Incidentally, as best as I can tell my parents got divorced kind of um... as a result of me being born lol. They were married long enough that at one point I think my maternal grandparents thought my mom wouldn't have kids. And then I was born. And my parents got divorced when I was 2 or 3. My earliest memories are from when I was 3 and my parents were already divorced by then. So, in conclusion, yay for anecdotal evidence?