How2PK Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 Social life isn't really a slump. Have had a, for my standards, rough time when we found out my mother has got breastcancer, but luckily she is cured now. And I'm having some hard time finding the right study for me; I tried 3, but I didn't like them, and it looks like I'm not liking my new one too much either...But not really depressed, everybody is healthy and friends are there when needed etc. Signature by Maurice SendakWhen the stars make you drool just like a pasta fazool, that's amore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Studentas_Lt Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 10th grade. It was my 'emo year'. :/ I was depressed and my grades just dropped. Same. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
assassin_696 Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 Never really had a slump in my social life, it's just i never really like going "into town" and hanging round, so i tend to stay at home during the holidays or arrange to see friends and do stuff, not just hang around outside shops and stuff. During term time though i'm always busy with school commitments and work and stuff, i work an 8-5 school day (well, it could be 8:30 - 3:55, but i work before and after school) if i'm not busy with after school activities. That's a decent amount of time to be around your friends every day, i don't see the need to constantly meet up in town on the off chance. Actually i'm more of a family orientated guy. "Da mihi castitatem et continentam, sed noli modo" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 In 9th grade, I started suffering from VERY bad depression... For really no apparent reason. I started to distance myself from my friends, I did horribly in school, and I basically just didn't care anymore. So, I started seeing a pyschologist and things got better until about a year later, after quite a few bouts with depression, it came back. Full force, and I could feel with each day it was getting progressively worse. It's been going on like that for awhile now, and I'm about to go on medication for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRealist Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 I expelled in 8th grade had to stay home the whole year and when I got to go to school the following year I been so used to not much I didn't talk to anyone my first month then I got use to talking to ppl again. Pretty weird, but true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indy500fan Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 got grounded for 4 months once. that pretty much ruined my social life, for about 4 months :D . next year at the same time i got grounded for 2 months. that ruined my social life for about 2 months :D . only two times ive ever been grounded, so ive pretty much been ok besides for those two times. many people looking at my life would think im anti social all the time, but i just dont really do much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wl_daniel Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 What's 10th grade? Last year on high school and how old are you normally if you go 2 10th grade. I'm happy and I never got a depression year by now :D And things are start getting better and better :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyPurpleCrayon Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 What's 10th grade? Last year on high school and how old are you normally if you go 2 10th grade. I'm happy and I never got a depression year by now :D And things are start getting better and better :P Well you are obviously harcore, so it's okay if your depressed. That is all part of your image. Ghost: I am prejudice towards ignorance, so that would explain why I appear to be so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wl_daniel Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 What's 10th grade? Last year on high school and how old are you normally if you go 2 10th grade. I'm happy and I never got a depression year by now :D And things are start getting better and better :P Well you are obviously harcore, so it's okay if your depressed. That is all part of your image. Lmao.... Can't you read I'm almost never depressed :roll: Maybe you're some death methal listening freak but I've alot of fun with the music and the hardcore party's so shut up. Oh you're so funny maybe you can answer my question instead of posting something stupid that isn't true at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
How2PK Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 Daniel, I don't think MPC is known with the Harcore you are listening, I think it's a misunderstanding. :) Signature by Maurice SendakWhen the stars make you drool just like a pasta fazool, that's amore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyPurpleCrayon Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 yeah...and the fact that is was a joke. *points to sig and laughs out loud* :lol: Ghost: I am prejudice towards ignorance, so that would explain why I appear to be so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wl_daniel Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 yeah...and the fact that is was a joke. *points to sig and laughs out loud* :lol: Oh well I'm a bit angry since we lost with soccer so I just want to slap everyone :lol: ,srry I could stay calm of course but oh well I hate it when we lose with socer especially if the defence is playing very bad...... Oh well