Another parent problem thread - i need help.

[Tim]

You've got a bad family, this is the perfect time to become a rebel. Go out and have the time of your life. Your parents don't care when you get home. Stay out late. Go to parties (but play it safe). Hang out with friends. Get out of the house as much as possible. Alot of kids don't get that chance and have very overprotective parents like me and I can't do anything like that.

 

 

 

Or run away to canada. Srsly.

 

no offence but your advice is that, that i'd expect from someone who's high almost 24/7.

 

hell im 18 and legal to drink but i dont need that crap in my liver.

 

 

 

onto the issue. you mother doesnt have the right to blame you for something that is litterally uncontrollable. my Beagle has arthrtis in his front legs, he's hitting 13 this thursday but we dont blame anyone because its normal for the body to slowly fall apart, hence Death of Age. alternativly (i cant spell that word >.<) i work for a youth organisation (Ausie Gov' one, not cristian based) and here's a few factsheet's that MIGHT help.

 

ReachOut! Website/FactSheets

 

the info IS australian based but can be used for others. i should know, helped few mates overseas. :

[ididnotlol]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Also, when it comes to our parents being really bad, and annoying, me and my brother do have a truce, and plot revenge. (just today, we found out that my parents literally slammed my brothers xbox360 down on something, and ripped the plugs out the socket.)

 

 

 

I have seriously thought about some of the advise (mainly giving parents a reason to treat me like the world worst teenager.)

[DUELMASTER30]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Also, when it comes to our parents being really bad, and annoying, me and my brother do have a truce, and plot revenge. (just today, we found out that my parents literally slammed my brothers xbox360 down on something, and ripped the plugs out the socket.)

 

 

 

I have seriously thought about some of the advise (mainly giving parents a reason to treat me like the world worst teenager.)

 

 

 

Your parents sound horrible tbh. Not to be offensive, but everything you told us can scar any child for life. I would seriously suggest talking to a close relative, and if that doesn't get immediate help, I would call the authorities. You might be moved out of your house, and your brother too, but it would probably be for the best. If there is a relative that you are comfortable around, and you think they would accept you into their home, I would suggest trying to move in with them. You could also try to find that substance again, and put a little in a plastic bag and hide it for later, to find out if it is anything by having it tested.

[ididnotlol]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Also, when it comes to our parents being really bad, and annoying, me and my brother do have a truce, and plot revenge. (just today, we found out that my parents literally slammed my brothers xbox360 down on something, and ripped the plugs out the socket.)

 

 

 

I have seriously thought about some of the advise (mainly giving parents a reason to treat me like the world worst teenager.)

 

 

 

Your parents sound horrible tbh. Not to be offensive, but everything you told us can scar any child for life. I would seriously suggest talking to a close relative, and if that doesn't get immediate help, I would call the authorities. You might be moved out of your house, and your brother too, but it would probably be for the best. If there is a relative that you are comfortable around, and you think they would accept you into their home, I would suggest trying to move in with them. You could also try to find that substance again, and put a little in a plastic bag and hide it for later, to find out if it is anything by having it tested.

 

 

 

Thanks, i searched for it earlier, but I havnt been able to find it, my parents may have used it, if it were to be an illegal drug, instead of going to the authorities, i'd be more than delighted to blackmail them instead.

 

 

 

The only decent relative that lives near to me is my grandma, but i'd rather not make her day miserable by complaining about stuff to her.

[Koo]

Castrate your brother while he sleeps.

Do it with a Shovel.

[Furah]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Also, when it comes to our parents being really bad, and annoying, me and my brother do have a truce, and plot revenge. (just today, we found out that my parents literally slammed my brothers xbox360 down on something, and ripped the plugs out the socket.)

 

 

 

I have seriously thought about some of the advise (mainly giving parents a reason to treat me like the world worst teenager.)

 

 

 

Your parents sound horrible tbh. Not to be offensive, but everything you told us can scar any child for life. I would seriously suggest talking to a close relative, and if that doesn't get immediate help, I would call the authorities. You might be moved out of your house, and your brother too, but it would probably be for the best. If there is a relative that you are comfortable around, and you think they would accept you into their home, I would suggest trying to move in with them. You could also try to find that substance again, and put a little in a plastic bag and hide it for later, to find out if it is anything by having it tested.

 

 

 

Thanks, i searched for it earlier, but I havnt been able to find it, my parents may have used it, if it were to be an illegal drug, instead of going to the authorities, i'd be more than delighted to blackmail them instead.

 

 

 

The only decent relative that lives near to me is my grandma, but i'd rather not make her day miserable by complaining about stuff to her.

 

 

 

is your grandma really nice to you? if she is then maybe you could talk with her, and there should be no reason why you can't live with her plus your grandparents (assuming your granddad is still alive) would love to spend more time with their grandson(s) (if your brother moves with you, hopefully you can work something out : ) trust me grandparents do everything with "a dash of love"

[Kiriyama]

Do you have any other relatives you can stay with? Because your mom sounds [bleep] crazy.

 

 

 

Seriously. I wouldn't want to stay with her. She blamed you for your dog's arthritis, which, from what I know (which isn't much), is caused by infection or lack of use in the joints of his legs. Unless you're obviously not telling us something, because it can also can be caused by something happening to the joint, any sort of trauma or whatever.

 

 

 

You're not telling us all the info, mate.

