Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Agh! So anyway, usually couples just like to spend time w/ each other right? They don't care what they do as long as they can have fun with it.. Appearently, my girlfriend is really self-centered and not outgoing because I offer to go on unique, fun, and different dates, and she never wants to do any of them. I just asked her if some Friday she wants to go ice skating. She tells me she doesn't know how to skate. So I told her I could teach her. And she just says it's ok.. Even if you don't know how to skate, you still have fun! What should I do! I wanna do something more fun than go to the movies every weekend! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My_Eggs Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 don't worry fad, i'll ice skate with you, even though i've never done it before :D 99 HP, Attack, Strength, Defence, Summoning, Ranged, Herblore, Prayer, Agility, Magic, Slayer, Fletching, Fishing, Woodcutting, Mining, and Thieving. Jagex'd out of my untrimmed hp cape on 6/14/2011. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giordano Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Your gf doesn't sound like a good one -.- "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Awww... Don't be frustrated. How long have you guys been dating? If you haven't been dating for awhile, it's common for her to feel nervous around you. She might not want to do something she hasn't done before because she doesn't want to embarrass herself in front of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Awww... Don't be frustrated. How long have you guys been dating? If you haven't been dating for awhile, it's common for her to feel nervous around you. She might not want to do something she hasn't done before because she doesn't want to embarrass herself in front of you. Only 10 days, but we've been friends for a year and a half -.- . She says she doesn't like going on dates, gunna have one boring girlfriend, and i'm not sure if I can get a new one once this relationship is over ( and it'll probably be pretty soon.. ) I've been talking to deloriagod and darkmage099 on AIM, and we had a convo last night. Deloriagod took his gf ice skating and it sounded AWESOME. They had a cute, romantic pose at the end which showed like she ACTUALLY liked him. She's pretty (he knows i think she's pretty btw), and she's outgoing. She also did something to him last night that I wish my gf would do for me. I will not say this story because it is somewhat unappropriate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmage099 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 What's with all the girl threads on TIF lately? Trix.--quit WoW as of 12/07Thank you 4be2jue for the wonderful sig and avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apinagez Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 What's with all the girl threads on TIF lately? Just as the tipiters are getting their driver licenses, they are also getting to go through physical changes, and to have new interests. You may get that too, ocasionally. ^The most disturbing signature on Tip.it^Last.fm|HELLY KAYLA!|Oh the mehagurtz!|#Siencemakers"they care less about their spelling mistakes then I." - Lionheart"apinagez... let me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmage099 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 What's with all the girl threads on TIF lately? Just as the tipiters are getting their driver licenses, they are also getting to go through physical changes, and to have new interests. You may get that too, ocasionally. Not saying it's a bad thing, it's just all at once. Trix.--quit WoW as of 12/07Thank you 4be2jue for the wonderful sig and avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Ice skating is fun ^_^ I actually went for my first time on Thursday night with my gf. She knows how to skate and wasn't expecting me to be very good (I only fell once ;)). And you're right about spending time together. I can spend time with my gf doing nothing at all and enjoy it (not even joking, I've done it before). I guess if she doesn't want to do things together (and you do) then you might not have the right girl for you. Me and my gf hang out almost every day (she just called a few minutes ago and we might hang out in a bit). I suppose if you get other girls interested in you then she might get jealous and want to do more with you instead of being apart all the time. I'm not going to do into the reasons why she might not want to be with you (you might get paranoid..) PS.. Sorry I didn't respond on AIM earlier. I haven't really been paying attention to it today (mostly just watching tv..) Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak722 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 So you're gonna dump her just because she's shy? The Enrichment Center reminds you that the weighted companion cube will never threaten to stab you and, in fact, cannot speak. In the event that the weighted companion cube does speak, the Enrichment Center urges you to disregard its advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Ice skating is fun ^_^ I actually went for my first time on Thursday night with my gf. She knows how to skate and wasn't expecting me to be very good (I only fell once ;)). And you're right about spending time together. I can spend time with my gf doing nothing at all and enjoy it (not even joking, I've done it before). I guess if she doesn't want to do things together (and you do) then you might not have the right girl for you. Me and my gf hang out almost every day (she just called a few minutes ago and we might hang out in a bit). I suppose if you get other girls interested in you then she might get jealous and want to do more with you instead of being apart all the time. I'm not going to do into the reasons why she might not want to be with you (you might get paranoid..) PS.. Sorry I didn't respond on AIM earlier. I haven't really been paying attention to it today (mostly just watching tv..) Yeah, I don't think she does want to hang out w/ me. I could go take salsa dancing lessons w/ her and (I have no clue how to salsa dance) still have fun. The only problem is, there isn't another girl I have my eye on or I like in my school. I may be going to another all boys school next year for high school, but there's an all girls school that keeps in touch with my up and coming high school a lot, so i'm sure i'll be able to find another one of the 250 girls that go to that school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 So you're gonna dump her just because she's shy? No, I'm shy. But I go out and do things with my gf just to show I care. I don't think when you're in a relationship you should hide from the one you care about, but instead go out and have fun with them. I could understand if they had only known each other for short while but they've known each other for a year and a half. I've known my gf for 2 months. Oh and Fad.. :-$ Keep that story quiet :wink: Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Oh and Fad.. Shhh Keep that story quiet Wink I won't O:) . I still think you are very lucky to have such a fun girlfriend though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkmage099 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Oh and Fad.. Shhh Keep that story quiet Wink I won't O:) . I still think you are very lucky to have such a fun girlfriend though. you never said I had to. Unless you told another story. Trix.