Everything posted by The Observer
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It will take some time for your significant other to find his/her way. Be patient and continue to support the transition process like you seem to already be doing. You seem very caring and supportive, which is important. In other news, does anyone else get these random bouts of feelings of extreme loneliness from time to time? It [bleep]ing sucks. Probably the first time I've felt this shitty about not being in a relationship in a long time. Maybe it's because this time last year I was all snuggled up with my ex girlfriend in our bed in our apartment. Times sure [bleep]ing change. <_< (alcohol induced most likely -_- )
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New Senior Moderator
Grats!
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Banned User Profiles
Most bans are for spambots/those who post abusive content such as porn, etc. It would make sense to put a blanket ban on all of that outright.
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What are you listening to right now!?
Hard Times - Glorious Sons
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
This and this. I had an absolute shitty time trying to deal with the fiery end from my first long term relationship (~3 years) while in second year in my program. [bleep]ing sucked [rooster], honestly. But it opened my mind up to make me realize that I can find someone else who would be better for me. Something major I've learned: always be with someone who will push you up and who will challenge you to do better, without putting you down. There's a reason why millionaires try to hang out with billionaires; you don't see them hanging out with their buddy Ted who dropped out of high school and works at the local street corner giving "massage therapy" classes. Just remember: high school isn't the end all in life in terms of relationships and goals. You will experience a shitty breakup; it's almost guaranteed. Just remember that when this time comes, yes you will find someone else. There's reasons that relationship may not have worked (did you do shitty things? Did she do shitty things? Did life just hate you?). Pick up on these little queues and use them to better your next one but don't dwell on it. Also, expect a good amount of time to heal. Imagine breaking a leg. You wouldn't play hockey a couple weeks after that would you? Live and learn, that's all you can do.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
How did you meet? If you met off of a dating website, then clearly the intention is already known.
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Things that annoy the HELL out of you.
Is it bad that I've never had a hangover?
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Count to ~200~ before a mod posts - fifth round
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Guess the person that's going to post below you!
No. Arceus
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
This; women are terribly judgmental towards each other (especially of "slutty" behavior). I can agree with the idea of being assertive. If you don't act like an [wagon] or make it weird and make it seem natural or "fun/playful" then chances are you're getting something. I guess waking up next to a girl for a couple years made me lazy in that aspect because I knew exactly what got her going. As for now, I've got to move the [bleep] on as it's been over 8 months since we broke up (after I found out she was sleeping with this one dude who has boundary issues) and I've been off and on single ever since (date here and there, but nothing came of it). I'm 21 years old and I graduated high school three years ago. (Holy shit) I believe I spent some of my more... interesting... years here back when I was a hotheaded 13 year old [wagon]. e: According to my join date I was 11 when I joined the boards. Woah.
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Things that annoy the HELL out of you.
I tend to break headphones regularly. It's my curse.
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Things that annoy the HELL out of you.
Or when the person working the night shift calls in sick, no one covers it, so you gotta work a double. -_-
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Reveal Confessions, Secrets & Regrets...
Yup. Same. You'd think it would make you forget everything but it makes it come back even more. Shit.
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What are you listening to right now!?
- "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
IME the sad reality of the world is that the more capable you are of going cold blooded at will, the happier and more satisfying your life will be (e.g. having no qualms about eliminating people from your life if they're making you unhappy). In other words, sometimes being nice and being happy are mutually exclusive and you've gotta choose one or the other. And happiness is always the better option. Best idea in my opinion. I stuck around with my ex after our messy as all hell break up (after me catching her cheating) and it did not end well. Far from it. I learned that once you're over, you're over. Stop watering dead flowers.- Today...
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No. Arceus- Witchy's bank pic as of January 1st 2015
Not bad for a fake fruit.- Today...
- What are you listening to right now!?
- "I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
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