 

 

 

No offense dude, but I don't think you should be giving parental advice when you have a thread about your own issues right below this one...

 

 

 

Anyways, stay at home until she does any physical abuse to you. Blaming you for something you didn't do if far from justice to move out of the house.

 

 

 

I wasn't giving him PARENTAL advice. He asked just for advice. And I gave it to him. I can pull away from my own problems to help him with his.

 

 

 

You, my friend, need to lay off, seriously.

 

 

 

He's asking for advice about his parents you moron.

 

 

 

Therefore, Parental advice.

[ididnotlol]

I'd rather not have to ask to live with my grandparents, because, I dont like having to be all negative around them, so i dont like upseting them.

 

Also, could the arguements here please stop, both of you had good intentions to give advise, no need to argue.

[Powman3]

 

He's asking for advice about his parents you moron.

 

 

 

Therefore, Parental advice.

 

 

 

What I consider parental advice must be different from what you consider it as.

 

 

 

Whatever. No need to call me a moron. Seriously.

 

 

 

And all of Zierro's theories (I think) seem very rational. I dunno if you're doing this for other reasons we're oblivious to, so you must not be explaining everything. Seriously.

 

 

 

And why are you afraid of upsetting them? Do you think they'll do something to you?

 

 

 

EDIT: Just read your post. I promise I won't argue anymore.

[Roberthree]

People are actually buying into this crap? C'mon.

[deloriagod]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Probably meth or possibly heroin. Proably meth though. Much easier to get your hands on.

[Lateralus]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Probably meth or possibly heroin. Proably meth though. Much easier to get your hands on.

 

 

 

Talk about assuming the worst. I would have started at hash and worked my way up from there.

[Roberthree]

The substance that my parents had rolled up looked like a brown powder.

 

 

 

Probably meth or possibly heroin. Proably meth though. Much easier to get your hands on.

 

 

 

or maybe it's freaking cinnamon?

 

 

 

Not enough info to start making such bold assumptions.

[Lenticular_J]

I hope they aren't snorting freaking cinnamon. Even though normal cinnamon is much worse.

 

 

 

Or even just keeping it in secret places. That's wierd enough.

[Powman3]

People are actually buying into this crap? C'mon.

 

 

 

Heck. Nobody knows if anything is true on this forum or not. But if people are kind enough to ask for advice (oh man I am so going to regret saying this) we give it to them.

 

 

 

Maybe it is freaking cinnamon. Maybe it's a drug. We don't know. But i do think meth and heroin could've waited....

[ididnotlol]

 

He's asking for advice about his parents you moron.

 

 

 

Therefore, Parental advice.

 

 

 

What I consider parental advice must be different from what you consider it as.

 

 

 

Whatever. No need to call me a moron. Seriously.

 

 

 

And all of Zierro's theories (I think) seem very rational. I dunno if you're doing this for other reasons we're oblivious to, so you must not be explaining everything. Seriously.

 

 

 

And why are you afraid of upsetting them? Do you think they'll do something to you?

 

 

 

EDIT: Just read your post. I promise I won't argue anymore.

 

 

 

Im not afraid of them doing anything, they are to kind to, I just feel guilty if i make my grandma feel bad.

[PizzaMan94]

ok, to me it looks like you have 5 options.

 

1: confront your parents and work something out

 

2: deal with it. when you hit 18, get out of there! (seems like the most realistic idea)

 

3: give them a reason to hate you

 

4: see a counselor or a psychiatrists (thank you spellcheck)

 

5: go INSANE and attack your family (only as a last resort)

 

good luck

[Powman3]

 

He's asking for advice about his parents you moron.

 

 

 

Therefore, Parental advice.

 

 

 

What I consider parental advice must be different from what you consider it as.

 

 

 

Whatever. No need to call me a moron. Seriously.

 

 

 

And all of Zierro's theories (I think) seem very rational. I dunno if you're doing this for other reasons we're oblivious to, so you must not be explaining everything. Seriously.

 

 

 

And why are you afraid of upsetting them? Do you think they'll do something to you?

 

 

 

EDIT: Just read your post. I promise I won't argue anymore.

 

 

 

Im not afraid of them doing anything, they are to kind to, I just feel guilty if i make my grandma feel bad.

 

 

 

 

 

Whoa. Wait. If they're kind to you, what exactly is your problem?

[ididnotlol]

I was talking about my grandparents being kind, not my parents.

[highlanders]

Some parents are just not good at the whole parenting thing. Just try to keep sane? Do some stuff you like to try to get all the bad thoughts out [cheeseyness... XD]. If your parents try to give you crap, brush it off with a joke, indifferent comment, or just tell them their point of view is ridiculous, just keep calm. There's no point in getting worked up about it. Anywayz, apart from the dog's arthritis(integrated spellcheck ftw), what else do they do?

 

 

 

5: go INSANE and attack your family (only as a last resort)

 

*LOL*

[Furah]

I was talking about my grandparents being kind, not my parents.

 

 

 

I still say talk with them about what is happening, and ask if they wouldn't mind you staying with them, and tell them if they don't want to they don't have to (try and help out alot and they will probably prefer you staying) if not I'm sure there are many people who would take you in. Now I'm not sure about where you live, but I know is Australia teens not living with their parents and are who are still in school get some money from the government (my friend gets something like $400AUS a fortnight) and I'm sure the government where you live will have something like that, so use it to still pay for stuff, like atleast rent, school, food, that sort of thing.