my english is bad dont nag about it i try my best tnx :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

since the start of the new schoolyear things went great. i love school and all the things around it since im doing computer technics and its really cool and not much time spending in a chair listening to a teacher but more working.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

things are normal at home, got cool friends and stuff and i got an great music taste (metalrock but i like death/black metal the most) somethimes there are concerts around my village and i visit them allways with my dad who is also a great metal lover (when we are at those concerts we are good friends in stead of family :P )

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

things went really really really well. i had a week vacation when a new semester started at school, i got in new classes since half the students where stage (dont know englsih word its like working at a company for school)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i could not wait since we would get php and javascript lessons.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

well friday there was a concert of 4 bands and one of my friends who i knew trough my previous school was playing there so double reasons to come.

 

 

 

im very shy in real life and i noticed this cute looking girl looking at me... i started to look back but we didnt talked the enitre evening... but when i went home with the train (hey im not gonna let my dad drive so i can get drunk and he not its cool to get both drunk :P )

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and i saw the girl to i went to sit next to her on purpose and finaly we started a chat she told me she was in the same class as my mate who had to play that evening....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

when i was home i realised i didnt asked her name, phone and msn i talked with her like i knew her for ages.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i felt sooo stupid and sad i didnt care for anything... i did not eat anything (yeah bathsault but thats just coz i am a freak and i wanted to know if diffirent colours mean diffirent tatses :?)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

now is it a coincidense (>.< aaah my english is bad ) i live very close to that school

 

 

 

i walk every day pas it and today i saw her but didnt had the guts to talk to her...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

now im at home and i feel myself really small not just physically but also emotionally....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i dont know why but i had the urge to post this i feel so stupid....

YOu had the guts to sit to her by the train and talk to her, why no guts now???? Just be like hey i remember you from the train, how has it been going....

YOu had the guts to sit to her by the train and talk to her, why no guts now???? Just be like hey i remember you from the train, how has it been going....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I can't edit that post :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I would say go for it and get her :D

Ask your friend for her msn.

i wish i saw him again

i wish i saw him again

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Give him a phonecall, send him an e-mail, vissit him at school. Or just ask the girl again.

The first contact-moment is the hardest. Now you basically know her, so you have something to talk about. Get yourself together, man.

Like How2pk said, somehow get her msn, get chatting to her, and try to meet her with a few friends or something if you're not wholly confident at first. See how it goes, and good luck :)

Well, prior to the girl meeting incident, you seem a good, level headed and, above all, emotionally stable young man. A lot of the times on these forums people post for girl advice and they are clearly neither mature nor ready enough for a relationship. You sound like you could be, so that's a plus. :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don't feel stupid about posting this. You probably needed a place to vent your mixed feelings and posting on a forum is comparatively safe. I mean, the worst thing that can happen here is a few flames and then a locking, which is nothing compared to real life outcomes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What do you wish to know, what to do about this girl or what you think is wrong with you? The two may well be related but it would help if we knew your true agenda first. Most people here a good people to take advice on, but remember, advice is all we can give and can only level what your instinct tells you. Trust yourself in the decision you eventually make and go for it 100%.

I'd say ask your friend for her contact and meet up with her again. And if it doesn't work out, she's at another school, no?

Wize words spoken by Bubsa , as usual :wink:

i feel so much better now i got contact with her :)

Important question: How much alchohol did you consume.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THAT I'm guessing would be the reason you were so free to talk to her the first tiime. ( alhtough you descrption make " so free" not sound very free at all). However, you got the icebreaker, now you just have to hold interest. Even when your driving by her as you go to school, just slow down and give her a simple greeting, just some integration into her life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But just a note of caution first, you may want your friend to make sure she is single before you try anything too risque. I can see disaster looming if you don't.

yeah i was kinda drunk that evening, and i talked with me friend... his first reply was when i started about her "yeah she told me u spoke to her...she asked quite a lot about u :P"

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

its just my problem im such a coward :(

You and a good chunk of the decent male gender

It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nothing would be done at all if a man waited until he could do it so well that no one could find fault with it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him. -- Brendan Francis

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So in other words, go for it.

my advice is to use every cheesy pick up line ya have untill you look like a compleate tossa and then blame it all on teh grog.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:twisted:

 

 

 

el patto

 

It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nothing would be done at all if a man waited until he could do it so well that no one could find fault with it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him. -- Brendan Francis

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So in other words, go for it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

that actually made gave me some confidence

my advice is to use every cheesy pick up line ya have untill you look like a compleate tossa and then blame it all on teh grog.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:twisted:

 

 

 

el patto

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

oh god no. Not if you are trying for a relationship...

my advice is to use every cheesy pick up line ya have untill you look like a compleate tossa and then blame it all on teh grog.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:twisted:

 

 

 

el patto

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My advice is not to listen to this guy.

:) according to my friend she likes me a lot according to his its a "great chance" of getting something :)

Just be brave and go to talk to her by yourself or try getting her phone number from someone/somewhere. It might be a bit hard to go to her and start a chat, but believe me. It starts to bother you more if you haven't even tried than if you have tried and failed.

Do it my way, let her come after you.

im going with her to a party tomorrow she asked me :) i even canceled my team tommorow just for her :) i cant wait :)