Learning to accept myself...

[killerbeer0]

No I haven't talked to her, I generally talk to her once a week or so. Probably this weekend. Though I'm sure I'll [bleep] out.

[Nenga]

No I haven't talked to her, I generally talk to her once a week or so. Probably this weekend. Though I'm sure I'll [bleep] out.

You shouldn't if you have someone in real life who will understand it will feel better than telling some random people on the internet. Someone you can talk to and hear a voice, it will sound better than words in your head. After all if you read it yes, maybe someone else wrote it, but in the end you're still talking to yourself.

[killerbeer0]

I probably should. I'm actually now debating telling my best friend, I know him better but he may not quite understand as well. I just don't know what to do. I'm such a wreck.

[deathdrow]

I probably should. I'm actually now debating telling my best friend, I know him better but he may not quite understand as well. I just don't know what to do. I'm such a wreck.

 

call kids help phone?

[killerbeer0]

I probably should. I'm actually now debating telling my best friend, I know him better but he may not quite understand as well. I just don't know what to do. I'm such a wreck.

 

call kids help phone?

 

 

 

I can't talk about it right now because I can't get alone to do so until the weekend at least. Not sure I want to talk to a call-center worker though, a compassionate and fairly well trained one but still a call-center worker... I don't know. I'm just so lost among a sea of hard choices.

[Nenga]

Debates in your heart can only be won in the place they start. Just remember that a true friend would understand, no matter what you told them.

[killerbeer0]

Debates in your heart can only be won in the place they start. Just remember that a true friend would understand, no matter what you told them.

 

 

 

True. I just don't know if I want to dump this on him. The last time we talked I was a wreck after getting in that fight with my father and my parents' marriage almost breaking up. Then to dump this on him? I don't know. Probably going to talk to the bi friend, last time we talked was fairly upbeat.

 

 

 

Or am I totally overthinking this?

[Nenga]

Debates in your heart can only be won in the place they start. Just remember that a true friend would understand, no matter what you told them.

 

 

 

True. I just don't know if I want to dump this on him. The last time we talked I was a wreck after getting in that fight with my father and my parents' marriage almost breaking up. Then to dump this on him? I don't know. Probably going to talk to the bi friend, last time we talked was fairly upbeat.

 

 

 

Or am I totally overthinking this?

 

You may be overthinking it. A best friend usually has a deeper understanding of you and is more open to venting. Just because someone is a different sexuality than heterosexual doesn't mean they will always understand. They may still view it as wrong. Still it's your call. I don't know your relationships with your friends. Generally girls are more open to differences though if that helps.

[killerbeer0]

True. I just don't know if I want to dump this on him. The last time we talked I was a wreck after getting in that fight with my father and my parents' marriage almost breaking up. Then to dump this on him? I don't know. Probably going to talk to the bi friend, last time we talked was fairly upbeat.

 

 

 

Or am I totally overthinking this?

 

You may be overthinking it. A best friend usually has a deeper understanding of you and is more open to venting. Just because someone is a different sexuality than heterosexual doesn't mean they will always understand. They may still view it as wrong. Still it's your call. I don't know your relationships with your friends. Generally girls are more open to differences though if that helps.

 

 

 

I'd trust both of them with my life. I think I'm going to test the waters, as I've said before, to decide which one would be better understanding.

[pureprayer]

True. I just don't know if I want to dump this on him. The last time we talked I was a wreck after getting in that fight with my father and my parents' marriage almost breaking up. Then to dump this on him? I don't know. Probably going to talk to the bi friend, last time we talked was fairly upbeat.

 

 

 

Or am I totally overthinking this?

 

You may be overthinking it. A best friend usually has a deeper understanding of you and is more open to venting. Just because someone is a different sexuality than heterosexual doesn't mean they will always understand. They may still view it as wrong. Still it's your call. I don't know your relationships with your friends. Generally girls are more open to differences though if that helps.

 

 

 

I'd trust both of them with my life. I think I'm going to test the waters, as I've said before, to decide which one would be better understanding.

 

Do you bi friend. If she knew you were a zoo, she might want to talk about being bi.

[killerbeer0]

 

Do you bi friend. If she knew you were a zoo, she might want to talk about being bi.

 

 

 

She talks about it anyway.

[pureprayer]

 

Do you bi friend. If she knew you were a zoo, she might want to talk about being bi.

