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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Tell them they're temporary and they won't mean a thing (not really I've just been listening to circa survive lately) Getting on a real name basis is a good step, but it may be even better when its an after thought. "Here's my number" and then in the text message "oh wait my real name is this". But that could also be worse? I'll have to ruminate on that one a bit...
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It's not normal to assume you're doing anything after an event like that, but it is normal to ask. Ask your friend what his plans were after MEETING BILL [bleep]ING NYE and see if you an sway him into going to a bar or something. NYC is a great place to broaden your horizons. I suggest a hookah bar, as drinks in NYC are hella expensive. Don't forget - even the road trip upstate is a bonding experience. Share some music and talk about things on the way up. Maybe even discuss what you're doing after you get your book signed. Feel free to suggest whatever if your buddy doesn't have any other plans. If he has social skills and has open plans, he'll notice you are looking for something to do and invite you along.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
http://www.vice.com/read/the-looking-for-a-girlfriend-flyer-guy-in-new-york-is-getting-laid-way-more-than-you-311?utm_source=vicefbus This is fascinating. Reminds me of a video Muggiw posted a while back
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
There is a fetish for contacting sti's. I think it's called bug hunting or something like that. Very odd. Usually derived from denial and over compensation of conquering fear. Having not used grinder I assumed it was the same mechanic as tinder. I suppose the strategy would have to change as open messages can vary dramatically pending target audience
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Precisely. By "getting her number" my method usually finds a way out of the conversation but to be resumed later like "Im about to head to a friends house but if you wanna keep talking, my number is xxxxxxx and I'll give you a call later". That way if I dont get a text or a call I know she's out to waste my time. Theres not so much a question as there is a heavy suggestion
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
First listen to the soundtrack to the breakfast club. I always get the number before agreeing to meet up. It ensures a confident commitment. Think back to the PUA days when changing locations was a strong tell of commitment to the personal interaction at hand. If they follow you to a new location - youre in. If they follow you to a new medium of contact - youre in. The more social media they offer to connect you too, the stronger her desire for you
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Meet up doesn't have to be within 24 hours, but a commitment to one does. I wouldn't make it further than a week though. I've been accused of copy paste messages and I dont even use them, I just structure my openers like one. Girls like feeling like their special. Just make that clear one way or another.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Tinder/grinder pro-tip: (this is an obvious strategy but not one I want spread all over the internet or it'll be self defeating) Swipe right 100%. Give only a validation of person in your description (instagram, snap chat, etc). Less than 4 photos that each promote an attractive feature about you (your friends at a bar, graduation photo, driving something, your face at a good angle. Dont even look. Just swipe right. Any girl(or guy) thats into you will be a connection anyway and anyone you "accidentally" connect with can easily be ignored. They get the confidence that someone found them attractive and you get the advantage of weeding out anyone not interested in you. I average about 1 match every 100 swipes but you have to account for user activity and other algorithms. From those matches you can then use the "muggiw method" of getting in, sealing the deal and getting out. Time is of the essence. No allusion to meeting up within 24 hours? Move on. Theres swiping to be done
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What do you guys do when you're bored/alone?
Posting after a "/thread" doesn't sit well with me
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Im so glad I no longer understand what Faststrike is talking about lol --- Tinder girl is playing my own game against me and winning. I find myself checking my phone every 10 minutes like an idiot looking for messages that aren't coming lol. But I got pre-approved by the "hotel" we'll be staying at so everything is falling into place nicely. Also, my Exxxotica tickets came in today so I'm feeling quite pleasantly manic. Dear lord don't give me coffee right now.
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Ah that's a bummer. I'm about 2 hours south of Newark and I got a date on Thursday in Philly so unless you wanna stay for the weekend looks like we'll be missing each other. I've got a buddy in Newark for collecting given how often he leaves his campus i cant promise the area is that great though lol. You'll only be about 30 minutes from hardcore New York people though so youre experience will probably be more New York style than Jersey.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Changed tinder girl around on me being a guinea pig. I knew odds were in my favor. Always believe in yourself
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Hahaha bragging rights for days Noxx thats brilliant. Hell, that happened to you 10 months ago and youre STILL talking about it. Sounds incredible
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I meant frats yes, my keyboard gets wonky when I Swype fast. Frats are meant to be academic and beneficial to society but they often devolve into the Hollywood brand college party scene. Granted, most frat parties are nothing like the movies and actually kind of suck from my experience. I've been to better house parties than frat parties. Bigger ones too. Bout 7 hours til halloween gets wild. Wish me luck