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black knight titan has incredibly high mage def though iirc

Don't try to keep your hp level low. Just make sure you dont do too many attack/defense/prayer quests, depending on your ideal build.

At 150 combined att/str you'll be permanently melee based btw

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Ok cool we're on the same page then finally :D

So you agree that everybody can, but not everybody will?

Then you agree that a shy socially-awkward person can become successful with women if they want to badly enough?

Isn't that what a slut is? Like, literally the definition. Maybe I'm young, but I think it's gross. Lol. But why do you think it's gross

Okay i should rephrase that: So...you're saying that i believe people who can't interact socially will never be successful? Yes, based on the quote I just provided

No, I'm saying anyone can be successful. You seem to be saying the opposite.

If anyone can be successful, then I need you to clarify this: "Believe it or not, there are actually people out there (shy people) for whom it will never become a case of "Oh, it's all in my head". To them "the game" will never get easier. Whether they've done it once or a hundred times."

Nothing wrong with one night stands. At the same time though, I've never understood the appeal of them. Why just hook up once when you could turn it into a relationship and have multiple hookups over the months to come? Only really makes sense to have a one night stand in hindsight rather than planning on it. To each their own I guess.

1. Good thing you edited the post, because you started to come across as slightly butthurt. Haha. 2. I don't believe i'm "whining". Rather pointing out the flaws in your theory, or "day to day life" as you put it, for the average person. Perhaps these people are unhappy, but that does not make them unsuccessful. Success applies differently to each person. Having a new hook-up every other night is by no means success in my books. I see that as trying to fill a void, or seeking approval from god knows who. Differences in opinions. Welcome to internet 101. Happiness and success are the same thing as far as I'm concerned: http://happysaint.wordpress.com/2013/02/06/are-you-successful/ You're still just dodging my argument with personal attacks though. You're saying that even if having one night stands consistently is "bad," not everyone can achieve that. You don't believe it's possible for anyone to be successful. And with an attitude like that, well, you know what's going to happen down the road :P

There's a reason why it's unrealistic for the average person: the average person is unhappy (or just content with a boring life) and terrified of failure and leaving their comfort zone. And it's easier for the average person to just make up excuses and blame the world around them for their problems; rather than accepting responsibility for their own lives. Do you really think I was never terrified of social interaction (regardless of gender)? Do you really think I was born with an abundance mentality? Do you really think I became good at this overnight without ever failing over and over before things started to click? If you want to keep making up excuses for unhappy, unsuccessful people then be my guest. But as always, you don't have the right to whine about something that you have complete control over. It's your life.

It's not a theory. It's my day to day life, and the day to day life of many people I know. The differences are irrelevant because the end result is still the same

(shrug) Hopefully someone else found my post insightful then :P

Everything up to the point where you actually have to meet the person face-to-face. Some people are extremely photogenic. So photogenic that they look better in pictures than they do in real life. I could have professionally taken photos of me on my profile. I'll look like the the hottest guy that's ever set foot on earth. And then you see me in real life and the truth is revealed. I'm no ore than an average Joe. It's hard to fake your physical appearance when you're face-to-face with someone. I know your looks (as a girl) can be altered with the help of make-up, but generally it's pretty easy to spot the ones wearing a mask. Rejection or acceptance is a lot easier online. I send a girl a message on a dating site. I tell her i think she's cute, i want to take her out on a date, i want to get to know her, i want to [bleep] her, whatever you want. It's easy, because all it takes is me sitting behind my computer. I don't need to worry about the zit on my nose. I don't have to worry about my bad breath. I don't have to worry about the sweat stains under my arms. I don't have to worry about a voice crack because i'm nervous. I don't even have to worry about changing into clothes. I can do all of this while wearing my dirty track pants and a mustard stained shirt. If she rejects my invitation, so what. There's 1000 more girls a few clicks away. I can try again and again. It's not going to affect me the slightest. But when i'm at a club or a party and she rejects me, there's maybe 20 or 30 other girls i can choose from. But i have to be careful who i choose, because i can't exactly try it with all of them. And if she rejects me, i don't have to feel silly. I'm not going to be embarrassed because 20 people saw me try and fail. In fact, no one but the person i messaged would know that i failed. So it takes a lot of stress and pressure away. If i ask someone out face-to-face and she rejects you there's always the "Oh shit, what do i do now. Act cool. Act cool" going on in the back of your head. She rejects you online and the only thing you're thinking is "Meh" And then the part that applies to Maddy's situation. If you ask someone out face-to-face they are almost forced to give you an answer right on the spot. Does not have to be a definite answer, but it has to be at least some sort of answer. Whether it's a yes, a no, or a "i'll have to see if i can pencil you in". There's going to be an answer. This puts pressure on both the person who asked and the person who's getting asked. If you ask someone out online they have the option to reply with the exact same thing (or they can completely ignore you), but now time in not a factor. They can reply to you in 10 minutes, an hour, a day, a week. It gives them too much time to think or try and rationalize the situation. You don't want people to think about their answer, really. I know there's still a lot of point i overlooked, but i'm sure you get the general idea. When you become more experienced I think you'll find that all of those self-conscious examples you provided don't exist in reality either. It's all in your head. When I'm at my computer messaging girls, and they resist the meet-up, I move on because I know there's dozens of others I need to respond to. When I'm on a first date with a girl and she resists my advances, I move on, because I know there's dozens of others who are into me. When I'm doing sales at work and I get a client who gives me resistance when I go for the close, I move on because I have dozens of other willing clients who can recognize a good deal when they see it. It's no different than if I were to go to the bars either. It may appear to be different to you, but the principles remain the same. The only thing that's different is your perception and abundance mentality. The less confident/carefree you are, the harder it is to maintain an abundance mentality.

Combat system; balanced endgame content (though GWD is out now so that might no longer be the case)

What kinds of things do you think change

Well... this is awks...That's probably the first instance I've ever heard of where that excuse was genuine... And I hear that excuse hundreds of times per month, both in online dating and at work in sales. Granted, in both cases I do things by putting in the numbers so if someone ever gives me that excuse I immediately forget about them and move on, as opposed to prodding them to ascertain whether or not it's genuine. I find it completely stupid that you try to compare online dating to non-online dating. Women are women, regardless of how you choose to communicate with them.

Well... this is awks...That's probably the first instance I've ever heard of where that excuse was genuine... And I hear that excuse hundreds of times per month, both in online dating and at work in sales. Granted, in both cases I do things by putting in the numbers so if someone ever gives me that excuse I immediately forget about them and move on, as opposed to prodding them to ascertain whether or not it's genuine.

It's definitely a polite rejection

You're not gonna want to hear this but reading this paragraph actually made me appreciate the community a bit more. I like the way you put it and I think it belongs that way for the overall good of the game. Keep in mind that it's impossible to completely (or near-completely) eliminate tragedies such as this; especially without also near-completely eliminating the players' freedoms.

wonder how quickly you could make your own rumble noob for optimal maging... could probably be quite a profitable account

I'll participate in mage training w/ ya if ya want sometime. add me: i--am-rak--i