Iamdan

This morning and last night were crazy. It seems almost every time I go out, something more rediculous happens to me. I was partying at a house in a rough area, a couple walked a girl home. 30 minutes later the female of the couple comes running back yammering about a bunch of guys starting on her boyfriend. Me and another good friend of his were sprinting down the driveway before she even finished talking. I was fully expecting that he would be on the ground getting stomped and we would have to go ruin some people, and I was hoping that none of them had a knife. It turned out they backed off, and while we were looking for them we ran into a guy with a [bleep]ing blowtorch and a bunch of knives looking for the same people. It only went downhill from there but I CBf typing ATM and I think I'm still a bit drunk

The pregnancy scare is more her end than mine, it happens every month and she gets the idea in her head and it snowballs. Neither of us like condoms, me because i've experienced the alternative and because it's difficult to finish wearing one. I'll often start getting bored during sex with a condom and if I could fake it I would probably be pretty tempted at times. Her because it feels unnatural and she gets worried about my pleasure. I keep pushing her to see a doctor and ask about other methods but it doesn't happen. Maybe this time :/ We do use condoms roughly during her fertile period and that made her feel better but only for a little while. Duff if she asks you what's wrong then tell her the truth. You realised you were being needy, don't like that about yourself and you're fixing it.

I can't give you much with the information you have given about your parents reasoning and details on the fights, but I would have a good talk with the parents. As for the hostility for a couple minutes at a time, it's only happened once in my almost year long relationship and that's all I can compare it to. I have little relationship experience compared to attraction so I'm not quite sure what is normal, or if normal is even desirable, but I would talk to her about the fighting. Also, my girlfriend is having a pregnancy scare :(

Duff, actively move on. You showed chronic neediness, and it's quite possible she will judge some of your actions as needy even if they aren't. Don't invest much more emotionally than she does from now on. That goes for everyone else too. Continue talking to her if you want but don't keep initiating if she doesn't. Meanwhile, meet new women and try to move on. This will help you get over her but will also raise your chances of fixing it. On that note, never start a conversation with the purpose of fixing a mistake unless you're in a relationship. It digs the hole deeper, trust me. Nox I have no idea about your culture so take this with a grain of salt, but if I were under 18 I would be better off leaving the girl, though I probably wouldn't have. Over 18 and I would sit down with my parents and remind them that I'm an adult. As for the fighting, I would end it if it can't be resolved. How can you expect the relationship to function normally in the future if it's not even working in the first year? It will most likely just get worse. Oh and whoever said they are becoming emotionally dependent on a girl, start working on that asap. It's setting yourself up for disaster, and it's extremely unattractive.

Ah, I'm way south near woolloongabba. Hit up strategix for the free forklift thingo. I got my qual on a friday and had a job paying $26/hr the next monday. Or if it's too far you could ask them for companies doing the same thing closer to you.

What did they do?

Guess I missed it. Where abouts in brissy? Do you have a job lined up or plans for one? I've been a bit busy for the night scene lately, but how about I meet up with you during the day, point out women for you to introduce yourself to, and put you in a kimura if you don't? Daytime can be better because you will know earlier if it's a lost cause and can move on, and you can be forward which speeds things up.

Leave for where?

The bit about getting her to come begging back is a bad attitude imo. If she can't handle it long distance, dragging it out more is just going to make things painful for both of you.

Don't play deus ex 2, it's a slap in the face. I like to pretend it doesn't exist. Like monkey island 4. Dx3 looks promising though, I'm looking forward to it.

I wish it were kotor3 instead :( I don't want to get into an mmo even if I wanted to spend that much.

I am geed, you seem to think she owes you something. Attraction isn't a choice, instead of getting mad take a step back and think about what killed the relationship. And it's not just because of the long distance thing. You may have more control than you think. Women date dead [cabbage]s and jerks all the time. Instead of having thoughts about the girl being dumb or whatever, think about the qualities that attracted her.

