You need to expand your comfort zone. The key is going out with close friends in smaller groups then slowly moving into larger ones. problem is im a loner, the only person ive ever been close to and been friends with was my girlfriend So... What are you stating. You're sad that you can't go out with people, because essentially you are not able to. What is holding you back? Think about it, then get back to us. i dont know whats holding me back, i try and try but i cant go out to places with lots of people. and im not really sad its just anoying