 

 

 

She talks about it anyway.

 

how in depth? I dont want to know a bi persons life but how far does she go?

[killerbeer0]

 

Do you bi friend. If she knew you were a zoo, she might want to talk about being bi.

 

 

 

She talks about it anyway.

 

how in depth? I dont want to know a bi persons life but how far does she go?

 

 

 

She openly acknowledges it and occasionally goes into detail.

[Da_Latios]

 

Do you bi friend. If she knew you were a zoo, she might want to talk about being bi.

 

 

 

She talks about it anyway.

 

how in depth? I dont want to know a bi persons life but how far does she go?

 

 

 

She openly acknowledges it and occasionally goes into detail.

 

:twss:

 

 

 

...anyway... look, just talk to your best friend. I know that if one of my friends came up to me and told me about something like this, I wouldn't care. You're not a homosexual, so he wouldn't be afraid of you coming on to him. I'm sure people will understand (although we all know how immature some people can be....).

[killerbeer0]

She openly acknowledges it and occasionally goes into detail.

 

:twss:

 

 

 

...anyway... look, just talk to your best friend. I know that if one of my friends came up to me and told me about something like this, I wouldn't care. You're not a homosexual, so he wouldn't be afraid of you coming on to him. I'm sure people will understand (although we all know how immature some people can be....).

 

 

 

Well I think I'll have him on MSN tonight... I don't know. I'll take it as it comes.

[Madmanpur3]

If you're this worried about talking to someone about it, then at least make sure that when you do talk to someone about it, it's in person.

[Nenga]

That's not the best course of action for all people. He will tell them when he is confident enough to live with what he is. Before that though does he really want to be reminded of it every day?

[killerbeer0]

That's not the best course of action for all people. He will tell them when he is confident enough to live with what he is. Before that though does he really want to be reminded of it every day?

 

 

 

I can't help being reminded of it. My mind can't drop it.

[Cup Lion]

That's not the best course of action for all people. He will tell them when he is confident enough to live with what he is. Before that though does he really want to be reminded of it every day?

 

 

 

I can't help being reminded of it. My mind can't drop it.

 

You should find yourself some distractions to avoid giving yourself time to think about it. Do you play any sports, have a job? Take up a hobby: read a whole bunch or join a school club.

[killerbeer0]

I did it.

 

 

 

I told my friend.

 

 

 

I still have my friend.

 

 

 

I feel the best I have in months.

[ElkNight]

I did it.

 

 

 

I told my friend.

 

 

 

I still have my friend.

 

 

 

I feel the best I have in months.

 

:thumbup:

 

What did (s)he say if I may ask.

[Wongtong]

I did it.

 

 

 

I told my friend.

 

 

 

I still have my friend.

 

 

 

I feel the best I have in months.

 

-hug- Great job. :)

[killerbeer0]

He was pretty delicate about it. When I first told him he didn't know what I meant, wikipedia fixed that. He accepts it. Doesn't want details, I understand that.

 

 

 

Actually he dropped an off hand comment that led to me suspecting he has a friend like me. Of course it could just be me jumping to a conclusion based on my status, but not many people draw themselves as a wolf... Interesting to see where this will go. My friend is going to drop the word "anthro" casually ans watch the response - from experience I'm pretty sure it can't do any harm. I'll feel bad if he like breaks down or something though, but things that remind me of my orientation are more numerous than one might think.

 

 

 

However, zoophilia was the topic of choice today at my school. Gross jokes en masse, someone said that "those [bleep]ers deserve to die" referencing people like me. That hurt deep.

[Nenga]

He was pretty delicate about it. When I first told him he didn't know what I meant, wikipedia fixed that. He accepts it. Doesn't want details, I understand that.

 

 

 

Actually he dropped an off hand comment that led to me suspecting he has a friend like me. Of course it could just be me jumping to a conclusion based on my status, but not many people draw themselves as a wolf... Interesting to see where this will go. My friend is going to drop the word "anthro" casually ans watch the response - from experience I'm pretty sure it can't do any harm. I'll feel bad if he like breaks down or something though, but things that remind me of my orientation are more numerous than one might think.

 

 

 

However, zoophilia was the topic of choice today at my school. Gross jokes en masse, someone said that "those [bleep] deserve to die" referencing people like me. That hurt deep.

 

People do that all the time. You just have to learn to deal with it.