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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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i wouldn't use texting as a crutch though. Try finding intersting topics prior to calling her, so you have more to talk about.

What he said. ;)

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Unfortunately no one can tell you what to talk about on the phone. Because then you'll have a bunch of pre-planned topics in your head and that will make it even weirder. Personally, I'm of the opinion that if you have nothing to say on the phone, don't talk on the phone. I prefer texting (because you can do it at any time and say anything that pops into your head without demanding an immediate response or on-going conversation) and talking in person (since you're physically with each other, it's less awkward and perfectly acceptable to have some silences).

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If we were to hang out, and went to all those places, I'm pretty sure I'd sleep with you.

 

So uh, what are you doing tonight?

If we were to hang out, and went to all those places, I'm pretty sure I'd sleep with you.

 

So uh, what are you doing tonight?

 

are you a "what"?

 

cause I'm up for doing you :P

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Before you post that message again I know, don't touch your bestfriend, well that is straining now, ex.

 

Well wtf does this mean?

 

"Like..before you left. You looked at me and then turned away. And it kinda hurt I don't know why."

Before you post that message again I know, don't touch your bestfriend, well that is straining now, ex.

 

Well wtf does this mean?

 

"Like..before you left. You looked at me and then turned away. And it kinda hurt I don't know why."

She's upset that wouldn't keep the eye contact maybe? So she felt hurt by it. Probably makes her feel like you don't even see anything in her at all (which you shouldn't, given the circumstances).

Before you post that message again I know, don't touch your bestfriend, well that is straining now, ex.

 

Well wtf does this mean?

 

"Like..before you left. You looked at me and then turned away. And it kinda hurt I don't know why."

She's upset that wouldn't keep the eye contact maybe? So she felt hurt by it. Probably makes her feel like you don't even see anything in her at all (which you shouldn't, given the circumstances).

 

 

I know I shouldn't and it isn't that I don't see anything I kinda had to turn around because I can't walk backwards onto a train :mellow:

Before you post that message again I know, don't touch your bestfriend, well that is straining now, ex.

 

Well wtf does this mean?

 

"Like..before you left. You looked at me and then turned away. And it kinda hurt I don't know why."

She's upset that wouldn't keep the eye contact maybe? So she felt hurt by it. Probably makes her feel like you don't even see anything in her at all (which you shouldn't, given the circumstances).

 

 

I know I shouldn't and it isn't that I don't see anything I kinda had to turn around because I can't walk backwards onto a train :mellow:

It means she doesn't like the idea of you leaving her. You didn't do anything wrong she was just surprised to feel such a sense of loss when you left. I guess it means she likes you.

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It means she doesn't like the idea of you leaving her. You didn't do anything wrong she was just surprised to feel such a sense of loss when you left. I guess it means she likes you.

 

"james you are a very attractive person

just putting it out there

god your eyes are awesome

when i looked in your eyes

could actually get lost"

 

Erm...

Tell her straight out you wouldn't consider her no matter how attractive she is. She sounds scary anyway.

Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can

Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude?

Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you?

Camera guy: still laughing

Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy

Camera guy: runs away still laughing

Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down

Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]!

Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL!

It means she doesn't like the idea of you leaving her. You didn't do anything wrong she was just surprised to feel such a sense of loss when you left. I guess it means she likes you.

 

"james you are a very attractive person

just putting it out there

god your eyes are awesome

when i looked in your eyes

could actually get lost"

 

Erm...

She's starting to get creepy. just like Omar said, tell her that you're not interested, it's not going to happen and tell her why; you don't want to ruin your friendship and have her be the reason.

It means she doesn't like the idea of you leaving her. You didn't do anything wrong she was just surprised to feel such a sense of loss when you left. I guess it means she likes you.

 

"james you are a very attractive person

just putting it out there

god your eyes are awesome

when i looked in your eyes

could actually get lost"

 

Erm...

She's starting to get creepy. just like Omar said, tell her that you're not interested, it's not going to happen and tell her why; you don't want to ruin your friendship and have her be the reason.

 

Until I'm sure I'm not mentioning a thing, I'm not making myself look like a class A [puncture]

 

That was creepy, this is just strange:

" ask the other person a question and they have to answer honestly, it's interesting what you find out, from answers and questions"

It means she doesn't like the idea of you leaving her. You didn't do anything wrong she was just surprised to feel such a sense of loss when you left. I guess it means she likes you.

 

"james you are a very attractive person

just putting it out there

god your eyes are awesome

when i looked in your eyes

could actually get lost"

 

Erm...

She's starting to get creepy. just like Omar said, tell her that you're not interested, it's not going to happen and tell her why; you don't want to ruin your friendship and have her be the reason.

 

Until I'm sure I'm not mentioning a thing, I'm not making myself look like a class A [puncture]

 

That was creepy, this is just strange:

" ask the other person a question and they have to answer honestly, it's interesting what you find out, from answers and questions"

I'm sorry, but I have no idea what that means or what she/you is/are trying to get at, here.

It means she doesn't like the idea of you leaving her. You didn't do anything wrong she was just surprised to feel such a sense of loss when you left. I guess it means she likes you.

 

"james you are a very attractive person

just putting it out there

god your eyes are awesome

when i looked in your eyes

could actually get lost"

 

Erm...

She's starting to get creepy. just like Omar said, tell her that you're not interested, it's not going to happen and tell her why; you don't want to ruin your friendship and have her be the reason.

 

Until I'm sure I'm not mentioning a thing, I'm not making myself look like a class A [puncture]

 

That was creepy, this is just strange:

" ask the other person a question and they have to answer honestly, it's interesting what you find out, from answers and questions"

I'm sorry, but I have no idea what that means or what she/you is/are trying to get at, here.

 

She is asking me a series of questions which I can ask back. I have to reply honestly which I am sort of doing but the questions could get complicated <_<

Take a stand and tell her to stop. Man up; if you're afraid of seeming cruel, explain yourself extensively. Do it right now.

Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can

Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude?

Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you?

Camera guy: still laughing

Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy

Camera guy: runs away still laughing

Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down

Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]!

Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL!

Take a stand and tell her to stop. Man up; if you're afraid of seeming cruel, explain yourself extensively. Do it right now.

 

Done so in a much easier way.

Go on...

Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can

Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude?

Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you?

Camera guy: still laughing

Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy

Camera guy: runs away still laughing

Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down

Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]!

Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL!

You probably said you had a girlfriend, didn't you? If you did, not smart.

K, now I'm confused. I'll elaborate on my previous situation I was talking about before.

 

Background - I'm 17, she's 18, only a couple months older than me though. She's a senior in HS, I'm a sophomore in college.

 

I met her at her house when my friend brought me over for a movie night. She layed on me during the movie, and I got her number before I left. We texted during the week, and the next weekend I went over to her house around 10pm. We watched one movie, halfway through we started 'cuddling' or whatever, me holding her and her laying on me. We also made out a couple short times. The rest of the night until about 3:30 we just talked about a lot and kissed and stuff, and then fell asleep holding each other on the couch. We woke up around 5:30am because I had to get home before my parents woke up. This was all Saturday.

 

Next time I saw her was Sunday, I went to her house with a bunch of her friends that she introduced me to. I was holding her hand and she layed on me on the couch again. Kiss goodbye and everything too. We texted (and had an awkward phone call, ^), flirting and stuff. Yesterday I texted 'I like you.' just being cute and stuff, she said the same back.

 

This is the part that I'm confused about. Tonight like 20 minutes ago she texted me 'Hey. I like you.' and I said 'Hey. I like you too. Wanna be my girlfriend?' back. I did NOT mean this in a way to ask her out, because I kind of thought we already were going out. It was more of a flirt thing. I'll just write the whole convo here...

 

-Hey. I like you

Hey. I like you too. Wanna be my girlfriend?

-Are you being serious?

Well I kind of meant it like a joke because I thought you were. Hope I didn't mess anything up

-Um. Yeah, I'm not ready for that yet :/

Oh alright. I didn't mean it in an asking you out way, wouldn't do that over the phone haha

 

Was I wrong to assume? I know my replies could have been better, but I'm kinda freaking out. She hasn't replied after the last one, it's been like 20 minutes.

 

EDIT: next couple lines of conversation...

 

-Lol. Okay.

Sorry. Stupid of me to assume :/

-Don't worry about it. I don't blame you. I'm simply irresistable. :)

 

Then just normal conversation after this. Still confused though

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I'm guessing she doesn't want a serious relationship with you yet. Maybe she wants to get to know you better, maybe she'd just rather be friends with benefits. But if she says she likes you, it's probably the first one.

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Alright. Was I wrong to assume that though? And do you think I messed it up? :unsure:

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Honest mistake. I can see how you'd assume that after everything you said.

But no, don't think you messed it up. Just keep doing what you've been doing, since it seems like that was working pretty well

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I hope you're right :mellow:

Anybody else?

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My lady's mother said something to me today. Probably in an attempt to explain why she has been .... I dunno. Not the norm. I couldn't make out anything she said except for "Don't worry." So I shan't.

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My lady's mother said something to me today. Probably in an attempt to explain why she has been .... I dunno. Not the norm. I couldn't make out anything she said except for "Don't worry." So I shan't.

Whether it's "shan't" or "shizzin't"...

 

OT: Girl at work says she likes me, and wants to hang out. Suggestions? We both have cars, if that means anything.

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