soupnatizzle Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 my best freind is moving away and i find myself much more unhappy then i thought i would be. im really upset and i hate it. i dont even know why im posting hear i just really needed to right this down and talk about it somehow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anesthesia Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 It's hard at first but it is part of life. Most importantly it's not the end of the world. Some people are changed by being a moderator. I wouldn't be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No_OnE Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 Two of my friends have moved recently. They're both only about 30min to an hour away now but it still sucks. One of them moved because his parents got a divorce and the other moved because they wanted a bigger house. It's not that bad if they still live kind of close. You won't seem them as much but you'll see them enough. I would hate to have a friend move far far way though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 always look at the bright side of life. you have other friends. the person that moved away will always (well,..) be your friend (sometimes). just stay in touch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 Lost all of my friends when I moved. You just sort of get used to it. Re-connected with an old friend and met a bunch of new people. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_k0m0d0_ Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I moved from my born city and I lost 80% of my friends, but the other 20% I still have contact, I go there everytime and see them. I made new friends when I moved, some still my friends some not (Those pseudo-friends...thanks god). I have friends from school, friends from other schools.... It's in fact sad loosing a good friend, but depends on ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_trinity_11 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 just stay in touch The four key words in his post. JUST STAY IN TOUCH . And, if you have msn keep in touch using that or if it's not long distance you can always call him. If it is long distance call once every 3 weeks or so. And in the summer/christmas/easter/any holidays just ask him to visit you/go visit him :D Hope it works out : Good luck PLAY this awesome game...Clicky Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____ Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 One of my friends got hit and killed by a train in 2000. At least yours isn't gone forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 My best friend moved away two years ago. I still see her, I still talk to her. Just not as often. My other best friend is moving day after tomorrow... Things won't change much. Remember that people always go their seperate ways at some point. I'm sure your friend will always remember you. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WutangFlu Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nadril Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Every two years to be exact. Only exceptions was one I kept form the last place I lived (hang out with him on ventrilo all the time) and the same thing for someone when I lived in germany. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oy_the_Great Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 One of my friends got hit and killed by a train in 2000. At least yours isn't gone forever. Indeed. How on Earth can you be upset about a friend moving? When I went to uni I moved away from all of my friends but I had the time of my life. He'll get to know new people and so will you. Bill Hicks[/url]":dhj2kan9]Since the one thing we can say about fundamental matter is, that it is vibrating. And since all vibrations are theoretically sound, then it is not unreasonable to suggest that the universe is music and should be perceived as such. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katha610 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 The four key words in his post. JUST STAY IN TOUCH . HER post... (just to make that clear) :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edicius Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I feel like I have now, because I've been such a bad friend. It was really only something that happened yesterday, still, but ugh. I hope things get better :cry: Yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete_the_Viscous Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I've lost best friends on numerous occasions. They all still exist, mind -- none of them have died. I've lost them due to my moving, their moving, etc., and our drifting apart because of this. Seeing as we're all moving to different parts of the country now for uni, I'll be moving away from all my latest friends, which is annoying... but I plan on keeping in touch with -- ha -- at least some of them, who are unique (not in the sense that everyone is unique; rather, that there aren't people like them elsewhere). Whenever I'm about to finish a school, I start thinking "oh teh noes, I shall miss so-and-so and so-and-so!" -- just people with whom I know I shan't keep in touch, but do consider as friends... but then after a day of not seeing them, I realise I don't actually miss them at all, nice people though they may be. It was nice seeing them when getting results, though. deviantart account Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randox Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I had a best friend, we grew up on the same street. he moved away, but by the time he did I was happy about it (when he left we wernt friends). I have seen him only twice science then, we can still get along for a short time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigra00 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 You won't see eachother in person, but with Myspace and the internet and stuff, it won't be that big of a deal, you can still talk daily. It's a lot worse when you have no way to communicate...Some of my friends moved away before the internet was really big...Haven't talked to them since. The popularity of any given religion today depends on the victories of the wars they fought in the past. - Me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 One of my friends got hit and killed by a train in 2000. At least yours isn't gone forever. Similarly, I've lost a good friend to a wreckless drink-driver. I'm sure rick will agree with me here when I say that the statement isn't to demean your situation, or for mourning to be directed towards myself rather than you. I'm just trying to put things in perspective for you. Who knows when you may meet again in this crazy world? Well, you may know if you keep in touch by some sort of communication. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ctp080188 Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 I agree with most people on here, you have to make the effort to keep in touch. I've lost many friends after moving to uni just by lack of contact, and now it's just too weird speaking to them again. Feels like I have nothing in common with them any more. Make the effort and you will be fine. SHH HUT YUH MUH. DERKHED. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____ Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Similarly, I've lost a good friend to a wreckless drink-driver. I'm sure rick will agree with me here when I say that the statement isn't to demean your situation, or for mourning to be directed towards myself rather than you. I'm just trying to put things in perspective for you. Who knows when you may meet again in this crazy world? Well, you may know if you keep in touch by some sort of communication.Exactly. Most of the people I was friends with in primary / high school I couldn't give a toss about anymore. The good friends (moved away or not) are still my friends because we made the effort to keep in touch. If they don't want to keep channels of communication open, then I'm sorry to say that apparently they didn't value the friendship as much as you did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nadril Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Exactly. Most of the people I was friends with in primary / high school I couldn't give a toss about anymore. The good friends (moved away or not) are still my friends because we made the effort to keep in touch. If they don't want to keep channels of communication open, then I'm sorry to say that apparently they didn't value the friendship as much as you did. Exactly. Over my years I have kept 2 friends from places I've moved away from, and both of them I am great freinds with. One of them I play MMO's with every day, so I talk to him hours each day. The other I also play games with online :D. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sebbeberg Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 My sister.. :3> 30;th March 06 in a car accident. :wall: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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