Everything posted by Iamdan
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
We both know that's not the main reason for it. Girls still shave their legs before they go out. Not directly because they want sex, but looking attractive is a big reason for it. Have a flip through a womens magazine, or even talking to a girl long enough for them to bring it up makes it evident It's why they feel better in skinny jeans than sweatpants in public.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Nobody is saying he should, because there are so many things he can try instead. Be honest though. You've never worn high heels, or had long hair that is a pain to take care of? Or done something you didn't particularly like because it made you feel good in the long run? Would it have made you feel the same way if guys didn't like those things? I bet you don't enjoy shaving your legs, or saying no to that extra piece of cake. If it doesn't apply to you then I'm sure you realize most women do. We're hardwired to reproduce. It's not such a big deal if we sacrifice a little here and there to achieve that. I guess what I'm saying is that it's not quite as black and white as your post suggests. It was a joke btw, which is why your reply confused me.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I wouldn't see that as a sign of success, to be honest. Sleeping around is rather a sign of bad relationships solely based on hormones. Or perhaps I was just out to have fun and didn't want to jump into a relationship with the first girl who was attracted to me ;) Now that I've found someone I wanted to be with, it has gone quite well. We're suggesting that he pick up hobbies, keep busy and improve himself until he is happy. Is that such a bad thing, whatever the motivation that drives him?
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Top 5 Worst People of All Time
I don't think the Goldman Sachs thing was a mistake, nor the dot com bust, or any other financial fiascos. Just a few greedy people who want more and a government who either can't or won't regulate them. Spectators know exactly what they're doing and don't care. Look at oil.
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Top 5 Worst People of All Time
I'm surprised the board members of Goldman Sachs isn't on anyone's list.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Go back to piano then. Just play a girl the intro to bat out of hell then unzip your fly and crack a beer.
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The Future
What about the uncertainty principal? I don't know enough about it to be certain, but I was under the impression that it's a law and not human limitation.
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The Future
You're saying things changing state because something acts on them is predeterminism? Calling "if I do x, something may or may not happen" a 'law' doesn't really contradict what he said anyway.
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The Future
Exactly. Physics on a quantum level works by probabilities, if it worked the same as newtons laws there would be chaos because anything could happen. It is not predetermined, but it is the reason why you probably won't be an astronaut porn star when you grow up.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Just remember that she has feelings for you, which means it's likely to turn into a mess if you have sex with her and still don't want to be with her later on.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Realistically, that would never happen to me. But if, hypothetically, she felt the same way about me then I might think differently, but even then I don't know how long it could last or if we would really be right for each other. It's just too hard to know. So "love sucks because I don't have it"? Cmon... I had casual flings for 5 years before I found a keeper, and it may not even work out with her. Stop focusing on relationships (avoiding them is still focusing on them) and have fun.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Hypothetically, if she was crazy about you too, how would you feel about relationships then?
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Do you really care about your weight?
If you're gaining strength but want size raise the reps a tad but keep it below 12.
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Do you really care about your weight?
Yeah, the bad thing about being 6'4" is it makes me look leaner. That, and everyone goes straight for my legs in mma. I care about my weight, I'm overweight by bmi but it's mostly muscle. (abs partially showing) Until I got more serious in the gym and started eating 3000 clean calories a day I had big legs from my sprinting days and skinny ass arms, shoulders and chest.
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Armpits...
I did shave my legs in high school when I did athletics and my skins gave me a rash, but armpits?
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Favorite thing about the opposite sex?
You are confusing sex partners with meaningful relationships, personality with intelligence, and assume all guys are weak-minded. This. If a lot of guys said they wouldn't be aroused if dan's situation happened, they'd be lying. But many guys wouldn't even begin to consider a relationship or even respect a woman who did that. Meh, I don't buy it. Especially for the reason quoted.
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The Style Thread
Don't forget the fully sick tribal tattoo and the commodore. Edit: Oh somebody deleted it :/
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Favorite thing about the opposite sex?
I have never bought the "personality is important" thing from guys. If a complete moronic [bleep] took her clothes off in front of you, you wouldn't hesitate for a second. I have seen plenty of blokes who stay for years with hot girls that seem to be wastes of life. It only takes a few months of sex (often not even that) for most young people to start falling in love whether they like it or not. It comes with the gender. After even getting to know who I first thought were the most secure and strongest girls I had met who seemed confident and had it all together, under it all is a lot of insecurity and low self esteem.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Maybe doing bjj has given me a different mindset when it comes to this sort of thing, but I'd go for a finger rather than just wailing on the guy. It doesn't attract attention and he can't fight back, and when it's a surprise he can't defend from it. Mind you I haven't done it, or even started a fight since I was like 14. Even on the gold coast on a Friday night I seem to get left alone.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Sounds like you gave her some kind of emotional blue balls, or maybe it is the 'some girls are dumb' thing. She sounds like a bit of a drama queen. Make a physical move asap but make sure it's a confident looking one. My girlfriend keeps getting groped.. I'd love to break some fingers but it's always when I'm not there. Keep doing it you seedy [bleep]s, but at the end of the day you go home alone.
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