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[bas]

.gfds

[T-Roach]

ur not the only 1 with that problem, except for the age thing :S

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

ive never had a GF, and im shy when i talk to gurls in RL, but on msn, im a living flirt :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

guess we just gotta build our confidence :S

[bas]

gfsdg

[steend]

Ok, this comes from a girl... Go up to her and talk to her, just get the guts, simple as that. If you never try you'll never get anywhere right?

 

 

 

I think you should just have a quick conversation with her and ask het msn adress and add her then, or maybe you should have some eyecontact with her first and smile at her when she looks back.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

All girls are diffrent but you just have to talk with her if you want to get anywhere, and if you do get nervous and all, could be that she finds it cute and gives you some time to let you show her the real you. If she doens't, thats just not cool...

[Atticux]

Orrrrrrrrrrrr ask for her phone number.

[Guest GhostRanger]

I'm confused as to how you "have feelings" for her when you "don't even know her."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So you think she's attractive, that doesn't mean you have feelings for her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just go talk to her and get to know her, THEN see what happens.

[bas]

I'm confused as to how you "have feelings" for her when you "don't even know her."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So you think she's attractive, that doesn't mean you have feelings for her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just go talk to her and get to know her, THEN see what happens.

 

 

 

well, when i see a girl, i don't feel anything, even if she looks good. but when i see her, i feel very strange... i hope this explains it a bit...

 

 

 

but i'll just try and make the best of it tomorrow and try to start a conversation with her, should happen once.

 

 

 

thanks by the way... i'm feeling way better than before because of your messages... =) thanks

[weezcake]

I'm sure it's just your adolescent hormones acting up, lol. Nothing will be accomplished unless you actually talk to her. Go talk to her. That or.. just wonder what could have been.

[Bubsa]

Look, you need to get talking to her or get over it. It sounds like just a little crush you have over someone you've never talked to who's 3 years older.

 

 

 

I'd understand if you had talked/went out with her and had an emotionally crippling experience but you haven't even made contact with her yet. How can you be depressed over that? There's only one way to fix it and that's talk to her. Feeling something for her just because she looks good is definately just your hormones. Physical attraction doesn't cause depression.

 

 

 

If we were all so spineless, why, nothing would be accomplished in this world. Just talk to her.

[Faux]

Reminds me of how I want to talk to a girl in my school. She's really pretty but I can't talk to her :( I'm pretty sure she likes me too but I can't do anything about it :(

[Bubsa]

Reminds me of how I want to talk to a girl in my school. She's really pretty but I can't talk to her :( I'm pretty sure she likes me too but I can't do anything about it :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why not, man?! Elaborate!

 

 

 

Your situation sounds a tad more hopeful than this other.

[Faux]

 

Reminds me of how I want to talk to a girl in my school. She's really pretty but I can't talk to her :( I'm pretty sure she likes me too but I can't do anything about it :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why not, man?! Elaborate!

 

 

 

Your situation sounds a tad more hopeful than this other.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I already have a girlfriend :oops:

[Bubsa]

 

 

Reminds me of how I want to talk to a girl in my school. She's really pretty but I can't talk to her :( I'm pretty sure she likes me too but I can't do anything about it :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why not, man?! Elaborate!

 

 

 

Your situation sounds a tad more hopeful than this other.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I already have a girlfriend :oops:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ah...

 

 

 

Ah yes that might be a problem...

[Faux]

 

 

 

Reminds me of how I want to talk to a girl in my school. She's really pretty but I can't talk to her :( I'm pretty sure she likes me too but I can't do anything about it :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why not, man?! Elaborate!

 

 

 

Your situation sounds a tad more hopeful than this other.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I already have a girlfriend :oops:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ah...

 

 

 

Ah yes that might be a problem...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That's what I thought.

[UnformedDude]

Just walk up and talk to her. Trust me I should know I've had a lot of gfs and thats why me and my 2nd gf broke up cuz we like never talked at school.

[Lionheart_0]

:? This is getting around the same as the posts about religion! Oh well this is much better and generouly dosent end in flames...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hmmm im wondering... Ive already figured out that highschool dating is sorta training for the real stuff... and im wondering if its a good idea to get into it again... im just not sure cuase im having a hard time just being with my best friends, then agian their scheduals are even tighter then mine. What you all think?

[Faux]

Hmmm im wondering... Ive already figured out that highschool dating is sorta training for the real stuff... and im wondering if its a good idea to get into it again... im just not sure cuase im having a hard time just being with my best friends, then agian their scheduals are even tighter then mine. What you all think?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Seperate school from relationship. And don't get a gf unless you really do like her.

