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Since I am nice as I am, I'd never actually tell her she is any of those things, as I believe it all to be a result of her being simple-minded. Her simple-mindedness also includes her emotional incapability to act in a mature manner in all types of relationships. I don't think she's smart enough to use someone based on how she treated me. If she was using me, I'd find it weird that she'd go out of her way for me at any time, unless she was doing it so I wouldn't catch on, but I don't think she's manipulative enough to think about things that way. She can't even say the word manipulate. Part of it all is that it was MY problem in letting go of the ways she wronged me just as she acted like she never did anything wrong. I'm thankful now that this break has come naturally through separation and lack of communication, rather than a blowout, because I'd have sore feelings about that and I feel quite well right now focusing on myself and having nothing to regret.

/FG/First thread post to when I joined the family.

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Since I am nice as I am, I'd never actually tell her she is any of those things, as I believe it all to be a result of her being simple-minded. Her simple-mindedness also includes her emotional incapability to act in a mature manner in all types of relationships. I don't think she's smart enough to use someone based on how she treated me. If she was using me, I'd find it weird that she'd go out of her way for me at any time, unless she was doing it so I wouldn't catch on, but I don't think she's manipulative enough to think about things that way. She can't even say the word manipulate. Part of it all is that it was MY problem in letting go of the ways she wronged me just as she acted like she never did anything wrong. I'm thankful now that this break has come naturally through separation and lack of communication, rather than a blowout, because I'd have sore feelings about that and I feel quite well right now focusing on myself and having nothing to regret.

 

stop lying to yourself.

 

she is wrong. she deserves to be told she is wrong to treat you this way.

 

you deserve better.

 

but if you prefer to end the ship in this manner, i will respect that. <_<

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Because.

 

Why does Fish and Ghoti sound the same?

"Let your anger be as a monkey in a piñata... hiding amongst the candy... hoping the kids don't break through with the stick." - Master Tang

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Gh: The F sound from tough.

O: The I sound from women.

Ti: The shh sound from nation.

"Let your anger be as a monkey in a piñata... hiding amongst the candy... hoping the kids don't break through with the stick." - Master Tang

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Since I am nice as I am, I'd never actually tell her she is any of those things, as I believe it all to be a result of her being simple-minded. Her simple-mindedness also includes her emotional incapability to act in a mature manner in all types of relationships. I don't think she's smart enough to use someone based on how she treated me. If she was using me, I'd find it weird that she'd go out of her way for me at any time, unless she was doing it so I wouldn't catch on, but I don't think she's manipulative enough to think about things that way. She can't even say the word manipulate. Part of it all is that it was MY problem in letting go of the ways she wronged me just as she acted like she never did anything wrong. I'm thankful now that this break has come naturally through separation and lack of communication, rather than a blowout, because I'd have sore feelings about that and I feel quite well right now focusing on myself and having nothing to regret.

 

stop lying to yourself.

 

she is wrong. she deserves to be told she is wrong to treat you this way.

 

you deserve better.

 

but if you prefer to end the ship in this manner, i will respect that. <_<

 

No, honestly, when I say she's simple-minded, I mean she's stupid. Too stupid to know how to treat people, and too stupid to know she's wrong. I'm not confrontational and I don't find there to be any reason to tell her any of this unless she accuses me of wronging her in some way. I'm not talking to her at all and there's no reason to go out of my way to tell her she's stupid because it's seriously not worth it. I feel good right now, although I've felt slightly paranoid that she might start something at some point, but I have no reason to provoke her. My simple life, my routine, I enjoy it. I can't lie and say I don't read her facebook statuses and feel disgusted, but I'm not letting anything she does seriously bother me for any length of time. It's not worth it, and I only need to worry about how I act. Giving her my honest opinion at this point could HELP her, and the only person I need to help is myself.

/FG/First thread post to when I joined the family.

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[hide=Insert rant here]blahblahblahLIFE[/hide]

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Since I am nice as I am, I'd never actually tell her she is any of those things, as I believe it all to be a result of her being simple-minded. Her simple-mindedness also includes her emotional incapability to act in a mature manner in all types of relationships. I don't think she's smart enough to use someone based on how she treated me. If she was using me, I'd find it weird that she'd go out of her way for me at any time, unless she was doing it so I wouldn't catch on, but I don't think she's manipulative enough to think about things that way. She can't even say the word manipulate. Part of it all is that it was MY problem in letting go of the ways she wronged me just as she acted like she never did anything wrong. I'm thankful now that this break has come naturally through separation and lack of communication, rather than a blowout, because I'd have sore feelings about that and I feel quite well right now focusing on myself and having nothing to regret.

 

stop lying to yourself.

 

she is wrong. she deserves to be told she is wrong to treat you this way.

 

you deserve better.

 

but if you prefer to end the ship in this manner, i will respect that. <_<

 

No, honestly, when I say she's simple-minded, I mean she's stupid. Too stupid to know how to treat people, and too stupid to know she's wrong. I'm not confrontational and I don't find there to be any reason to tell her any of this unless she accuses me of wronging her in some way. I'm not talking to her at all and there's no reason to go out of my way to tell her she's stupid because it's seriously not worth it. I feel good right now, although I've felt slightly paranoid that she might start something at some point, but I have no reason to provoke her. My simple life, my routine, I enjoy it. I can't lie and say I don't read her facebook statuses and feel disgusted, but I'm not letting anything she does seriously bother me for any length of time. It's not worth it, and I only need to worry about how I act. Giving her my honest opinion at this point could HELP her, and the only person I need to help is myself.

 

oh god.. im crying.. my fluff puff is taking my advice and being happy :cry:

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My facebutts isn't.

 

VEEEEZZZZOOOONNN

"Let your anger be as a monkey in a piñata... hiding amongst the candy... hoping the kids don't break through with the stick." - Master Tang

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