cadburys_egg Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Pretend to break up with her, that will re-light the fuse. It worked for me! And my... um, ex. *cough* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cithien Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 you people make me nauseous...and I'm female. Seriously, ditch the whipped cream thing (especially if you happen to be minors), and go for something with less of a cheese factor. Some of the best dates I've been on have involved nothing more elaborate than going on a hike or watching movies in my basement. If you two are really into each other, what you do becomes irrelevant, and trying too hard to contrive a romantic setting can ultimately work to your detriment. It's so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and say the opposite. ~Sam Levenson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest XplsvBam Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 maybe easy cheese? ill be 18 in a 4 weeks fyi. bored games are awesome! apples to apples ftw! i guess we could go watch a movie after the cheese session but we always watch movies. I want this night to stand out a 'little' compared to other nights. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anesthesia Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 ill be 18 in a 4 weeks fyi. Is anyone else surprised? As for what to do, I'd go with Dusqi's suggestion. Some people are changed by being a moderator. I wouldn't be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giordano Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 have a nice picnic watching the sunset. After the sun sets, light some candles to make it a bit romantic, and make it interesting. One of my friends got lunchables and they were feeding each other, it worked pretty cool. ROFL!!! :lol: Whip cream FTW :P "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anesthesia Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 What is with all the negativity? Were you not loved as a child? You want to make fun of someone for having a difficult childhood? What has that got to do with negativity? Some people are changed by being a moderator. I wouldn't be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest XplsvBam Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 You want to make fun of someone for having a difficult childhood? What has that got to do with negativity? You want to make fun of someone who is 17? Enough flaming I happen to like what advice people are giving even if you don't. Big day in two days! So far its looking like whip cream, teddy bear, possibly picture? I like the idea of bringing a cam that way we can take pictures of each other with the beautiful sunset behind us and remember forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anesthesia Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I make fun of people of all ages for the simple reason of their not acting them. As for not liking the advice people are giving, didn't I just show my approval for Dusqi's idea? I did contribute to the thread you know. Some people are changed by being a moderator. I wouldn't be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x76 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 My suggestion would be to just wing it, kiss her, cuddle with her, just spend some quality time with her. Just like cithien said, it doesn't matter what you two do with each other. If you like each other enough it'll be good enough just to spend the time together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cithien Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I'd leave the photos well enough alone; I mean, one month isn't long enough to determine whether or not you're actually going to want memorabilia of this whole relationship in the future. Believe me, I've got plenty of pictures and gifts kicking around from past relationships, and most of them conjure unpleasant thoughts of the guys that gave them, rather than the happy memories they were meant to capture. Oh, and teddy bears are overrated. Sure flowers die, but to me they're much more endearing, and easier to dispose of when things go awry. Gimme a bouquet of roses any day... It's so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and say the opposite. ~Sam Levenson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
insane Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 you people make me nauseous...and I'm female. Seriously, ditch the whipped cream thing (especially if you happen to be minors), and go for something with less of a cheese factor. Some of the best dates I've been on have involved nothing more elaborate than going on a hike or watching movies in my basement. If you two are really into each other, what you do becomes irrelevant, and trying too hard to contrive a romantic setting can ultimately work to your detriment. Agreed, and I would think that what cithien said can be applied to: We have been hanging out alot playing bored games oh god We have been hanging out alot playing bored games and stuff wow... im glad im not you (no offence... kinda) :P You two, note the bold. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mad4u689 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Yeah.. I have to say, some of the most romantic moments I've had have just involved watching a movie on someone's computer or something :D But then, hiking and picnics and sunsets are wonderful, too. Is there a local amusement park you could go to? A small one, not like a Six Flags, but bigger than a carnival. That is really fun, and romantic (you can play a game and do really badly and then ask the guy if you can just pay extra to get her a teddy bear prize :D).. especially if you guys like rides. Everybody hug and spread the love :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oy_the_Great Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 No offense, but why would anyone want to ask relationship advise on a forum? It kinda reveals your rather compact inspiration. Just remember what you want to do, ask her what she wants to do and make a fine decision. If you like football, but she hates it and rather wants to go to see a horribly romantic movie, just find the golden road in between and go see a football movie. Oh and please don't take what I just said too literary, it's more like a 3rd rank metaphore I just came up with. Bill Hicks[/url]":dhj2kan9]Since the one thing we can say about fundamental matter is, that it is vibrating. And since all vibrations are theoretically sound, then it is not unreasonable to suggest that the universe is music and should be perceived as such. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest XplsvBam Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Yeah.. I have to say, some of the most romantic moments I've had have just involved watching a movie on someone's computer or something :D But then, hiking and picnics and sunsets are wonderful, too. Is there a local amusement park you could go to? A small one, not like a Six Flags, but bigger than a carnival. That is really fun, and romantic (you can play a game and do really badly and then ask the guy if you can just pay extra to get her a teddy bear prize :D).. especially if you guys like rides. There is going to be a carnival in town over labor day weekend. We are already planning on going to that. I understand the thing about just spending time with each other is enough. But for the past month all we have been doin is hang out watch movies talk and play games. I just want this to be a little special. After all I do like her alot. Its crazy how comfratable we are with each other. I like the gift ideas but they seem a little to much. I'm a sweet guy but flowers would be a little much for a month don't you think? EDIT: I just thought of a good idea. Maybe I should give her a mix? But what songs should I put on it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oy_the_Great Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Gifts are horrible IMO, they always feel like you have to make up for something. Either something you've done, or something you've not, which is equally as bad. Try to do small stuff, like doing the dishes when it's her turn or help her with her homework. I know I appreciate things like that a lot more than material stuff. And if you decide to buy something, only go for something as clicḫ̩̉̉ as flowers when you know she really likes it. A CD she always wanted will make a much better impression, it shows you really know what she likes and you're prepared to spend some money and effort for it. Bill Hicks[/url]":dhj2kan9]Since the one thing we can say about fundamental matter is, that it is vibrating. And since all vibrations are theoretically sound, then it is not unreasonable to suggest that the universe is music and should be perceived as such. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen: This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen: haha, or you're too thin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wakka102 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 my girlfriend is allergic to wheat, barley and rye. so i dont think lunchables would work....dude! celeiak (sp..) disease! my mom's got that , its a pain in the [wagon]. How old are you by the way? Ive never ever ever known a couple that sat around alone playing bored games...Theres alot you can do :P :mrgreen: . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astralinre Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 weeks. Sunday is our 1 month. I want to take her to this river/bridge area to watch the sunset. What do you think we could do after that? We have been hanging out alot playing bored games and stuff not a whole lot to do in this new town. First off, let me tell you to ignore those who made fun of y'all playing board games together. It's refreshing to see fellow teenagers who can just enjoy each other's presence. Keep treasuring those simple times together, and y'all may have many more happy months together. (I speak from experience.) :) As for the date, just be creative. Consider what you like and what she likes, rather than ask for other's ideas. If you must ask for advice, ask her, ask her friend, ask your parents, or ask her parents, if you feel comfortable doing so. People who know the two of you can give much better advice than those of us who don't know her. Keep it simple, and don't try to force romance. Just let it come naturally. "In so far as I am Man I am the chief of creatures. In so far as I am a man I am the chief of sinners." - G.K. Chesterton Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen: I agree! I agree! Chocolate is lovely, and just about every girl adores it. (I am a female btw) We also like gifts... We like to feel special, so I think that the idea of the teddy bear and the camera is a very good idea. ^_^ Don't try to overdo it... but do make it a special night that you guys can look back on in the future. ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_k0m0d0_ Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Give her a nice dinner with candle lights and then some flowers and some of the best chocolate along with a nice poem made by yourself specially to her. And after all this you can give her a small diamond ring. I'm almost sure she will like this. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nadril Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen: What about low fat chocolate? :D #-o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astralinre Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 What about low fat chocolate? :D #-o That just says, "You're fat." Then you have to buy her the flowers to say, "I'm sorry." :P "In so far as I am Man I am the chief of creatures. In so far as I am a man I am the chief of sinners." - G.K. Chesterton Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kido14 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 First off, let me tell you to ignore those who made fun of y'all playing board games together. It's refreshing to see fellow teenagers who can just enjoy each other's presence. Keep treasuring those simple times together, and y'all may have many more happy months together. (I speak from experience.) :) As for the date, just be creative. Consider what you like and what she likes, rather than ask for other's ideas. If you must ask for advice, ask her, ask her friend, ask your parents, or ask her parents, if you feel comfortable doing so. People who know the two of you can give much better advice than those of us who don't know her. Keep it simple, and don't try to force romance. Just let it come naturally. I definitely agree here. What would your girlfriend think if she knew you had to ask some random people on an online forum for advice? I *think* she would like what YOU came up with ON YOUR OWN. Plus if she likes whatever you decide to pull off, it's not really you she likes for the idea.. catch my drift? I'm not speaking from experience, but a girl would probably like whatever came from you, especially beccause you know her best not random people on the forum... It's almost ironic that you're getting "romantic" advice on forums. I'm not sure if that made any sense but whatever. I think I just repeated what Astralinre said, but oh well =(. Btw, monpoly is AWESOMEEEE, but I don't know how good of a game it would make to play with you girlfriend, as it can get personal sometimes =D. Anyways, please hit us with an update! Last.fm: http://www.last.fm/user/Aaronm14/MY FAVORITE BAND:http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... d=64310717And the bible is the big book of lies, call me a racist if you must. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WutangFlu Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Sing her a song write her a poem HOLD HER HAND tell her you love her give her a kiss and the night is yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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