Leave her alone for a bit, let her come to you for a date.

In case you missed it..

 

 

 

Lemme get this straight...

 

 

 

You've known her for a year and a half and you never realized that she's not outgoing?

 

 

 

And exactly how old are both of you?

 

 

 

First, try asking her what she wants to do. You sound a bit too pushy. It's only been 10 days. Take it slow dude. It was months before me and my gf actually went on a date (we went out with our friends initially). Why? Because we were a bit uncomfy in the beginning. So we slowly built up our relationship first. Oh, and before you cross over my suggestion because you might not like me, our 20th month is coming up soon.

 

 

 

Take it slowly or you'll get exhausted too fast.

 

 

 

Let me reiterate, how old are both of you?

Leave her alone for a bit, let her come to you for a date.

 

 

 

That's....Just.....It..............She.........Won't.................Do.............That....

In case you missed it..

 

 

 

Lemme get this straight...

 

 

 

You've known her for a year and a half and you never realized that she's not outgoing?

 

 

 

And exactly how old are both of you?

 

 

 

First, try asking her what she wants to do. You sound a bit too pushy. It's only been 10 days. Take it slow dude. It was months before me and my gf actually went on a date (we went out with our friends initially). Why? Because we were a bit uncomfy in the beginning. So we slowly built up our relationship first. Oh, and before you cross over my suggestion because you might not like me, our 20th month is coming up soon.

 

 

 

Take it slowly or you'll get exhausted too fast.

 

 

 

Let me reiterate, how old are both of you?

 

 

 

He's 13 and I'd suppose she's about the same age.

She is 13 too..

I'm shocked. Here's her away message

 

 

 

"like doing something so dont talk to me"

 

 

 

and it's not directed towards me just to let you know

 

 

 

She's actually doing something! :lol:

I'm shocked. Here's her away message

 

 

 

"like doing something so dont talk to me"

 

 

 

and it's not directed towards me just to let you know

 

 

 

She's actually doing something! :lol:

 

 

 

Umm she kinda sounds frusterated? Try to ask her whats wrong, she may have a response you might be looking for.

 

 

 

Also, for anything, dont take " I dont know or IDK" or an answer. When they say that they are to shy to share what they really want to say. If they really dont know... they will say, why dont you pick?

 

 

 

Wait, good idea... just talking to her in a normal conversation ask her what she likes to do for fun, if she says hanging out with friends, which she probably will, say alright, how about we get together a group of our friends (both yours and hers) and either 1. Go hang at the park// 2. Play a game at someones house, either wiffleball, football, or my personal favorite Twister :lol: . She will have a lot more fun when in a group of people where she is comfortable. Once you have talked to her more and hung out with her more she will become more and more comfortable about what she wants to do with you.

 

 

 

You are pretty much still gaining respect from her. Even though you have been friends for a very long time...

 

 

 

Also, do not break up with her. You WILL lose a whole year and half worth of friendship. I would say 95% of the time things will be awkward between broken up couples, unless it was mutual, but in this case, it would not be. Give it some time, and time will pay off!

 

 

 

Hope that helps.

 

 

 

-Kyle

I don't remember if I told you earlier or not but I don't suggest talking to them online. Everyone seems to have their own unique personality when you talk to them but when they're online they seem to change. I don't talk to my gf online because of that. Instead we talk on the phone (as you know she calls me all the time :P ). So instead of chatting with her on AIM, call her. If she doesn't want to talk on the phone, show up at her door. But online seems to be the worst way to talk to bf/gf's.

 

 

 

When I talk to my gf online she doesn't come off the most intelligent because she's not a very good speller, but in real life she's quite smart. And I come off as a total a*, but in real life I'm really nice and try not to say anything to upset anyone.

I don't remember if I told you earlier or not but I don't suggest talking to them online. Everyone seems to have their own unique personality when you talk to them but when they're online they seem to change. I don't talk to my gf online because of that. Instead we talk on the phone (as you know she calls me all the time :P ). So instead of chatting with her on AIM, call her. If she doesn't want to talk on the phone, show up at her door. But online seems to be the worst way to talk to bf/gf's.

 

 

 

When I talk to my gf online she doesn't come off the most intelligent because she's not a very good speller, but in real life she's quite smart. And I come off as a total a*, but in real life I'm really nice and try not to say anything to upset anyone.

 

 

 

Yeah I know what you mean. I have had the same problems with that.. But I have also found out problems that people have just by looking at how they type, im actually pretty good at it. So it helps me to realize what is wrong, and how much it is really bothering them. I try to be nice to everyone and mean to no one, thus, I have respect built up around my group and out of my group.

Now I'm ignoring her! ^_^. Online I mean

Your gf doesn't sound like a good one -.-

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

yeah i'd take her back, say the battery's were faulty.

don't worry fad, i'll ice skate with you, even though i've never done it before :D

lmao, i'll siggeh that!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and it sounds like she's shy and maybe she has low self estime or something... just keep encouraging here and when you finally get her to come, if she has a good time she'll be glad :D

obessive, much? you're waaaay overthinking it. Not that you shouldn't, but its a little weird

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i suggest you stay close until high school, when puberty sets in and you start defining yourself

 

What's with all the girl threads on TIF lately?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just as the tipiters are getting their driver licenses, they are also getting to go through physical changes, and to have new interests.

 

 

 

You may get that too, ocasionally.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The problem is that these are all questions that people simply need somebody to talk to about, even though they know the answer. After I made my girl thread I decided that I'd best not make another one, lest I be similarly ridiculed. If I need to talk to somebody about it I have my peeps :D.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That aside, girls are very strange. In some aspects everything about them is incredibly formulaic, so much so that it's crazy. On the other hand there are times when everybody, including their own kind, are left like "WTF?" when they do something strange.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Good thing I got the predictable bits down pat :D.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And stan, although he is overanalyzing it, just remember that total thoughtlessness doesn't quite work either.

Well erm, gunna have to look for a new one, because she dumped me for an outrageous reason... :x

Well erm, gunna have to look for a new one, because she dumped me for an outrageous reason... :x

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please explain, wana know what it is.

 

Well erm, gunna have to look for a new one, because she dumped me for an outrageous reason... :x

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please explain, wana know what it is.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The way he explained it was 'She thinks, he thinks, she likes other guys more than him' and dumped him for that. Also, she's got another guy that she's good friends with and spent more time with him than Fad.. I know from experience what was happening there.. :-$

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hope you didn't mind me explaining, Fad.

What's with all the girl threads on TIF lately?

 

 

 

What TIF? :?

 

What's with all the girl threads on TIF lately?

 

 

 

What TIF? :?

TIF = tip.it forums *shrug*

Don't mind you explaining at all deloria. Yep, you hit it right on the head :roll: