Pretend to break up with her, that will re-light the fuse.

 

 

 

It worked for me! And my... um, ex. *cough*

you people make me nauseous...and I'm female. Seriously, ditch the whipped cream thing (especially if you happen to be minors), and go for something with less of a cheese factor. Some of the best dates I've been on have involved nothing more elaborate than going on a hike or watching movies in my basement. If you two are really into each other, what you do becomes irrelevant, and trying too hard to contrive a romantic setting can ultimately work to your detriment.

maybe easy cheese? ill be 18 in a 4 weeks fyi. bored games are awesome! apples to apples ftw! i guess we could go watch a movie after the cheese session but we always watch movies. I want this night to stand out a 'little' compared to other nights.

ill be 18 in a 4 weeks fyi.

 

 

 

Is anyone else surprised?

 

 

 

As for what to do, I'd go with Dusqi's suggestion.

have a nice picnic watching the sunset. After the sun sets, light some candles to make it a bit romantic, and make it interesting. One of my friends got lunchables and they were feeding each other, it worked pretty cool.

 

ROFL!!! :lol:

 

 

 

Whip cream FTW :P

What is with all the negativity? Were you not loved as a child?

 

 

 

You want to make fun of someone for having a difficult childhood? What has that got to do with negativity?

You want to make fun of someone for having a difficult childhood? What has that got to do with negativity?

You want to make fun of someone who is 17? Enough flaming I happen to like what advice people are giving even if you don't.

 

 

 

Big day in two days! So far its looking like whip cream, teddy bear, possibly picture? I like the idea of bringing a cam that way we can take pictures of each other with the beautiful sunset behind us and remember forever!

I make fun of people of all ages for the simple reason of their not acting them.

 

 

 

As for not liking the advice people are giving, didn't I just show my approval for Dusqi's idea? I did contribute to the thread you know.

My suggestion would be to just wing it, kiss her, cuddle with her, just spend some quality time with her. Just like cithien said, it doesn't matter what you two do with each other. If you like each other enough it'll be good enough just to spend the time together.

I'd leave the photos well enough alone; I mean, one month isn't long enough to determine whether or not you're actually going to want memorabilia of this whole relationship in the future. Believe me, I've got plenty of pictures and gifts kicking around from past relationships, and most of them conjure unpleasant thoughts of the guys that gave them, rather than the happy memories they were meant to capture.

 

 

 

Oh, and teddy bears are overrated. Sure flowers die, but to me they're much more endearing, and easier to dispose of when things go awry. Gimme a bouquet of roses any day...

you people make me nauseous...and I'm female. Seriously, ditch the whipped cream thing (especially if you happen to be minors), and go for something with less of a cheese factor. Some of the best dates I've been on have involved nothing more elaborate than going on a hike or watching movies in my basement. If you two are really into each other, what you do becomes irrelevant, and trying too hard to contrive a romantic setting can ultimately work to your detriment.

 

 

 

Agreed, and I would think that what cithien said can be applied to:

 

 

 

We have been hanging out alot playing bored games

 

 

 

oh god

 

 

 

We have been hanging out alot playing bored games and stuff

 

 

 

wow... im glad im not you (no offence... kinda) :P

 

 

 

You two, note the bold.

Yeah.. I have to say, some of the most romantic moments I've had have just involved watching a movie on someone's computer or something :D But then, hiking and picnics and sunsets are wonderful, too.

 

 

 

Is there a local amusement park you could go to? A small one, not like a Six Flags, but bigger than a carnival. That is really fun, and romantic (you can play a game and do really badly and then ask the guy if you can just pay extra to get her a teddy bear prize :D).. especially if you guys like rides.

No offense, but why would anyone want to ask relationship advise on a forum? It kinda reveals your rather compact inspiration. Just remember what you want to do, ask her what she wants to do and make a fine decision. If you like football, but she hates it and rather wants to go to see a horribly romantic movie, just find the golden road in between and go see a football movie.

 

Oh and please don't take what I just said too literary, it's more like a 3rd rank metaphore I just came up with.

Yeah.. I have to say, some of the most romantic moments I've had have just involved watching a movie on someone's computer or something :D But then, hiking and picnics and sunsets are wonderful, too.

 

 

 

Is there a local amusement park you could go to? A small one, not like a Six Flags, but bigger than a carnival. That is really fun, and romantic (you can play a game and do really badly and then ask the guy if you can just pay extra to get her a teddy bear prize :D).. especially if you guys like rides.

