i hardly ever post here but here's a caveat I felt like sharing (and you probably all know but eh) somtimes girls just dont give a [bleep]. maybe it's their fault, (or yours). can't change people. can't force people to say a certain thing or act a certain way. so-- lower your standardsv (!expectations) a little bit, meet more people, move the [bleep] on. no point on dwelling and wishing. it doesnt turn out well for you