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What if you cut that ball in 2 so both could be happy? Point and case. Still a shitty analogy. Haha.

A silly analogy, to be honest. Being selfless (or seekin to not be selfish) is not giving away your happiness to somone. It's seeking to ENJOY life (ie your happiness) with someone else. It's sharing your happiness - overflowing. Thus turning your happiness from an inward focus to an outward focus. This is what builds communities. Especially in the case of love-relationships. And society is not necessarily the criminal, or not nearly as much as is our own personal intitlement to happiness. Who said that we deserve happiness in the first place? THE GOVERNMENT? Loooooool. Sorry, just had to. :P

You're falling into the trap of believing that selfishness is somehow bad, and that relationships are not inherently selfish to begin with. http://happysaint.wo...25/selfishness/ Why does "selfishness" cause relationships to fail? What exactly is wrong with being selfish? Again, there's a difference between being selfish and being inconsiderate. If you're unhappy in your relationship, then your relationship sucks. Following your logic, you're not allowed to help yourself because that would be "selfish." Are you supposed to depend on your partner to solve all of your problems for you? Even the problems which are caused by your partner in the first place? Selfishness results in the decrease of community, not the increase. If your relationship is purely to have sex and blah blah, then by all means be selfish. But relationships AREN'T just that. They are making a "pact" (for lack of better word) with someone that you wish to further pursue building COMMUNITY with that person, on an individual basis. Thus selfishness is a diterating substance in any relationship or community - family, school, organization, etc. I'd agree if you are unhappy with your relationship then there's probably some kind of miscommunication. And if there's not then, the relationship shouldn't continue. But that's not being selifsh that's just recognizing imcompatibility an acting upon it.

An interesting post, but far from being entirely well done. Personally, relationships are not about you. And that's why I think most of them fail is because people are selfish. All of those questions, literally almost every single one, had the word "you" in it, as in what "you" want for "your"self. Selfishness. Yes, you shouldn't be a pushover [bleep] in all relationships, but there is a balance of servitude as well as personal preference.

Hope you weren't offended by what I said earlier, I was entirely joking. Being a 17 year old as well, I know how you feel. Doesn't really necessarily have anything to do with the person or the relationship, it's just there's no need to put pressure on the entire relationship for it. Personally, being the relaxed-type of guy I am, sex will happen when it happens. Maybe this is ignorance seeing as I'm still a virgin, and for all I know after the first time, it will become a bigger deal in future relationships, but as of right now, I see no reason to stress over it. Just make sure to wear a rubber and generally be relaxed (though you're going to be stressing/freaking out anyways probably) as you go. Also, remember, don't be the first and last. Have some common courtesy (let her be last maybe? hehe; just saying).

Time for a full fledged break. Some personal life stuff came up and just can't keep up with a blog and RS. I will be posting around at times, and probably will eventually come back to thise. C'est la vie.

Just stick it in and go for it. Coming from a virgin.

Lol yoo oll oro obonch of focks

hurh

I didn't even notice at the time, abit preoccupied. 8-) Thanks, mate! Yeah it was insane, but he really wanted to see me reach my goal, and said that he'd match whatever I've spent so far, which is around 70m. FUUUUUUUUUUUUU. I was told 9 Coal 6 Maple was the best gp/gp. Dangit. Lrn2grimyspreadsheet Didn't know he did one. Oops.

I don't even know what kind of music you guys are into, but ok. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ql3g1BUVfJs

So when's comp cape?

Well, firstly, a HUGE THANKS TO M4WKG FOR HIS DONATION TO MY HOUSE!! After completely psyching out becuase of that, I decided to do some warbands. Got 200k Construction Exp and then this from a 1/2 Warband.. Another thanks to M4wkg!

FUUUUUUUUUUUUU. I was told 9 Coal 6 Maple was the best gp/gp. Dangit.

Did some Dailies: A few levels later.. AND THEN A WHOLE MONTH OF MANAGE THY KINGDOM. DRUM ROLL PLEASE: Price checked: Well that was anticlimactic..

Honestly, the hardest part of the game is starting off and not consistently being imprisoned by random bandits/deserters/etc.

if you chew on ice you get tooth cancer duh jesus people learn your anatomy

I suck so bad at M&B it's sad. Steppe bandits own me when I'm by myelf.

Mish likes to use philosphicalities what a chum.

Party at Gatsby's!

harpy 900 2k13 #coolest#shit#ever#gg#tif#sucks

over 9000

Though, let's be real, Warped Tour will be awesome. I hope I can go this year.

how are you typing

I'm to much of a naabe to get it up right now. 11 at the minute. Tehehe. Kind of burnt out of RS right now. Need like 55m for 99 Construction and currently have 1m, and don't really know anyways to make any money right now, but we'll see what I can come up with. Less than 48 hours until MTK is done! Also, planning college classes/schedules is such a pain in the ass.