There is going to be a carnival in town over labor day weekend. We are already planning on going to that.

 

 

 

I understand the thing about just spending time with each other is enough. But for the past month all we have been doin is hang out watch movies talk and play games. I just want this to be a little special. After all I do like her alot. Its crazy how comfratable we are with each other. I like the gift ideas but they seem a little to much. I'm a sweet guy but flowers would be a little much for a month don't you think?

 

 

 

EDIT: I just thought of a good idea. Maybe I should give her a mix? But what songs should I put on it?

Gifts are horrible IMO, they always feel like you have to make up for something. Either something you've done, or something you've not, which is equally as bad.

 

Try to do small stuff, like doing the dishes when it's her turn or help her with her homework. I know I appreciate things like that a lot more than material stuff. And if you decide to buy something, only go for something as clicḫ̩̉̉ as flowers when you know she really likes it. A CD she always wanted will make a much better impression, it shows you really know what she likes and you're prepared to spend some money and effort for it.

Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen:

Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen:

 

 

 

haha, or you're too thin

my girlfriend is allergic to wheat, barley and rye. so i dont think lunchables would work....

dude! celeiak (sp..) disease! my mom's got that , its a pain in the [wagon]. How old are you by the way? Ive never ever ever known a couple that sat around alone playing bored games...Theres alot you can do :P :mrgreen: .

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 weeks. Sunday is our 1 month. I want to take her to this river/bridge area to watch the sunset. What do you think we could do after that? We have been hanging out alot playing bored games and stuff not a whole lot to do in this new town.

 

 

 

First off, let me tell you to ignore those who made fun of y'all playing board games together. It's refreshing to see fellow teenagers who can just enjoy each other's presence. Keep treasuring those simple times together, and y'all may have many more happy months together. (I speak from experience.) :)

 

 

 

As for the date, just be creative. Consider what you like and what she likes, rather than ask for other's ideas. If you must ask for advice, ask her, ask her friend, ask your parents, or ask her parents, if you feel comfortable doing so. People who know the two of you can give much better advice than those of us who don't know her. Keep it simple, and don't try to force romance. Just let it come naturally.

Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen:

 

 

 

I agree! I agree! Chocolate is lovely, and just about every girl adores it. (I am a female btw) We also like gifts... We like to feel special, so I think that the idea of the teddy bear and the camera is a very good idea. ^_^ Don't try to overdo it... but do make it a special night that you guys can look back on in the future. ^_^

Give her a nice dinner with candle lights and then some flowers and some of the best chocolate along with a nice poem made by yourself specially to her. And after all this you can give her a small diamond ring. I'm almost sure she will like this. lol

Flowers say "I'm sorry". Chocolates say "I love you". :mrgreen:

 

 

 

What about low fat chocolate? :D

 

 

 

#-o

What about low fat chocolate? :D

 

 

 

#-o

 

 

 

That just says, "You're fat." Then you have to buy her the flowers to say, "I'm sorry." :P

First off, let me tell you to ignore those who made fun of y'all playing board games together. It's refreshing to see fellow teenagers who can just enjoy each other's presence. Keep treasuring those simple times together, and y'all may have many more happy months together. (I speak from experience.) :)

 

 

 

As for the date, just be creative. Consider what you like and what she likes, rather than ask for other's ideas. If you must ask for advice, ask her, ask her friend, ask your parents, or ask her parents, if you feel comfortable doing so. People who know the two of you can give much better advice than those of us who don't know her. Keep it simple, and don't try to force romance. Just let it come naturally.

 

 

 

I definitely agree here. What would your girlfriend think if she knew you had to ask some random people on an online forum for advice? I *think* she would like what YOU came up with ON YOUR OWN. Plus if she likes whatever you decide to pull off, it's not really you she likes for the idea.. catch my drift? I'm not speaking from experience, but a girl would probably like whatever came from you, especially beccause you know her best not random people on the forum... It's almost ironic that you're getting "romantic" advice on forums. I'm not sure if that made any sense but whatever. I think I just repeated what Astralinre said, but oh well =(.

 

 

 

Btw, monpoly is AWESOMEEEE, but I don't know how good of a game it would make to play with you girlfriend, as it can get personal sometimes =D. Anyways, please hit us with an update!

Sing her a song

 

write her a poem

 

HOLD HER HAND

 

tell her you love her

 

give her a kiss

 

and the night is yours.