How did you do it? If you said 'you should break up with him because..' then you probably hurt your chances with her, though it's not as bad as if they hadn't broken up. Doing this usually just brings them closer together because you can't logic someone out of a relationship unless they were going to break up anyway which I assume is the case here. If you did it like "don't be upset about it, he is just *seemingly positive personality trait which is also unattractive*" then you're in a better position.

I'll be honest about the important stuff like my job and my lifestyle etc. I want to word it so it could actually fit me. If I literally made stuff up then whatever method I figure out couldn't actually be used to meet women since they would work out it was all [cabbage] upon meeting. I reckon it could be worth trying. I had a squiz and only like 70% of the women look like they have down syndrome. Some are pretty hot. It could be an untapped goldmine.

She doesn't know but I'll tell her in a few weeks when she gets back from overseas. I'm thinking I'll try making the profile like I don't really take it seriously, and have fun with it but make it serious enough so they think it's real.

Sounds interesting. Can I ask why you want this done? I'm experimenting with dating site profiles. (I have a girlfriend but I'm always trying to figure out new stuff about attraction etc.) The eye patch is to catch the attention of women who are scrolling through possibly hundreds of thumbnail pictures of blokes. I'm betting that many won't be able to resist checking out the profile when they see the eye patch.

Does anyone think they can do a realistic photoshop of an eyepatch on a picture of me? Save me finding a real one. My head is slightly tilted to the side.

I've been in the situation you described before, and I agree with that, however it doesn't look like the girl is offering herself on a silver platter. I don't think he thinks so either with his worrying about having screwed up.

It sounds like you aren't being enough of a challenge for her. Your reasoning behind not wanting a relationship with her (not knowing her that well) seems kinda weak. I mean you may still be into her, there is no need to rush into a relationship though. Your call though.

The missus just left for a 4 week trip to china. Saying goodbye was harder than either of us expected... Damn relationships :/ Pix you need to carefully probe the situation and find out asap if you need to either talk to her about it or apply for a passport.

Maybe you're uncomfortable with the idea of me touching someone else. Hit up scoopon or the equivalent in your area. They have dinners, shows, hotel rooms, boat rides diving trips etc for pretty good prices. Failing that, just go somewhere exploring and try and find your own spot. Me and the missus found a comfortable isolated spot way above the beach that way. Great for sex but also nice for just watching the beach with fish n chips or something. You could also take up an exotic hobby together. I do fire twirling/poi.

Don't worry about looking for ioi's, they're something you should be aware of, but let your intuition worry about it. Don't worry about long conversations all the time but don't let them die out slowly. End them at a high point because you can make a reference to it next time such as calling her a nickname you gave her, and her emotional state will rise to that high point that you left off at. It's a simple idea but works well. Start touching asap. If you've made a mistake, it's not doing that. Doing it naturally is easy, is there any clarification you need on my touching post? Tell her you're the thumb war champion, high five her for something, invent a ridiculous secret handshake. Link your touch to fun in her mind, but keep it short so she misses it and initiates it herself and you're practically home free. Tell her not to touch you in a playful manner when she does, and you can bet your ass she will do it more. Give her a spanking for it, the possibilities are endless. The hardest part is getting her alone with you, after that it's fairly easy for any girl that you have progressed that far with.

Today amongst other things I was practicing poi at southbank, and I think people thought we were just bad street performers because they started crowding around and watching.

Party last night with a couple cadbury's there which were good value. By 9pm a nerdy Indian guy had his pants off and was doing camahamahas or whatever that dragonball z thing is. The other had spent 15 minutes telling me how much he liked me but not in a gay way. I encouraged them to do shots. Got a sharpie out when they passed out, haven't done that in a while. The former got the old [bleep] and balls pointing to his mouth and the later just got champ across his forehead because he seemed pretty nice. Going to a pub crawl tonight which they will be at. I hope they liked my art.

Do it if you are passionate about being a doctor. Don't do it if money comes into it, because even if you get through med school and an internship you probably won't like your job.