as I see your sig I understand it..... Grrrrr....... :lol: But if you don't know what hardcore is..... :D Search to angerfist,neophyte etc.... :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyPurpleCrayon Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 yeah...and the fact that is was a joke. *points to sig and laughs out loud* :lol: Oh well I'm a bit angry since we lost with soccer so I just want to slap everyone :lol: ,srry I could stay calm of course but oh well I hate it when we lose with socer especially if the defence is playing very bad...... Oh well as I see your sig I understand it..... Grrrrr....... :lol: But if you don't know what hardcore is..... :D Search to angerfist,neophyte etc.... :lol: Haha I know what harcore is...thanks though. and I hate it. Ghost: I am prejudice towards ignorance, so that would explain why I appear to be so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
granddragon Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 Probably year eight. I was a fatass with a double chin, a fat wagon, huge man-boobs and a bad haircut. The other day, my mother showed me photos of myself from like two years ago and I couldn't believe how hideous I was. It made me realise that she was never being honest when she said I wasn't ugly ... I had only a couple of friends and people were constantly turning on me and talking behind my back. I never went out anywhere ... ever. If I did it was just because my parents wanted to get me out of the house. I joined a basketball team but I was a really, really bad player. My grades were average at best and in general I was unhappy with myself and my life. My relationship with my brother was deteriorating and I had no self-e-steem. But then I found music, and things began improving. I found a new group of friends whom I could relate to and I began to discover myself; who I was, my sexuality, what I thought, what my purpose was and what I wanted to do with myself. Granted, I still suffer from depression and still don't like myself much, but I see now how much of a loser and a failure I was then, and how much I've matured since then. Of course, this all seems whiney and miniscule in comparison to other's problems, but I can never see things for what they are. Hey man I was once there too, although ive slimmed down a lot my life hasnt changed much, except for the fact that people dont treat me as bad which feels a lot better. In highschool I guess they didnt think I could hear while sitting right next to them and that hurt a lot. I'm still way too quite, I never got over social anxiety and its ruining my life. But I guess its a little better cuz now I dont look totally out of place, before i was very noticable especially in size. Although I never dressed emo or goth. Now I just focus on getting in better shape, losing more weight, gaining more muscle and I pretty much keep to myself. I still dont have any "real" friends as I'm still discovering myself. I have a bro twin actually and he hates me cuz i dont wanna be like him oh and the fact that he weighs 100lbs more now.. I got the last laugh when he said I'd never be able to do it. but hes 6' 4" so he can pull off the overweight thing. So I guess Im not completly happy cuz I would like more people to talk to but I am happy with myself and what I've accomplished and the things I know I can do. And seriously guys you can do anything you want if you put your mind to it.. sounds cheesy but i realized it. Oh and dude this is not less than other problems on here, they dont know what being overweight can do to a person. And for everyone else who thinks fat people are always pissed, its because of you.. and remember they will always be able to kick your [wagon]!! 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 Life's not always a smooth ride. There have been bad times, friends and family have died and been killed but I try not to get depressed. I think to myself: "I have to pick myself up and be thankful for the great times and precious memories I have" and then I think, I haven't lost anything or anyone, they're part of my memories and part of my life. I'll never forget them and that's what keeps me going. I'd never try to kill myself, that's taking away the one thing I'm good at; living! :) When times get you down, you've got to dust yourself off and be the best damn person you can be. Whether that's being a friend, being a brother, mother, father, sister, brother, or even a pain in the bum, live; and make sure you're the best you can be. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1_man_army Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 This is slight off topic but, is it just me or does everyone get 'depressed' far too easily nowadays? Dont get me wrong, if a loved one dies or your parents get divorced etc. then obviously I can understand why somebody would be depressed and I genuinely do sympathise with what your going through. The thing that bugs me is when people get so down about the most silly things like "Oh my god I got an A minus what will I do!? My life is ruined" Sorry if that seems slightly insensitive to some people but it just irritates me sometimes. He who learns must suffer, and, even in our sleep, pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart,and in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Aeschylus (525 BC - 456 BC) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjiskebab5 Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 this may sound like i am a no lifer but...i