I completely agree with you Racheya. The thing is, I don't feel that someone should do whatever they feel like, whether it'd be good or bad, then expect people to give them symphony.

 

 

Yeah, who should expect symphony?

 

 

As for who posts this on a game forum, this is off-topic - which means it has prerequisite of being related to the game in any way shape or form.

 

"ZOMGOD I made a spelling mistake it was my fault plz forgive me I'm sorry"

Still, you should go to somewhere that would actually give real help, like a psychologist.

Yeah, I agree. It doesn't mean we shouldn't be sympathetic.

Still, you should go to somewhere that would actually give real help, like a psychologist.

Sometimes it helps to vent your problems. I'm sure she is looking for feedback, but the process of typing that whole thing up was probably a little relieving as well. And besides, seeing a psychologist multiple times = $$. Tip.it's OT forum = free.

Yeah, I agree. It doesn't mean we shouldn't be sympathetic.

 

I can see what you mean.

 

Still, you should go to somewhere that would actually give real help, like a psychologist.

Sometimes it helps to vent your problems. I'm sure she is looking for feedback, but the process of typing that whole thing up was probably a little relieving as well. And besides, seeing a psychologist multiple times = $$. Tip.it's OT forum = free.

 

That made me grin. :P

Leave it to tip.it to turn a "my life sucks" thread into an argument.

 

OT: Cry moar. Seriously, it's been proven to be psychologically helpful.

OT: Cry moar. Seriously, it's been proven to be psychologically helpful.

After I read cry moar, I thought you were trying to be a dbag. Then I read the second part, and I have to laugh at myself for assuming the worst.

That's quite the rough patch.

 

You have my sympathies, condolences and care.

 

*hug*

 

The answer to either scenario makes you out to be a jackass, and you're not a jackass. So what's the real deal here?

 

I don't feel that my advice is being a jackass. I feel my advice is truly going to help.

 

I'm not gonna help by saying "Awww hun, its okay!" "Cry your head on my shoulder, you can lean on me for emotional support!"

 

All that crap is made up.

 

The best help you can give yourself if to realize what you can change and what you cant. If you can change something, then stop crying about it and change it. If you can't, then stop crying about it and don't let it ruin your life. That is the way I see it.

 

I bet you have quite a bit of friends with that attitude :rolleyes:

 

 

The right thing to say is "Aww hun, im sorry :(, however you did screw up and you will have to face the consequences of your mistake, if you choose to keep it you will have a constant reminer of him, if you choose to get rid of it you might feel guilt still. etc" Thats real advice, while being supportive.

 

Acting like a jack ass doesnt accomplish anything buddy.

 

I disagree with you Ring, and I do believe Wepon is correct.

Leave it to tip.it to turn a "my life sucks" thread into an argument.

 

OT: Cry moar. Seriously, it's been proven to be psychologically helpful.

I was told at secondary school that crying was good, for women who are hormonal, because it gets the hormones out of your system :P

 

But yes, if you need to cry you shouldn't hold it in.