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No. Problem with society today is that monogamy isn't natural for us. A prenup doesn't make a divorce easier. If after living together after so many years that it's become a habit, plus the memories and shared commitments such as children, 2 people STILL want a divorce, whether the financial side is slightly less messy or not isn't going to be the tie breaker. And by saying monogamy isn't natural, you mean what? I mean we're hardwired to go through many partners and not stick with 1 person, but society and marriage conflict with that. There are so many unhappy couples because marriage goes against our nature.

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How does it differ from water-solved peroxide, and how do you apply it? Can you link to the eBay page? Message me if this too OT. http://cgi.ebay.com.au/36-TOOTH-TEETH-WHITENING-CARBAMIDE-PEROXIDE-LASER-KIT-/280495722728?cmd=ViewItem&pt=UK_HealthBeauty_DentalCare_RL&hash=item414ed910e8 It comes with trays, which you just put in hot water to soften it, bite down while pressing against the front of your teeth and suck all the air out. Just like a boil n bite mouth guard. I just put a bit of the gel on my teeth and put the trays on, and let it sit for 5-6 minutes. It comes with an led torch which is supposed to help, I use it but I don't know if it does anything.

No. Problem with society today is that monogamy isn't natural for us. A prenup doesn't make a divorce easier. If after living together after so many years that it's become a habit, plus the memories and shared commitments such as children, 2 people STILL want a divorce, whether the financial side is slightly less messy or not isn't going to be the tie breaker.

It's pretty obvious it should be legal anyway. It hasn't been because the industry has been running the country (and especially more so now thanks to bush) and the corporate giants stand to lose a lot of money. Now with this revolution in america happening it should be legal sometime in the future, and hopefully other countries will follow suit.

I'd prefer that to cheating. If she was cheating I wouldn't consider a serious relationship. At least with that you can say that you were just more attractive than him, and you're attractive enough to not have to worry about competition. I just got eternity by calvin klein. Normally I wouldn't go for CK type stuff but askmen said it was good so I gave it a shot - it's perfect. $30 off ebay for a 50ml bottle which is pretty damn good considering how long that will last me. Also highly recommending carbamide peroxide 35% for teeth whitening. You can get a whole kit for like $20 off ebay and it's the same stuff dentists use and charge $300 for. After 2 applications heaps of people were commenting on my white teeth that were previously pretty terrible from smoking and coffee. Touched up my buzz cut (still kicking myself for not getting a buzz cut earlier) and got new socks and undies today. Going clubbing and feeling like a new man :thumbup:

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Does anyone here like aussie hip hop? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nptHtFYEHtw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUE6CGsb0ik http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fMhq8AfwnA ^ Industrial revolution, obnoxious, the cause of death etc. amazing.

Barely anyone tours in Australia. I've been to a couple parkway drive concerts and hilltop hoods but that's it.. Not a big fan of acdc, plus the tickets were like 120$ so I didn't bother. If tom loses his angels and airwaves emo voice and the new blink album is decent then I'll see them when they tour. Ooh 28 days, illy and m-phazes are doing concerts. Ok, barely any non australian bands tour in Australia. The only non aussies I've seen are confession and the acacia strain supporting parkway. I'd see powderfinger if the tickets are a decent price, which I doubt. Shame jet aren't playing at the brisbane and gold coast gigs.. I'd love to see iron maiden live but they aren't coming to Australia :cry:

Being too nice definitely bites you in the [wagon] when you get olde

I'm not saying I dismiss it entirely, it's similar to what I do. There's just parts of it where I've tried it and found better options, plus I ended up going so in depth it was kinda ridiculous. Just because she is religious, that doesn't mean the basic universal laws of attraction don't apply to her. She's still a person. Sure calling her up at 10pm and talking her into coming out might not work, but the same basic ideas apply. I've met a lots of different kinds of women, attraction switches don't change. Heh, I remember reading an article about a huge percentage of religious women breaking their no sex before marriage rule even when they initially wanted to stick to it.

Today I had work, and tomorrow and monday I have my first full days off work since Feb. (other than easter) 60 hour weeks start to suck after a while :( Going to a party tonight, and probably find some people to go to the beach or something tomorrow.

It really takes a lot more than that. I mean I was doing 10-20 approaches a night, 2 nights a week for about a year before I started getting confident in my honed ideas about attraction, and that was when I found the pua community and confirmed it all. Lent and the guys here have it easy, they had/ve someone to tell them what works instead of having to figure it out from scratch. The truth is, girls that get hit on constantly will dismiss a guy within the first 2 seconds. If he 'passes' then she continues to throw negs and [cabbage] tests at him for a while. When I give advice it's on what I think is 'solid game.' What works, no more and no less. With the girls that get hit on constantly, there is much less 'room for error.' While it might not earn you an instant bunt '[bleep] off' like a lot of mistakes do, it can be the difference sometimes.

It sounds like she knows you're into her (girls are pretty damn intuitive) but she's just not into you. That bit about trying to be a nice guy could have something to do with it. If you read through my blog I wrote a great way to ask a girl out. As I said, guys think differently so it's easy to get a different idea from your original post. It can hurt you in some situations, but really only with girls who get hit on constantly. The type of girls who will neg a guy a few times in a row and 'test' him constantly.