--quit WoW as of 12/07Thank you 4be2jue for the wonderful sig and avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Oh and Fad.. Shhh Keep that story quiet Wink I won't O:) . I still think you are very lucky to have such a fun girlfriend though. you never said I had to. Unless you told another story. Nope. It's the same story :lol: I'm just saying I wish my girlfriend would direct-- I mean lay--, ... nevermind :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak722 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 So you're gonna dump her just because she's shy? You don't get it, she never wants to do ANYTHING. She's not being shy, she's just not outgoing :cry: Of course I will never get the full story cause Im hundred of miles away from your life. But since you put it that way, I kinda see where you're coming from. :-k Well if you ever decide to dump her, don't be blunt about it. Have a little 'talk' with her and tell whats on your mind and ask her what she feels about it. Maybe your relationship will turn around? who knows! O:) The Enrichment Center reminds you that the weighted companion cube will never threaten to stab you and, in fact, cannot speak. In the event that the weighted companion cube does speak, the Enrichment Center urges you to disregard its advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Oh and Fad.. Shhh Keep that story quiet Wink I won't O:) . I still think you are very lucky to have such a fun girlfriend though. you never said I had to. Unless you told another story. LOL. You keep it quiet too.. And I've told Fad some other stories ;) Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
insane Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Awww... Don't be frustrated. How long have you guys been dating? If you haven't been dating for awhile, it's common for her to feel nervous around you. She might not want to do something she hasn't done before because she doesn't want to embarrass herself in front of you. Only 10 days, but we've been friends for a year and a half -.- . She says she doesn't like going on dates, gunna have one boring girlfriend, and i'm not sure if I can get a new one once this relationship is over ( and it'll probably be pretty soon.. ) Give it time. Even if you've been friends for 18 months, starting to go on dates adds a totally new dynamic to the relationship; 10 days isn't going to be enough time for her to begin to feel secure in your opinions of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Oh and Fad.. Shhh Keep that story quiet Wink I won't O:) . I still think you are very lucky to have such a fun girlfriend though. you never said I had to. Unless you told another story. LOL. You keep it quiet too.. And I've told Fad some other stories ;) You mean like the one where you were at her house? And you were both on the couch? And then you went up to her bedroom--, I'm sorry i'm too tempted. :wall: :lol: And Jak, I hope you're right, that's not normally the way she acts. She's BOOM. You want to break up w/ me unless we start doing something! And she'll then say, Ok, it's over. *Crys*. I'm tired! GOD! Anyway, were your boyfriends and girlfriends as "UN-OUTGOING" as mine is? And she's not embarrased. She runs half way across the hall everyday and hugs me. So that's not a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Lemme get this straight... You've known her for a year and a half and you never realized that she's not outgoing? And exactly how old are both of you? First, try asking her what she wants to do. You sound a bit too pushy. It's only been 10 days. Take it slow dude. It was months before me and my gf actually went on a date (we went out with our friends initially). Why? Because we were a bit uncomfy in the beginning. So we slowly built up our relationship first. Oh, and before you cross over my suggestion because you might not like me, our 20th month is coming up soon. Take it slowly or you'll get exhausted too fast. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
insane Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Caligula's attempted flaming was removed, along with all posts quoting/referencing such. Please don't continue it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Caligula's attempted flaming was removed, along with all posts quoting/referencing such. Please don't continue it. Thank you very much.. But btw, we were going to go w/ friends, or at least that's what I had in mind, but she's obviously 'unique' in a bad way :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Ok, I have an idea! I will go on this date with my friends and w/o her. When the rest of our friends are going, she'll give in. Trust me on that, and she'll have a great time on the rink, unlike she thinks she will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
insane Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Ok, I have an idea! I will go on this date with my friends and w/o her. When the rest of our friends are going, she'll give in. Trust me on that, and she'll have a great time on the rink, unlike she thinks she will No. Don't force her into it (even if it's indirect). That will only make her resent you. Have you asked her what she wants to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fadfdfd Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Ok, I have an idea! I will go on this date with my friends and w/o her. When the rest of our friends are going, she'll give in. Trust me on that, and she'll have a great time on the rink, unlike she thinks she will No. Don't force her into it (even if it's indirect). That will only make her resent you. Have you asked her what she wants to do? Yep, Her response: Idk.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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