LMAO. The words "pot", "kettle" and "black" spring to mind. Oops, sorry insane. You're quite correct, I apologise. I'm open to either really. :wink: Exactly. Sexual compatibility, whilst not being the key element to a marriage, is still an important one and should not be overlooked. Actually love is more important than sex in a marriage, but then again I'm not a shallow person so that is reflected in my answer. Depends what kind of person you are really....