At least in the area I live in, it's not original and it does make you look like a tool. Ask a girl about an accessory and she thinks 1 'this guy is obviously into me, he doesn't know me so it's only based on my looks. what a creep.' and 2 'when is he going to leave?' I tried it a lot years ago, and it really only seemed to work on drunk girls. I know, but once you've started a conversation, the ice doesn't need to be broken because it already has. I'm just saying the extra unnecessary rapport building before she is attracted can hurt you. The cube is nowhere near as long and complex as it looks. All you need to know is that she pictures a cube and it's basic details, (colour, angle, is it off the ground etc etc) flowers, (how many, type, colour, size etc etc) horse, ladder and a storm. Then just [cabbage] your way through interpretations, slightly based on what you know about her already. Those pages and pages of interpretations aren't needed. A couple months ago everyone here was clueless about girls, while knocking back me and lents ideas, then they started using them and apparently started becoming more successful. You still aren't experts yet (neither am I) so you should always be open to suggestions like you were not long ago. Don't knock it until you've tried it a few times. The interpretation is meaningless, but so is all cold reading. Even the first time I did it (I did it to 5-6 people at once) and they all said it was really accurate.

Thanks, will check these out.

I used to play gungame and scoutsknives and I had found a couple great servers, but I'm trying to get back into the game and all the ones I've played are terrible. Real gun game is where you can only advance 1 level per round with a gun, then you have to advance through knife kills or continue using the same gun. None of this instant respawn crap, or ruining good original maps like with aimshottyv2 where they might as well use an open room. It's also hard to find a scoutsknives map where the admins haven't messed with the gravity. Does anyone know a decent server?

If you get a bad reaction, even if she's heard it, you're doing it wrong. I've done it at least 100 times, some had heard it before but everyone enjoyed it. Besides, it's been proved over and over that how to say things is much more important than what you actually say. I remember a while back mystery went out with a bunch of acclaimed puas. They used all their best routines and he recited his shopping list, and he got much better results. A few years ago I saw a video of him tell a story of how he is a computer programmer and what he does, and he somehow made it fascinating.

rpg it really just looks like you've taken a few ideas from me/lent and kinda over thought it. Here's what you do: Improve your fashion until you start getting checked out. Then when you do, make eye contact and walk over to her. Just say 'you can't look at me like that without saying hi' (not my own but it works great) There's your conversion starter. Now 'you remind me of someone, it's bugging the hell out of me.' Corny but it works as a transition into regular conversation. Done. Now go do it. All this other stuff me and lent talk about is really just having fun. It's not about thinking into it or planning it, just go talk to people. Walking around with a tie and clipboard and asking girls to do a survey where the only questions are their name and number is great and all, but it seems kinda pathetic if it's not spontaneous. By starting a conversation and talking for a bit. If she agrees to help you go clothes shopping, the ice is already broken. There isn't any need to do it again by stepping down the 'ljbf path' and hitting on her after. I've met all kinds of women, and most don't think much about giving away their number. At 1 point I would know a girl was into me, get her number, and then when I talked to her again she was far less interested. This happened a lot until I got a tip on solving that. The make out with a stranger thing is really only girls at clubs, (or drunk girls) but it still really doesn't mean much. I've heard lots of stories from girls who have made out with a guy just because they felt bad and didn't want to push him away. What's wrong with just making friends? I posted a solution to your issue a while back. 'guys I gotta borrow your friend for a minute' Take her hand and lead her somewhere else. Done. You don't need a reason but if you want one then do 'the cube' which I also posted a while back. Or you could just get her number and finish the conversation later. Over thinking is a good way to fail. If you get out there and do something and run into a problem, you can solve it then, or ask here (because chances are I had the same problem and things will work much better.

Break the ice before asking her to help you go clothes shopping not after :/ Also getting a number means nothing, and a make out means very little unless you're fairly young. I mean making out is like hello on the dance floor :P

It's more like 5 minutes, and it's not really a trip or a high. More like a mind[bleep]. You don't have a sense of time so people have lived entire lives on salvia, in a period of 5 minutes in the real world. You have a completely new reality. I know someone who was a boat ramp after taking salvia. http://www.erowid.org/experiences/exp.php?ID=57297

1. Works fine 2. Leads her to see you as a friend 3. Confuses her because she thinks you just want to be friends This is what everyone here has been doing (and what I used to do) for years and It doesn't often work. Maybe you meant something different, but this is how guys are likely to interpret it. 'Hit on her' first. Flirt, but switch between showing interest and showing disinterest. (push pull/tango/whatever else it has been known as) Once she's attracted, THEN start building rapport like revealing something about yourself.

*e-slaps rpg for even thinking about continuing relations with his ex* Stick with mystery's. It's basic and it works great, why reinvent the wheel? It's really the only option, no point in inventing a story.. She should just tell him she doesn't want to go with him.

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I meant for me - I have a high tolerance to alcohol. I barely drink it now anyway except when people buy me drinks. (and I still manage to get drunk once or twice most weekends :wall:)