d-von Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 well i posted a few weeks ago a topic about this girl an di was in love and to shy and stuff, but well yeah a few days after that topic we went out and she's my girl now but thats not why i make this topic, its becouse something is bugging me now a few days. i had this week a holliday but im really pissed off becouse we didnt saw eachother this week and yeseterday there was a very cool band around and i really wanted to go there. so i asked her but no she started to nag about how to get there and stuff, a friend of mine was goint here also with the train so why dont we go with the train i asked. when she suddenly said she had plans with an friend of her :wall: i know she liked that band but she said "she didnt wanted to" i also know she talks a lot about me with another firend of mine but my friend wont tell anything wich makes it harder for me to guess what she's thinking. im not sure what to do now i just could dump her and get a new chick, i kinda noticed how many ladies where trying to talk to me yesterday while i was headbanging.. but still. i dont know what to do, i like my girlfriend but there are things really annoying me... i post this becouse i am noot ashamed of my situation and i kinda like to tell my problems to the world it kinda helps me not everybody wants to hear the bubblegum pop garbage.im gonna burn in hell and drink all of satans beer.trashmetal/deathmetal/hardrock/folkmetal die hard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 It really sounds to me like she didn't want to really tell you the reason why she didn't want to go. Just be patient with her. Sit her down, tell her that you would really like to talk to her, be open and reasonable with her, and tell her that you are confused about why she didn't want to go with you. It also sounds like you need to keep your friends and your girlfriend a bit separated. It's not good for her to be talking about you to your friends, and your friend's not wanting to tell you what she's saying makes me think even more that he may have a thing for her. Plus, she shouldn't be keeping secrets from you... Proves she doesn't really trust you. I hope things work out for the both of you. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomato Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 Be a man about it and confront her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scruffy5389 Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 i post this becouse i am noot ashamed of my situation and i kinda like to tell my problems to the world it kinda helps me You should keep a journal. At the end of each day, write down stuff about how you're feeling. If you're confused about something like this, it always feels good to siddown and lay it all out in writing. If you still need to share with the world, that's fine, you might get answers. I just thought I'd mention...I keep a journal and it sounds to me like you might like to try it. As for the girl... if you're not talkin to her, if you can't communicate with her, you need to either try and start communicating, or if that doesn't work out then find another girl. Just my two cents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhFour Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 well i posted a few weeks ago a topic about this girl an di was in love and to shy and stuff, but well yeah a few days after that topic we went out and she's my girl now but thats not why i make this topic, its becouse something is bugging me now a few days. i had this week a holliday but im really pissed off becouse we didnt saw eachother this week and yeseterday there was a very cool band around and i really wanted to go there. so i asked her but no she started to nag about how to get there and stuff, a friend of mine was goint here also with the train so why dont we go with the train i asked. when she suddenly said she had plans with an friend of her :wall: i know she liked that band but she said "she didnt wanted to" i also know she talks a lot about me with another firend of mine but my friend wont tell anything wich makes it harder for me to guess what she's thinking. im not sure what to do now i just could dump her and get a new chick, i kinda noticed how many ladies where trying to talk to me yesterday while i was headbanging.. but still. i dont know what to do, i like my girlfriend but there are things really annoying me... i post this becouse i am noot ashamed of my situation and i kinda like to tell my problems to the world it kinda helps me Sorry but that sentence made me laugh... Anyway, confront her, or if you are scared to do it in R/L infront of her. Use phone or msn. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Death_By_Pod Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 well i posted a few weeks ago a topic about this girl an di was in love and to shy and stuff, but well yeah a few days after that topic we went out and she's my girl now ThatÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s a little concerning, you don't own your girlfriend; she mutually chose to spend time with you. From your post it seems she isn't that interested in you, she makes no effort in finding the time to do something together. Sometimes you go out with someone and find out you don't want to go out with them again, it sounds like that is what she is experiencing. The best advice is to tell her how you feel, maybe she thinks ignoring you is ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bloodkilla87 Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 im not sure what to do now i just could dump her and get a new chick, i kinda noticed how many ladies where trying to talk to me yesterday while i was headbanging.. but still. Similar thing happened to me, sort of. I was inline at subway and talking to my friend but looking over at some girls and i nodded my head as in to say hey, but i was actually saying lets go over there then to my friend. And then the girls waved at me. I was just like, supppppppppppppppp :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freesy Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Actually, calling your girlfriend your girl is what they did in the 70's-80's. Havent you seen the Grease type movies? So I'm not concerned about that. But anyways, I would just wait for Monday to come around. Tell her about your friend that won't talk to you and ask her what's up. Chances are she's too shy to tell you, much as you were with her. Listen to these other people too. They all gave out good advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brandon_N Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. Have an empty feeling you can't get rid of?Visit Here Saddest Song Ever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
assassin_696 Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 You're thinking of dumping a girl you really like because she didn't want to go see one band with you? I'm doubting if you really like this girl that much if you would dump her over something like that. Step back and look at what you've got. "Da mihi castitatem et continentam, sed noli modo" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ice_ring Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. That made me LOL :) I say just talk to her, and see what happens, obviously you don't care that much about the relationship so whatever :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoshi161 Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 If she likes you like you say, play hard to get. Don't talk to her or call her let her come to you :lol: . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jabraulter Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 well i posted a few weeks ago a topic about this girl an di was in love and to shy and stuff, but well yeah a few days after that topic we went out and she's my girl now ThatÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s a little concerning, you don't own your girlfriend; she mutually chose to spend time with you. From your post it seems she isn't that interested in you, she makes no effort in finding the time to do something together. Sometimes you go out with someone and find out you don't want to go out with them again, it sounds like that is what she is experiencing. The best advice is to tell her how you feel, maybe she thinks ignoring you is ok. I was going to say it if someone else didn't. And you weren't in love, just infatuation. And, so what she didn't go out with you the first couple of days/weeks after you guys started dating. Maybe she just didn't feel like hanging out that night. Remeber, she still has a life outside of you. It bothers me when a girl expects you to call her every single night and talk for hours...that seems kinda of demanding and controlling. So don't be demanding and controlling. Let her do what she wants (of course in reason, you know what I mean). I'm suer things will work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crimsonlizard Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. u gives a flying (explicit) bout spellin ...and brother ...comunication...open da mouth at speak to her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhFour Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. u gives a flying (explicit) bout spellin ...and brother ...comunication...open da mouth at speak to her I thin you ment... "Who gives a flying cabbage about spelling? And brother, communication. Open the mouth and speak to her."? Also, I care about spelling... I need to understand the person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. u gives a flying (explicit) bout spellin ...and brother ...comunication...open da mouth at speak to her I thin you ment... "Who gives a flying cabbage about spelling? And brother, communication. Open the mouth and speak to her."? Also, I care about spelling... I need to understand the person. Well, usually when you talk you er...SPEAK to each other and not spell >.< This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
logic-is-overrated Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. u gives a flying (explicit) bout spellin ...and brother ...comunication...open da mouth at speak to her I thin you ment... "Who gives a flying cabbage about spelling? And brother, communication. Open the mouth and speak to her."? Also, I care about spelling... I need to understand the person. Well, usually when you talk you er...SPEAK to each other and not spell >.<when you say talk...you mean like...to a real life girl...like real communication with a real life girl...woah dude you be crazy This is the way the world ends. Look at this [bleep]ing shit we're in man. Not with a bang, but with a whimper. And with a whimper, I'm splitting, Jack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nadril Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 You should not be ashamed of your situation. Be ashamed of your spelling. u gives a flying (explicit) bout spellin ...and brother ...comunication...open da mouth at speak to her I thin you ment... "Who gives a flying cabbage about spelling? And brother, communication. Open the mouth and speak to her."? Also, I care about spelling... I need to understand the person. Well, usually when you talk you er...SPEAK to each other and not spell >.<when you say talk...you mean like...to a real life girl...like real communication with a real life girl...woah dude you be crazy Yeah man, that bubsa and his crazy ideas. What will he come up with next... I think everyone fairly summed it up (the origonal poster) , just talk with her about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dark_ice Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Well, judging by your writing styles I believe I can safely assume that you are of the younger teen persuasion. (Unless of course you're from another country, in which English isn't the native tongue, correct me if i'm wrong =) ) Anyways, in the 12-13ish years most relationships aren't all that serious and the majority of the time will have no influence on the rest of your life. I say, stay single until you meet a girl that you just can't stand to be without! But, if you do date other girls that you only 'sorta' like or whatever then remember not to take it all so seriously like so many teens today do :? Advice: stay single, experience life....and girls without being tied down to just one! =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardsfan Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Well, judging by your writing styles I believe I can safely assume that you are of the younger teen persuasion. (Unless of course you're from another country, in which English isn't the native tongue, correct me if i'm wrong =) ) Anyways, in the 12-13ish years most relationships aren't all that serious and the majority of the time will have no influence on the rest of your life. I say, stay single until you meet a girl that you just can't stand to be without! But, if you do date other girls that you only 'sorta' like or whatever then remember not to take it all so seriously like so many teens today do :? Advice: stay single, experience life....and girls without being tied down to just one! =)exactly what i was gonna say! the truth about most adolescent relationships is that you dont know what you're looking for. Most kids of my age (and probably yours), dont know what makes a good relationship, and thus it falls apart, leaving you in agony, because you werent ready to handle, and didnt know what a relationship was about. so yea, stay single until theres that one person who is perfect *points to romeo and juliet* R.I.P. Shiva Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercifull Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Romeo and Juliet is a bad example lol. For a start were there supposed to be like 13 or 14. Then they killed themselves over each other lol. Not really good to tell ppl to follow their lead :P Mercifull <3 Suzi "We don't want players to be able to buy their way to success in RuneScape. If we let players start doing this, it devalues RuneScape for others. We feel your status in real-life shouldn't affect your ability to be successful in RuneScape" Jagex 01/04/01 - 02/03/12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercifull Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Romeo and Juliet is a bad example lol. For a start were there supposed to be like 13 or 14. Then they killed themselves over each other lol. Not really good to tell ppl to follow their lead :P Mercifull <3 Suzi "We don't want players to be able to buy their way to success in RuneScape. If we let players start doing this, it devalues RuneScape for others. We feel your status in real-life shouldn't affect your ability to be successful in RuneScape" Jagex 01/04/01 - 02/03/12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketman089 Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 I would think being in relationships at a young age is a good thing. The more you know about the opposite sex, the less youll screw up when it comes time for a real relationship. Gamertag: King Arizona Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
d-von Posted February 28, 2006 Author Share Posted February 28, 2006 im 17... and dutch, i'm just really bad in english, and other languages i get at school. cant help it, im doing my best to write proper english not everybody wants to hear the bubblegum pop garbage.im gonna burn in hell and drink all of satans beer.trashmetal/deathmetal/hardrock/folkmetal die hard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Well, usually when you talk you er...SPEAK to each other and not spell >.<when you say talk...you mean like...to a real life girl...like real communication with a real life girl...woah dude you be crazy Yeah man, that bubsa and his crazy ideas. What will he come up with next... I think everyone fairly summed it up (the origonal poster) , just talk with her about it. Skittle cakes with skittle champagne! :P Make those cavaties all the more bigger. Hehehe, I love 6th form. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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