Jealousy

[MyPurpleCrayon]

:? Id say having the password to your g/f or B/f's email acount, means that you get preatty jelouse and you dont trust the other person... i think in a realationship, one should still have privaicy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah I agree kinda... But it isn't having their password that makes you jealous, it is the fact that you would check it. There really is no reason for you to check it... besides for you to know what personal stuff is going on in their life, and that wouldn't really matter to you unless you think that they are invloved with other people.[/b]

[Guest GhostRanger]

I got the password to my girlfriend's email account once and I sent emails to her from herself. It was hysterical.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I guess that's kind of off-topic but I thought I'd share anyway. (This is the off-topic board afterall? Right? Ugh...terrible pun)

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since he doesn't get much time online anymore :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:o WellÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ãâæ wellÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ãâæ :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm obviously joking =P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love them typos, haha :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is why I don't like being redirected back to viewforum.php :(

[Lionheart_0]

 

:? Id say having the password to your g/f or B/f's email acount, means that you get preatty jelouse and you dont trust the other person... i think in a realationship, one should still have privaicy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I used to, but not anymore. Knowing that there's no chance that your SO would cheat on you increases the trust between the two of us. She trusts me way more than before now.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:? That kinda makes no sense, cause your mostlikely cheacking the email cause your jelouse of her talking to other guys, and therefor not trusting them and her talking, so you cheack it because you dont have trust.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

... and if you say its them you dont trust, and you do trust your g/f, you obviously dont, It takes two people to love, and even if a guy fell in love with her, it wouldnt work, cause she loves you, therfor meaning you should trust her no matter what....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This allll makes sense in my head.

[Faux]

 

 

 

:? That kinda makes no sense, cause your mostlikely cheacking the email cause your jelouse of her talking to other guys, and therefor not trusting them and her talking, so you cheack it because you dont have trust.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

... and if you say its them you dont trust, and you do trust your g/f, you obviously dont, It takes two people to love, and even if a guy fell in love with her, it wouldnt work, cause she loves you, therfor meaning you should trust her no matter what....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This allll makes sense in my head.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Some things doesn't have to make sense :wink:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We've been together for 8 months. No major fights. and haven't been close to breaking up yet so we're bound to be doing something right, yeah?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I find a lot of people foolish for not even trying to do something to re-assure theirselves that their SO (significant one) is not cheating. I've known people, some my friends, have been cheated on for a long time and they didn't even know it. Shows what trust can do, huh?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And fyi, no, I do not do that anymore. I've grown to trust her the past months and I don't find the need to check on her like that. I'm just saying that there's nothing wrong with it. Being careful with your heart isn't a bad thing.

[knives669]

 

I have my boyfriend's password to his email account, but, I don't check it. I trust him. :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Psst, he's cheating on you.

 

 

 

Don't check his e-mail. He's not hiding anything or not planning to have a date with your bestfriend or your sister :wink: :lol:

 

 

 

Psst, he's cheating on you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

since he doesn't get much time online anymore :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:o WellÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ãâæ wellÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ãâæ :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm obviously joking =P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lol. I highly doubt he's cheating on me... and if I get any suspicion that he is, I'll probably just do a little investigating without him knowing about it... :twisted:

[Althalus]

Well, I'm in the last months of my first term of University and I'm kinda feeling jealous of all the people in highschool, lol. Ya, ya, I know it'll get better but right now better seems really far away.

[tnuac]

It's perfectly natural to be slightly jealous, but some people get much more jealous than others. I can put myself in that situation and it sounds bad..there's no reason why you shouldn't get jealous.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You just have to learn how to not let jealousy overide you. The more jealous and spiteful you get, the more isolated you become. Forget about any jealous feelings and just focus on working harder. That's easier said than done, thats for sure. What else do you do besides acedemics? You are sure to have talent in something. Just find something you are good at and compete against people..you are sure to feel better about yourself as a person and you'll forget whatever spiteful feelings you had in biology.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tell your friend how you feel and maybe he/she will understand and help you to fight the jealousy. Nothing good comes from concealing what you really feel.

