Just read the first post - didn't read the thread so if someone else already responded with this answer, I apologize. To address your number 4 point: If someone is your friend, you don't stop being friends because they quit playing a particular game. If you're friends with someone, you give them contact information to keep in touch. So if someone leaves and you never hear from them again, you're not friends. To address your overall point: It's people like you who are emo and whiny that ensure my chat setting is set to friends only. I do not exist to make you happy. I don't like you. I don't want to talk to you. Obviously you can't handle that concept, indicating to everyone that you are immature and emotionally needy. What you need to do is find a clan of emotionally immature and needy people so you can all sit around and tell each other how awesome and pretty and rich you all are and tell each other that you love each other and give each other cyber hugs and hi-fives all day long. Kindly leave the rest of us alone :)