[xxept0]

^^ what he said. Basically if you rush things, your gonna get hurt real bad. Besides, what's the rush? If it happens it happen, if it doesn't..... Then you just saved yourself from a really painful experience. I still don't get how you can like a girl withut even knowing her. I seriously think it's more towards lust/crush or cahsing after a form of forbidden fruit. Chill down, take a minute for yourself, and really give it some though. "do i like this girl or am i just being disillusioned" is one of the questions you should ask yourself. And if you feel that you really like this girl, go for it! After all, your really have nothing to lose (except your pride perhaps....).

[Lionheart_0]

 

Hmmm im wondering... Ive already figured out that highschool dating is sorta training for the real stuff... and im wondering if its a good idea to get into it again... im just not sure cuase im having a hard time just being with my best friends, then agian their scheduals are even tighter then mine. What you all think?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Seperate school from relationship. And don't get a gf unless you really do like her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Didnt mean school, i got work, and that keeps me buissy most weekends although i do get some nights off, but my friends always have sport meets and what not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Of course i would have to find a girl i would like... but you see in my world, there is a diffrent between like and love. You can like many people, and its just chosing the right one, and hoping for the best. Love though you can only have for one person and if it goes well with the one you like, you can then love.

[Faux]

 

 

Hmmm im wondering... Ive already figured out that highschool dating is sorta training for the real stuff... and im wondering if its a good idea to get into it again... im just not sure cuase im having a hard time just being with my best friends, then agian their scheduals are even tighter then mine. What you all think?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Seperate school from relationship. And don't get a gf unless you really do like her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Didnt mean school, i got work, and that keeps me buissy most weekends although i do get some nights off, but my friends always have sport meets and what not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Of course i would have to find a girl i would like... but you see in my world, there is a diffrent between like and love. You can like many people, and its just chosing the right one, and hoping for the best. Love though you can only have for one person and if it goes well with the one you like, you can then love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know what you mean. The other girl I met is a bit more beautiful than my girlfriend now. But I am not planning to break up with my girl at all. I'm not shallow and we (me and my gf) go way back. There's no point in ruining our relationship because of some girl liking me :\

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I still can't help feeling disappointed though :cry:

[audee]

Thread starter.. are u classmate with this girl that you fancy?

 

 

 

Could exchange email contact first.. start penpalship etc.. if the girl is not even interested you know what it means... :roll:

[How2PK]

Go up to her and talk with her is easier said than done. Especially when it's about a girld that's three years older than you and you never got a girlfriend before. But I guess that's the only thing you can do, lol.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Or, if you got an assignment for school where you need to interview people or something (I had those all the time!) just interview her and her friends. :P I did this once, not that anything came out of it, but still. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BTW, I understand that they turn your stommach around. I had this too, with three girls. I was 13, 14 and 15 (three years) and they were 16,17 and 18. They were so, dang! So beautiful! In my breaks I just took a de-tour to the vending machine so I could see them. But they were old, and I was young.

[Mercifull]

Girls don't go for yonger guys. No matter how hard you try to impress them, no matter how nice you are they will let you down.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I met a girl 3 years older than me a couple of months ago, got on really really well had a great time together and such but as ssoon as she knew my age she wasnt interested.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

By all means talk to her and try just be prepared for nothing to happen.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Lionheart_0]

^I dont know merc, There are many couples at my school where the girl is older, although, ya your right it isnt popular. Mostly the grd 9 girls try and go out with the older guys when they get to the school, but thats so they look cool and older.

[Arcticrunite]

well, uhhh....hmmm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

lets see

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

you like her, but you dont know if she likes you...ok well you can do two things

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1) you can push notes in the locker, like meet me at such and such place, love your secret admirer, and you can do that, and pray for the best

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2) you can go up and try to talk to her, say i noticed you from afar and i cant help to think that your very pretty and very well spoken etc etc, girls like that stuff (although ill prolly get kicked in the shins for saying that) but its true

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

exude confidence, girls LOVE confidence,

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

you want to use the 3 c's in asking her out

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Confidence

 

 

 

Caring

 

 

 

Control

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

caring is simple, its noticing those little things, the way she does her hair etc etc

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

control is knowing when to ask for the phone number or when to back out of the situation, if she looks fed up with you, and you can tell that by how she looks at you, if she looks at you like your just some two bit dope off the street, get out, say it was nice meeting you and get out, its not good from there, but if shes softening up and talking to you ask her for the number, dont be afraid to