planned something out. I don't remember when it was but it was fun, except we didn't get very physical, she just put her head on my shoulder. Then I saw her two days ago, she was with her friend, we had fun as well. Stayed on the phone with them while they were drunk, t'was funny. And I saw her yesterday, with the same friend, then that friend left and we were alone for about an hour and a half. Conversation, a little more physical than last time, but still not much. I hung out with her and a friend she was waiting for, and then I left. Conclusion: I can't count to 5, and I didn't kiss her because she doesn't want to (she wants to take it slow, got dumped by her BF 3 weeks ago and was very hurt).

It's been two weeks, seen her 4 times in total (one of which I didn't talk to her at all), and I'm trying to get a kiss out of her. I just talked to her friend and she explained to me why she sort of pulled away every time we got close, it's not because of me and I just need to give her time. But keep suggesting, it's good to know anyways.

Suits aren't the only thing you can look good in. Casual style can look just as sophisticated.

I need advice. I can't figure out how to get physical with this girl. She leans on my shoulder, we sort of cuddle a little, I know she's into me, but it's not "just happening" like it did when I just met my friend. I can't put my arm around her waist because she thinks I'm going to tickle her every time, I do it too much. :P

But if you move your fingers around it's trippy. So I rendered a handful of short sounds and I sampled one. If you can see sound, it would be cool if you could tell me: 1) whether the shapes you're seeing in two or three dimensions 2) the color(s) of the shapes you see 3) How complicated they are (if you can approximate, how many sides to the shapes you're seeing) 4) If they're regular polygons or messed up shapes like the green one here: 5) If they happen to be a rectangle, try to draw its proportions. If you can draw them, it's awesome, but you don't have to. The download link to the zip is beloooow. http://www.mediafire.com/?zyjzmrtkwdn

it's free.

I thought everyone did...?

Not entirely true. I wouldn't wear anything skin tight, but you should still wear form fitting clothing. There's no hiding that you're skinny. But wearing loose clothing just makes it look as if you're swimming in a gown. You can't go wrong wearing form fitting clothing, especially if you layer. I recommended slim fits instead of skinnies.

I press on my eyes to get those creepy lights when I'm bored in class. It's not synesthesia.

Siiiick. I'll work on it this weekend. I feel like a scientist. :)

That's different.

If they're mentally unstable, I don't think you can really blame them for their behaviour.

If I provided you (and any other sound to visuals kids in the house) with a zip containing short sound files, would you mind describing the shapes and the colors you perceive?

If you're that skinny, I'd go for looser fits. ]https://www.jackthreads.com/sales/1152/products/3579 Fiberops Slim Raw Denim, 75$ on JackThreads. Ships to Canada and the US only. You can find this fit easily at Zara, I know Altamont sells it (http://altamontapparel.com/images/collections/fall-07/pants/pants-fit-guide.jpg , you're looking for Wilshire slouch or Alameda, you can buy it online). Threadless usually sells funny, cute, etc tees that will probably clash with the tone of a blazer. Plain tees or more serious graphic tees with a lot of character are easier to wear with a blazer. If you want, you can go for V/distressed or scoop necks, that'll make it more interesting. For shoes, see my last post for that tall dude. I'm not a fan of Converse with blazers. Once again, it clashes the tones.

This thread is exciting. [Edit] When you visually perceive heat, do you see it as superimposed to what your eyes see, or do you see it in a completely different space?