hardly have friends and when i starded playing rs i just lost my friends and my girlfriend wich i had for 3 years...i played alot of rs in the begin but i played less and less when i got higher and higher Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjiskebab5 Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 This is slight off topic but, is it just me or does everyone get 'depressed' far too easily nowadays? Dont get me wrong, if a loved one dies or your parents get divorced etc. then obviously I can understand why somebody would be depressed and I genuinely do sympathise with what your going through. The thing that bugs me is when people get so down about the most silly things like "Oh my god I got an A minus what will I do!? My life is ruined" Sorry if that seems slightly insensitive to some people but it just irritates me sometimes. YES, the whole world is depressed...i gained 12kg on weight in 1 year :cry: , all because of my depression Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terley Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 the whole of high school, stuck in an all boys school with 80% of em jerks was kinda hard.. wasn't depressed though, wasn't a swat either, just got on with my work and stuck to my few mates.. came out top marks and im on my way to become an animator or graphic designer.. :D on the record, im not a arrogant, sarcastic, unsociable, threatening, stuck up or anything that would make me disliked, I just chose not to be the 'sheep', tryin to fit into crowds of people I don't like. my advice is not be anything else but yourself :wink: , too many people become depressed over worrying what people think of ya, and in turn you always end up worse off. peace - Ter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scruffy5389 Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 This is slight off topic but, is it just me or does everyone get 'depressed' far too easily nowadays? Dont get me wrong, if a loved one dies or your parents get divorced etc. then obviously I can understand why somebody would be depressed and I genuinely do sympathise with what your going through. The thing that bugs me is when people get so down about the most silly things like "Oh my god I got an A minus what will I do!? My life is ruined" Sorry if that seems slightly insensitive to some people but it just irritates me sometimes. Getting depressed over an A minus is generally pretty stupid. I agree with you. Generally. But growing up is tough stuff, and it's easy to find depression in seemingly stupid things. I don't think people are getting more depressed, I think people are just talking about their problems more than you've noticed before. A bunch of people have thought tenth grade was hardest, I think it's really that age group that's hard. Sweet sixteen really stinks. Dunno if Ive ever had a social slump. Ive been kind of frustrated before because of a really stupid medical condition, but nothing really depressing :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runescape_rocks Posted November 6, 2005 Share Posted November 6, 2005 Most of the Asians at my school(IÃâáÃÆÃÂ¥m one of them) go hardcore education life and we all pump our schedules up with AP classes, usually ten or more by the time weÃâáÃÆÃÂ¥re done with high school. This doesnÃâáÃÆÃÂ¥t exactly make us emo, but then again, most of us have deleted all social stuff like AIM to concentrate on our work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AThousandLies Posted November 6, 2005 Share Posted November 6, 2005 I'd also add that year nine and ten have been the two years in which I've gone from extremes ... everything going fine and being picture perfect to everything falling apart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hukaideez Posted November 6, 2005 Share Posted November 6, 2005 The last month has been a problem because I broke my ankle and couldn't get out much. On the plus side I saved a fortune from not going out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celeste Posted November 6, 2005 Share Posted November 6, 2005 My worest yeat well def. in the 8th grade...I was seperated from my friends, and put into a dumb class (I was in there with 3 people who failed, and a bunch of idiots). And even though I was making straight A's in there, I kept saying to myself, I'm dumb...why try? Even not trying I was making straight A's. But besides that, the only time I saw/talked to my friends was at lunch..and it made me "depressed" whenever they talked and laughed about something that happened in the previous class...and in my previous class I was just miserable. I KNEW I was put in there on accident, but kept it to myself. Then after that, I never ate, and always slept. As soon as I came home from school, I'd sleep, wake up..eat then go back to bed that night. I never wanted to go out, and basically just wanted to sleep. My family started noticing it, aswell as my teachers that I was basically just miserable at school. So after that I got my classes changed with my friends...the "smart" classes, and became an happy lil girl again :D Formly known as TheKat146.Retired in 2003 on RSC at combat level 111 <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted November 6, 2005 Share Posted November 6, 2005 Doing nothing but eat and sleep? You really do sound like a cat, Celeste :P Good to hear/read that everything got sorted :) This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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