[hammerhand]

I never get jealus. Mostly because I seem to be the smart kid that the administration never seems to notice. Another reason is that I've seen my older brother date this girl for over 2 years and I've never been the least bit jealus. That really helped me when my friend started dateing someone (not someone I liked, but when you've never dated anyone that really doesn't matter). As it turned out I didn't have anything to be jealus of as they broke up in less then 2 weeks (It was 100% his fault too).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also I do have one major achivement. I won the 7th grade science fair. The kicker was that my project was a complete failure. I tried to build a simple power cell and I couldn't get it to generate a single watt of electicity. Yet mine was chosen the best out of over 100 students, almost all of which managed to make a working project.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The key to blocking jealusy is optimism. Some say Optimism is the key to happiness and I can tell you thats 100% true. Someone could shot my best friend and although I'd b very sad at first I'd learn to deal with it far faster then most other people would. Besides to me death is nothing to fear as it is not the end.

[tnuac]

thats all true..optimism does lead to happiness. Although you gotta learn when to control it. I know a Phillipinean gang member who said that "friends come and go" and that "winning a gang fight was more important than losing one friend". He wasn't even upset. That is taking optimism too far.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I got jealous when my friend, had no idea that he was doing it, but snatched a girl from me that I was going to ask out. I manage to deal with it and they broke up in 4 days anyway :)

[runesmithie]

 

 

 

3. Brains - Yes. I'll envy you if you have a great mind. If it's average or above average which close to mine, then I won't care. If a genius that is in my age comes along, then I get jealous.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I hear you :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

College is going to be tough for me, since I'm the smartest in my k-12 high school >.<

 

 

 

The mere thought of people being as smart as me makes me twinge :P

[trapical]

 

 

 

 

3. Brains - Yes. I'll envy you if you have a great mind. If it's average or above average which close to mine, then I won't care. If a genius that is in my age comes along, then I get jealous.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I hear you :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

College is going to be tough for me, since I'm the smartest in my k-12 high school >.<

 

 

 

The mere thought of people being as smart as me makes me twinge :P

 

 

 

I know how you felt. I was voted "smartest in my class" and look at my prior post... It does kinda suck, I'm not gonna lie. What's your major? Computer Sci?

[runesmithie]

 

 

 

 

 

3. Brains - Yes. I'll envy you if you have a great mind. If it's average or above average which close to mine, then I won't care. If a genius that is in my age comes along, then I get jealous.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I hear you :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

College is going to be tough for me, since I'm the smartest in my k-12 high school >.<

 

 

 

The mere thought of people being as smart as me makes me twinge :P

 

 

 

I know how you felt. I was voted "smartest in my class" and look at my prior post... It does kinda suck, I'm not gonna lie. What's your major? Computer Sci?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm a junior in HS right now :P

 

 

 

I'm hoping to try an engineering major with a Computer Sci minor, so I have a feeling I'll be dwarfed by a few people at the very least

[logic-is-overrated]

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I have to agree with the brains. I think i'm a pretty smart guy and I usually get good grades. But those 1 or 2 kids who never take notes, never study, and never pay attention and then come out with high A's in all these advance classes, it makes me a tad bit envious.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But besides that i'm pretty content.

[mad4u689]

At my high school, there were also awards with small scholarships given out at graduation. I was one of the best math students and probably the best girl in my grade, but I suppose that's debatable... I participated in lots of math competitions and such. And then one of my good friends, who was higher in class rank than I was but not as good in math, got the department award. I was irrationally angry at her (she didn't choose it) and jealous and it made me sad.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

She also got a large scholarship for people intending to major in French that she applied for. She in no way intended to major in French >.> Sigh, whatever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So yeah, to answer your question, I get easily jealous. I'm a pretty shy and socially awkward chick, so when I see supersmart and bubbly people, even if they're friends of mine, I still can't help but get jealous.

[runesmithie]

To add on to what trapical said

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It does get annoying when you know you are the best in your class at something (in my case a lot, but this certain instance it would be computers). One day a teacher was having problems with a computer and of course everyone said some other kid should help him. To this day I have no idea why they think he was so proficient with computers (he didn't even help the teacher).